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1. Introduction: Start with the live farce
In the live broadcast room, Brother Monkey said Che, an Internet celebrity who is famous for evaluating luxury cars, but at the moment his face is full of fatigue and his eyes are flashing. There was a middle-aged man sitting next to him, and netizens quickly recognized that it was his father-in-law.
"A lot of things are family affairs......" Brother Monkey spoke a little slurred, as if he was trying his best to organize the language, and as if he was deliberately avoiding something. He admitted that he was not mature enough in this marriage and was too emotional, and said that he had realized his mistake and returned home.
This response seems sincere, but it still can't calm the discussion of netizens.
Back a few days ago, Brother Monkey's wife, He Yuxin, burst into tears in the live broadcast room, accusing Brother Monkey of not wanting to have children, being inconsiderate of his wife, and even moving out of his home for half a year.
As soon as the news came out, public opinion was in an uproar. The once loving couple's character collapsed, and was replaced by overwhelming accusations and abuse from netizens.
Brother Monkey said that the car marriage incident, just like that, starting from a live farce, quickly fermented into a hot social topic for the whole people.
2. In the spotlight: the "grievances and hatreds" of Internet celebrity couples
The love story of Brother Monkey and He Yuxin used to envy others. When the two met at the end of Weimo, they supported them all the way, and eventually became leaders in their respective fields. With his humorous style and professional interpretation of cars, Brother Monkey has quickly accumulated a large number of fans and has become a leading Internet celebrity in the field of car evaluation. He Yuxin also relied on her beautiful appearance and excellent eloquence to flourish in the live broadcast industry.
However, this seemingly perfect marriage revealed its fragility in He Yuxin's crying.
According to He Yuxin in the live broadcast room, the two have been married for two years, and Brother Monkey has been reluctant to have children, which has become the fuse for the quarrel between the two. In addition, He Yuxin also hinted that Brother Monkey's living habits have not changed after marriage and he does not pay attention to body management, which makes her feel disappointed and dissatisfied.
What made netizens even more angry was that He Yuxin claimed that Brother Monkey had taken cold violence against her, and even moved out of the home shared by the two for half a year. On the special day of the second wedding anniversary, only netizens remembered, but Brother Monkey did not say anything.
In the face of his wife's accusations, Brother Monkey chose to remain silent. However, with the continuous fermentation of public opinion, he finally started the live broadcast response accompanied by his father-in-law.
During the live broadcast, Brother Monkey's words flickered, avoiding the important and trivial, he admitted that he was wrong, but did not respond positively to He Yuxin's specific accusations. He just emphasized that many things are family affairs, and there is no one right or wrong between husband and wife, and he hopes that everyone will not pay too much attention to it.
However, netizens didn't buy it. They questioned Brother Monkey's intentions, believing that he was only forced by the pressure of public opinion to make a gesture of compromise. Some netizens pointed out that Brother Monkey and He Yuxin are likely to deliberately hype up the topic of marriage change in order to gain traffic.
3. Marriage siege: true feelings or traffic password?
Brother Monkey said that the car marriage incident is like a mirror, reflecting the complex mentality of the current society towards Internet celebrity couples, traffic and marriage.
On the one hand, people are willing to spy on the private lives of public figures, especially the love lives of celebrities and Internet celebrities, who are full of curiosity and gossip. The marriage incident between Brother Monkey and He Yuxin undoubtedly satisfied the voyeuristic desires of some netizens and gave them one more thing to talk about after dinner.
On the other hand, people also question the "loving persona" of Internet celebrity couples. In the era when traffic is king, more and more Internet celebrity couples choose to put their private lives on the Internet in order to gain attention and commercial benefits. However, this overexposure also makes their love life full of performance elements, making it difficult to distinguish between the real and the fake.
In Brother Monkey's car marriage incident, many netizens questioned that this was just a well-planned "script". They pointed out that every time He Yuxin talked about emotional problems, the volume of goods in the live broadcast room would increase significantly. With this kind of coincidence, it is difficult not to suspect that the two are using the topic of marriage change to carry out commercial hype.
