Hello everyone, I am the family education instructor Guo Ma~
Less than a month after the start of the first grade of pistachio, a small math quiz was conducted.
I still remember the night before the test, Pistachio was a little apprehensive: "Mom, I have to take the exam tomorrow, if I can't score 100 points, will you be dissatisfied?" ”
It seems that the "might" of the old mother is a bit great.
The next day after school to pick up the pistachio, obviously felt that her mood was a little low, asked the reason to know, the pistachio thought for a moment and said, "Mom, I may not get a perfect score." ”
Guo Ma: "Well, why? ”
Pistachio: "There was a question that I didn't hear clearly when the teacher read the question, but fortunately I knew a few words, and then I read and did it myself, but there was one word, I wasn't sure if I recognized it correctly!" ”
That night, Pistachio asked again: "Mom, if I score 96 points, are you satisfied?" ”
Immediately, Guo's mother told Pistachio: "It doesn't matter if your mother is not satisfied, the important thing is that you are satisfied?" Have you studied hard and have you taken this exam seriously? ”
Pistachio said: "Although I took it seriously, I was not satisfied. ”
On the third day, the test paper was distributed, and sure enough, the pistachio test scored 96 points, and she knew which question she was wrong.
In fact, Guo's mother also understands that what Pistachio really wants to ask is not that Guo's mother is not satisfied, but that she wants to relieve her nervousness through our relaxed emotions.
She's too strong.
The first exam in the first grade, the first exam in her life, holding the test paper, a little melancholy, Guo's mother asked: "Do you know what you should do if you don't get a satisfactory result?" ”
Pistachio thought for a while, but didn't think of an answer.
Guo's mother told her: "You should find the reason why you didn't do well in the exam, and you can avoid it as much as possible next time, right?" ”
The pistachio was finally happy, and the reason was soon discovered: the literacy was too small, which led to the wrong understanding of the reading questions.
Pistachio, who became happy, also began to talk about the results of her classmates, for example, her table mate scored 82 points, for example, there was a child in the class who scored more than 60 points, and of course, one in five children scored full marks.
Guo's mother is actually quite different, and the math teacher's exam is actually very simple.
It is not so much an exam as the teacher is testing the children's "ability" and letting parents know where to pay attention to their children's learning.
Guo's mother also saw the reason why the children have widened the gap since they were young from such a simple exam.
Less than a month into the first year, the exams were already polarised, and after studying the papers, I understood where the gap was
In the short term, the reason for the polarization of children's grades is really different from IQ, these reasons are the key, and parents can also check their children from these aspects.
First and foremost, it's focus
Pistachio said that he didn't hear the teacher's topic clearly, and there is a possibility of this.
However, there is another reason why I don't hear the teacher clearly, and that is that I don't have enough "concentration".
The teacher talked in front, and the child listened and listened, and when he came back to his senses, the teacher had finished reading the questions.
Although with the increase of children's literacy in the future, there is no need to rely on teachers and parents to read questions, but the essence of this problem lies in "concentration", and parents still need to pay attention to it.
Children with poor concentration are not only reflected in the test questions, but also in the class and lectures.
In a class of 40 minutes, children with good concentration can hear everything, and children with poor concentration may only hear for 10 minutes, and the gap between the children will gradually widen!
Therefore, if concentration is poor, it is necessary to train concentration more.
Secondly, there is comprehension
First-grade children have just come from kindergarten, and sometimes, the imagination in their brains really makes parents cry and laugh.
Take this question for example.
The comparison is the length of the snake and the crocodile.
The idea of solving the problem is that although the snake and the crocodile look the same length, because the snake goes around in a circle and the crocodile is straight, the total length of the snake is longer than that of the crocodile.
But the children of Guo's mother's friend said this: the breed of snakes is different, and the length is also different, so some snakes are longer than crocodiles, and some snakes are shorter than crocodiles, and the answer to this question is uncertain.
Bao's mother's brain was blank, and she suddenly didn't know how to teach.
Although the first grade questions are relatively simple, they require children to have a certain degree of thinking and understanding, and if a "small trap" in the question is not found from time to time, then it is easy to make mistakes.
Therefore, Guo's mother thinks that children still need to do some follow-up questions after class, one is to consolidate knowledge points, and the other is to exercise thinking ability and understanding of topics.
Thinking ability and comprehension will be widened, and the gap between children will become wider and wider.
Finally, there is literacy
This is indeed what our pistachios lack.
In terms of literacy, pistachios have reached nearly 1,000 literacy, but to be honest, they have not yet reached the point of reading questions independently.
Literacy, from an early age, is related to whether children can read and do questions independently.
Literacy, in the big picture, is related to the amount of reading a child has.
The gap between independent learning ability + reading amount is also the opening of children's academic performance.
Therefore, in the first grade, Guo Ma's goal is to achieve 2K+ literacy with pistachios.
Of course, you can't become fat by eating in one bite, and this literacy has to be taken slowly.
The first-grade children have now passed the enlightenment stage of Chinese characters, and Guo's mother feels that if she wants to improve her literacy, the two methods are the most reliable.
One is to improve in reading, and it is the most natural way to recognize words while reading.
However, this week, Pistachio has fallen in love with a way of recognizing words, being interested, gaining knowledge, and quickly improving literacy, using this "Preschool Literacy 16003D Stereoscopic Flip Book".
Although it is said to be preschool literacy, for many children who have already entered the first grade, the literacy may not reach these 1600 words, so it is very good to use this book during this "transition" time period.
The child likes it, and remembers it quickly.
Every page of this book is a big scene, and the pictures are very rich, including nature, cities, families, traditional culture, common sense of life, etc., so that the learning of Chinese characters is more three-dimensional and systematic.
The words in this are also very common, such as 1,600 high-frequency words in life, scenes, nature, characters, poems, etc.
The pictures in the book are very exciting, the combination of pictures and texts, so that children can use both the left and right brains, carry out associative memory, and quickly establish a picture and text library, so that children can recognize words faster, remember more accurately and firmly.
And the design of the book's page-turning also makes literacy more interesting and less boring.
Pistachio fights for a month to get these 1600 words!
Guo's mother thinks that if you have a first-grade child in the family and your literacy is less than 1000, you can try this book, which can quickly improve your literacy, just need!
If you have already passed 1000 and like to read, then you can read in reading!
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In the end, Guo Ma wanted to say:
When teachers test their children, parents should not only pay attention to the grades, but also what the children are currently lacking, so that they can have the goal and direction of their efforts!
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