Before the long holiday, the parents who were gearing up did a few days of strategy, confidently thinking that they could take their babies to the mountains and rivers, but when they arrived at the destination, they found that "if you don't come out to play, you won't die, and you will have a ...... when you come out to play death"
"Take my son on a trip abroad,
The result is to dig sand abroad! ”
The holiday season isn't over yet
Ms. Zhou from Hangzhou
A long list of complaints
During this National Day holiday, Ms. Zhou's family went to Southeast Asia, taking a cruise ship, going to sea for diving, and various activities were full, but her son, who was in the first grade of primary school, did not buy it, "I didn't play anything, and I thought about going back to the hotel to dig sand on the beach all day long." ”
Ms. Zhou felt that it was a pity: "With so many attractions not playing, sitting on the boat absent-mindedly, taking pictures of him, shrugging his shoulders, with a reluctant face, we had to accommodate him and change a lot of itineraries." ”
"People who have come over" shared:
There's no need to go, because it's all forgot
Ms. Zhou's mental journey, as a "person who has come over", Hao's mother deeply agrees: "Traveling with a baby, as long as you eat and have fun." If the child is too young, there is really no need to take it abroad or go to see places of interest, because they have forgotten it. ”
When her son Hao Hao went to kindergarten, Hao's mother also thought that the child should travel thousands of miles from an early age to increase his knowledge. As soon as she had a holiday, she took her baby to travel to various places, but she couldn't cry or laugh: "I have been to Xi'an, he only remembers walking the city wall and eating mutton soup buns and meat buns, and the terracotta warriors and horses only have a vague impression." I have been to Chengdu and only remember the giant pandas, but Dujiangyan does not remember anything. ”
"It is recommended to take the child to travel for a real time after the third grade." Hao's mother said, "From the fourth grade, it is very useful to take him to see all kinds of places of interest, and he will have his own feelings." This year, when he was on the first day of junior high school, the family went to the ancient village of Nanxijiang on National Day, and when he came back, his son immediately wrote an essay on the traditional culture of Zhejiang, which belonged to the fun and gain. In the past two summer vacations, he went to Shanxi to see ancient buildings at his son's request, and the route was also set by himself. ”
Traveling with a baby is "no hard to eat"?
100 babies have 100 kinds of non-cooperation
Speaking of the anger experienced by traveling with a baby
Many parents
There is a stomach full of bitter water to pour
Some babies prefer hotels to attractions:
Only eat takeout
Follow the air conditioner in the hotel while watching TV
It's really fun
Take the baby to see famous attractions
From grabbing tickets to waking up early
From the strategy to the route, everything is finally done
It's quite astounding to imagine seeing the sights
As a result, the baby had no waves all the way
Only to find out in the end
For the baby
Go out and buy an ice cream
is the ultimate goal
After eating, I want to go home and go back to the hotel
It is inevitable to queue up when you go out
Regardless of the brigade squad
The baby is asking every minute, "How much longer?" ”
Patience that adults know
Getting to the kids becomes the ultimate problem in the universe
There is also the baby's concern
Never to be expected:
Beautiful lakes are most fun to throw stones
The cigarette card on the ground is the most attractive......
If you don't bring it out to play, you will feel that the holiday is rare
If you bring it out, you will feel that your life is precious
Parents couldn't help but clutch their chests and ask:
Why do we travel with children?
Does it make sense to travel around with kids?
How to travel with a baby to make sense?
In fact, on social platforms, some netizens have pointed out some misunderstandings about traveling with babies.
A netizen asked rhetorically: "Don't parents usually understand their children?" When you go out to travel, you should also take your child's preferences into account. ”
He said that his baby is very afraid of heat, so he tries to arrange indoor activities, and travels mainly by taxi, and the outdoor itinerary is scheduled as much as possible in the morning and evening, and in the morning and afternoon it is either indoors or in the hotel.
