Advanced Hunter: Gain true love as a prey
In the world of feelings, there is a saying that says, "The best hunters often appear as prey." This quote profoundly reveals the mystery of the hunter's mind, especially in love. In order to catch up with the object of affection, in fact, sometimes you need to know how to "show weakness", just like a hunter understands his prey, and approaches the target through imitation and adaptation.
There is a special name for this skill in psychology - the weak effect. To put it simply, in a relationship, we must learn to let go of our attitude and make ourselves closer to the emotional frequency of the other party, so as to gain the favor of the other party.
In intimate relationships, girls show weakness appropriately, not only to get closer to each other, but also to some extent to satisfy the man's self-esteem. This kind of interaction allows two people to become more intimate in the spark of feelings. Although it is said that women chase men, those high-level hunters know that even if they have a crush on a boy, they must let him take the initiative to chase them. Sometimes, deliberately turning yourself into a prey can reap more unexpected sweetness.
A girl in Hunan knows the truth. In a blind date, she used some small ideas to make each other's feelings warm up quickly, just like a well-choreographed game. As we all know, girls are usually more direct in expressing their liking, while boys are more reserved. When faced with the object of their affection, although they are anxious, they are also prone to hesitate because they are afraid that their actions will be too reckless, so they are more inclined to be cautious and tentative.
Take this girl, for example, who met a boy on a blind date. Although they both had a good impression of each other and decided to further their relationship, after all, at the beginning, the attitude of boys towards girls remained at the level of etiquette. In order to create an opportunity, he decides to take the girl to a barbecue restaurant and find an opportunity to close the gap while enjoying the food.
Sitting in a lively barbecue restaurant, the table is full of strings of fragrant barbecue, but the girl is feasting and eating. But the boy's mind had already flown to another place. He took the opportunity to pretend to stretch and casually put his arms behind the girl, hoping to take the opportunity to increase intimacy.
However, this little action of the boy is actually a bit clumsy. Although he wanted to be bold, he was worried that he would accidentally scare the girl, so he hesitated to move his arms. Although he pretended to be inadvertent, the reality was that the girl had already noticed his "careful thoughts".
When the boy withdrew his arm again, the girl inadvertently caught a glimpse of his performance, and secretly laughed in her heart. Seeing that he was a little deflated, the girl found it heartwarming and funny, and wanted to tell him that there was no need to be so worried, and that it was okay to be bold once in a while. But as a girl, she didn't want to be too direct, so she had an idea and decided to use her actions to give the boy a signal.
She picked up her glass, pretended to take a sip, and then pretended to be relieved that she had a slight headache, and leaned on the boy's shoulder. This move simply broke the awkward atmosphere between the two in minutes. The boy was instantly surrounded by surprise and hurriedly hugged the girl's shoulder.
He was originally hesitant, and because of the girl's move, the defense line in his heart collapsed instantly. I got the courage to start interacting more with the girl. Although they are all staging such a "show of weakness" drama, no one has exposed anyone, and the whole process is like two tacit actors performing on stage.
In this process, the girl thought to herself: "It's rare to be confused", and it is this relaxed and humorous atmosphere that makes both parties feel a kind of relaxed happiness. It is in this state that the natural shyness of the girl and the bravery of the boy's constant temptation are superimposed, and instead form a more intimate connection.
When someone saw this, they couldn't help but sigh: "I can see that I usually get drunk when I smell wine, and I can't see that I can drink a table." This subtle interaction can be described as "high-end hunters always appear in the form of prey". In this seemingly simple barbecue, the two gradually drew each other's hearts closer through delicate emotional games.
Perhaps, you will think that this method is a little tricky, but in the world of feelings, such mutual temptation and tacit understanding undoubtedly deepens the relationship between the two. Many people may feel the familiar atmosphere in the process, and understand that each other is tacitly interpreting their own love story.
Love in life is like a gorgeous dance, and everyone wants to find that compatible partner in it. You can choose to put down your posture and meet the pursuit of your other half as a prey; You can also slowly get closer to each other through some small means to build a new tacit understanding and intimacy.
In fact, in this story, the interaction between the two protagonists is not only a display of personal charm, but also an exchange of wisdom. As many people say, in a relationship, people who know how to show weakness and take the initiative at the right time are often able to reach each other's hearts more easily.
So, sometimes don't be afraid to lower your posture and become that "prey", you may find that the emotions gained in this way will make you cherish every moment with the other person even more. In the emotional arena, it doesn't matter who is the real hunter and who is the prey, the important thing is that each other can find resonance in this game and have that sweet sense of happiness.