Introduction: During the Mid-Autumn Festival, my mother-in-law asked me to cook for 14 people, but no one helped me, I ran away in anger, and they asked me to pay 3,000

My name is Liu Xiumei, and on the occasion of the Mid-Autumn Festival, I was faced with the complicated dilemma of a family dinner, and the eight members of my mother-in-law's family gathered at my house without any preparation, hoping that I could prepare a feast with 10 dishes on my own, implying the perfection and harmony of the festival.

However, as I dragged my shopping cart full of ingredients back with a struggle, I was greeted by the laughter of my family in the living room, no one reaching out to help, and the home was a little messy due to the children's play.

My mother-in-law even directly instructed me to cook immediately, and I felt stressed in the face of such a heavy cooking task, especially in the hot heat, busy alone in the stuffy kitchen, sweat soaked my clothes, and the indifferent attitude of my husband and family made me feel cold.

I tried to seek my husband's help, but I was ignored. Calling for help from my mother-in-law, sister-in-law, and concubine was like a stone in the sea, and they seemed to turn a deaf ear to my calls, and even deliberately raised the volume of conversation and laughter.

This feeling of being treated as an outsider to the family, coupled with the fact that the Mid-Autumn Festival is supposed to be a time of reunion and joy, I feel as if I have become a babysitter who provides free service, and the anger in my heart is difficult to quell.

In the end, I decided not to hold back, and resolutely left home with the precious ingredients that had not yet been cooked, and ran back to my mother's house 80 kilometers away by car, just to find my own peace and festive warmth.

When I arrived at my mother's home, I confided in my mother, who not only gave me understanding and support, but also promised to prepare a hearty dinner for me, making me feel at home. Faced with the bombardment of phone calls and message urging from my in-laws, I chose to ignore it, and even turned off my phone to avoid further emotional conflicts.

My mother-in-law even tried to persuade me to return through my mother, but my mother stood firmly on my side, defended my rights and choices as an independent individual, and made it clear that every woman should have the right to enjoy her own happy time during the Mid-Autumn Festival, without being bound by family roles.

My mother and sister-in-law finished preparing dinner almost at the same time, and cordially called me to dinner, which made my eyes moisten and my heart swelled with warmth.

I enjoyed the effortless reunion, and after the meal, my father and brother took the initiative to clean up the dishes and chopsticks and tidy up the house. I lay down on the sofa leisurely, and my mother and sister-in-law immediately sat down beside me and chatted about family life, and the leisure and pleasure were indescribable.

Although I didn't bring too many gifts on this trip, I gave my mother 600 yuan and prepared 200 yuan red envelopes for each of my two nephews. What is touching is that the children who are concerned about my mother actually packed the 600 yuan into two red envelopes and handed them back to me, saying that they are for the children's hearts. I know that this is my mother's love for me, and this feeling of being cared for is especially precious.

Afterwards, I took a few extra days off and enjoyed a quiet and comfortable time at my mother's house. However, as the comfort faded, the longing for my children and the sense of responsibility for my work made me decide to return home.

That day, I was angry and brought vegetables back to my parents' house, my mother-in-law's family had no one to serve, and my husband felt that he had lost face, so he took the family to a big meal, deliberately sent it to the family group and circle of friends, and showed it off to me by the way. Tell me that they eat better without me, it cost more than 3000.

In the past, my husband and in-laws treated me well, otherwise I would not have had two children with him, but with two children, they slowly made inches, and let me do all the work at home.

My in-laws glared at me fiercely and said, "You ran away, our family's Mid-Autumn Festival reunion dinner was disturbed by you, and it cost us more than 3,000 yuan to eat a meal, and you must pay for it, and you must also compensate for the good dishes at home to your mother's family." Hurry up and bring it, or don't try to enter my house again.

My husband also said to me: "You are really too selfish, the family is waiting for you to cook during the Mid-Autumn Festival, and you will leave." Don't want me to give you money in the future, don't spend my money when you're so capable! ”

I argued: "We bought the house after we got married, and I have a share." You are only more than 6,000, the mortgage is 2,500, and you spend more than 1,000 to give me 2,500 living expenses, I have to raise two children, and I have to take care of the food, drink, housing and transportation of a family of 6, the family's electricity bills, network bills, and water bills, and my own monthly salary of more than 3,000 yuan are pasted in.

I have to take care of the children and do housework when I go home, you give me 2500, and when I go home, I will be an uncle, and I speak in a tone as if I give me hundreds of thousands of dollars a month, as if I have taken advantage of you, why? Touch your conscience yourself, and it doesn't hurt your conscience when you say this? Why do you want me to pay for your family's meal? I will never give it. ”

The husband was annoyed and yelled: "You get out of here!" ”

The two children were scared and crying at home, I didn't dare to quarrel with my husband, I also thought about divorce, but one of them was 6 years old, and the other was only 2 and a half years old, I couldn't bear them, what should I do?

Friends, do you think I should pay for my mother-in-law's family's meals? In other words, would you choose to pay for it? #在婆家的心酸事##月圆话中秋#

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