"There will always be emergencies when you come out to travel, even if everything is set at this time, you must be relieved to suspend the day's itinerary, and don't blame the child if you don't complete your psychological expectations."
Please put away these misunderstandings and suggestions for traveling with a baby-
The first type: blindly follow the trend and travel with the baby
[Misunderstanding] "When others take their children on trips, I also take them on trips, and when others let their children participate in study tours, I also let them participate." ”
Many parents take their children on trips, and the real purpose is not to let their children gain knowledge, but to compare with "long knowledge".
For example, in a parent group, one of the parents said that their children would sign up for a study tour during the holidays, and many parents followed to sign up.
These parents seem to be worried about their children's "long knowledge", but in fact, they are comparing with each other.
In the end, these parents spend money, children spend time, and it hardly plays a positive role in the child's development.
The second type: consumption hedonistic travel with a baby
[Misunderstanding] "When you go out to travel, you should choose a 'fun' place, go to a 'high-end' place, and be willing to spend money to gain knowledge." ”
Some parents take their children on a trip, and they really want their children to grow knowledge, but they don't know what kind of knowledge they should let their children grow and what is considered to be long-term knowledge.
Therefore, adhering to the viewpoint of "expensive is good", I took my children from this playground to that amusement park, from this five-star hotel to that luxury homestay, ate the food here, bought the specialties there, experienced this entertainment project, and felt that high-end sports.
In fact, extravagant travel content does not allow children to really grow knowledge, but rather encourages children's comparativeness.
The third type: traveling with a baby
[Myth] "Visit the most scenic spots in the shortest time, and the more places your child goes, the greater the harvest." ”
In order to take photos and post on Moments, some parents will hurriedly find "Internet celebrity spots" to take pictures of each scenic spot, but they don't realize what the real purpose of bringing their children here is.
Parent-child travel is not what the so-called "efficient" is wanted, and visiting the most scenic spots in the shortest time is not what parent-child travel should be.
When traveling with children, it is necessary for children to experience foreign lands, experience nature and culture, and understand knowledge.
So, what kind of trip is good for kids?
High-quality accompaniment
That's what travel is all about
During the trip, communicate with your children at any time and share the joy of traveling with each other, I believe that this will add more warm atmosphere to the trip and make the trip go on more smoothly.
Participate in your child's activities and games, fully communicate your feelings, and the company of parents will provide your child with a sense of security. Children with a strong sense of security are more confident, friendlier, grow up more smoothly, have more friends, and have better relationships.
Promote your child's sense of involvement
Cultivate his sense of responsibility
Before departure, children and parents prepare travel supplies together, and different things need to be prepared to go to different places.
For example, if you are going to go to the beach to play, you must wear sunglasses, sun-protective clothing, swimsuits and swimming rings related to swimming; Prepare to go hiking, what kind of clothes and shoes to wear, etc.
Food for hunger on the road, toys to pass the time in the car, etc., children's things can be packed separately by children, put in a bag, and be responsible for carrying them.
The process of children's participation can cultivate children's preparation ability, planning and sense of responsibility.
Let the child have
A deep travel experience
"Read 10,000 books, travel 10,000 miles", most parents want to take their children to travel the mountains and rivers of the motherland, feel the customs of other places, and increase their knowledge.
Every time we go to an attraction, we need to let the child feel the meaning that the attraction can bring to the child.
For example, when you take your child to the museum, don't just take pictures, but take your child to listen to the explanation, read the introduction, understand the knowledge and culture, know the mysteries, and let the child gain something.
The purpose of real parent-child travel is to let children gain growth experience, so that children can feel the love of their parents in the process of traveling, get the in-depth companionship of their parents, and harvest love and growth after traveling.
Have you ever had the same experience?
What do you think?
Source: Chao News, China Education Daily, Qilu Evening News, netizen comments, etc
Editor-in-charge: Li Jiani
Editor: Anne Xu