Some netizens found out that before the marriage incident, Brother Monkey and He Yuxin often staged a "husband and wife quarrel" in the live broadcast room to attract the attention of fans.
Although there is no conclusive evidence for these doubts, they also reflect the distrust of some netizens towards Internet celebrity couples. They believe that in the face of traffic and interests, many Internet celebrity couples have long left their sincerity and feelings behind.
However, some netizens choose to believe that the relationship between Brother Monkey and He Yuxin is real. They believe that it is normal for couples to have conflicts and quarrels. Even public figures need their own personal space to face and solve problems in life.
Brother Monkey said that the car marriage incident is like a Rashomon, everyone has their own interpretation, and what the truth is, I'm afraid only the parties themselves know.
Fourth, the whetstone of marriage: from friction to "mutual foam"
Brother Monkey said that although it is difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood, Brother Monkey has also triggered people's deep thinking about marriage relationships.
Marriage is never easy. Two people from different family backgrounds and with different upbringing experiences will inevitably experience various frictions and challenges in order to build and maintain an intimate relationship together.
Just as Brother Monkey and He Yuxin faced, fertility problems, differences in living habits, differences in family backgrounds, etc., are all common contradictions in marriage. These problems, if not handled well, may become the last straw that crushes the marriage.
Traditionally, marriage is a matter of two families. However, with the development of society and the change of people's ideology, more and more young people have begun to pursue the independence of marriage, hoping to get rid of the shackles of the original family and establish their own small family.
Brother Monkey also mentioned in the live broadcast that "many things are family matters", which seems to imply that the conflict between him and He Yuxin is related to family factors.
Indeed, in real life, many conflicts between husband and wife stem from the intervention and intervention of both families. Excessive concern from parents and fingers from relatives may become the "fuse" of the relationship between husband and wife.
However, marriage is ultimately a matter of two people. Husband and wife are the main body of this relationship, and only they can really solve problems and find ways to get along with each other.
Running a marriage requires the joint efforts of both parties.
First of all, it is necessary to strengthen communication, express your thoughts and feelings frankly, and avoid escalating conflicts due to misunderstanding and suspicion.
Second, learn to understand and tolerate each other. Everyone's growth environment and personality traits are different, and there will inevitably be friction and collisions.
Finally, we must take responsibility together, whether it is a trivial family matter or a life decision, we must participate and bear it together.
Marriage is like a whetstone, which requires both parties to continue to run in before they can finally "get along" and go through life hand in hand.
5. The enlightenment of Brother Monkey's car incident: Internet celebrity couples, traffic and marriage
Brother Monkey said that the car marriage incident has come to an end. Regardless of the final result, this incident is a wake-up call for all Internet celebrity couples, as well as netizens who follow them.
For Internet celebrity couples, it needs to be understood that real happiness is more important than traffic and personality. Overexposing one's private life, although it can bring temporary attention and benefits, can also make one's love life lose privacy and space, and even become the object of consumption and attack by others.
Managing your marriage well and protecting your family is what Internet celebrity couples should pay the most attention to.
For the majority of netizens, it is also necessary to look at the life of Internet celebrity couples rationally, not to over-consume their privacy, and not to judge their feelings easily.
Everyone's life has its own ups and downs, and Internet celebrities are no exception.
We should give them more understanding and respect, so that they can have their own happiness and joy outside the spotlight.
Brother Monkey said that the car incident also reminds us that marriage needs to be managed carefully, and happiness needs to be guarded together. Whether it is an Internet celebrity couple or an ordinary person, you must cherish the people in front of you and cherish the hard-won love and affection.
I hope that Brother Monkey and He Yuxin can truly solve the problems between them and find their own path to happiness. I also hope that all those who pay attention to this matter can learn from it, cherish their marriage more, and manage their happiness with their hearts.
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Brother Monkey said Che Douyin