"Those who comfort the poor will always be poor, and those who hate the rich will not be rich."
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It's really a lot of people who are popular.
After the Olympics, Quan Hongchan's popularity has not diminished, and her every move will be infinitely amplified.
Two days ago, she was directly scolded by netizens for wearing a 300,000 Rolex watch.
Accusations poured in, as if she had done something heinous.
Quan Hongchan floated and began to know that she enjoyed life, such a person was destined to be spurned.
Where did Quan Hongchan get so much money? Isn't there anyone looking for it?
It turned out that Quan Hongchan's poverty was faked, she deceived the feelings of the whole people, and she must be condemned.
Money can buy external luxury, but it can't buy inner knowledge, upbringing, pattern and realm.
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These remarks were like a sharp sword, viciously stabbing at this 17-year-old girl.
Because of a photo, she was labeled as extravagant and showing off her wealth.
However, the truth of the matter is that this watch is not hers at all, it belongs to swimmer Yang Hao.
Don't say that this watch is not Quanmei's, even if it is hers, it is what people deserve.
The whole sister stood on the top podium of the Olympic Games twice and won numerous honors for the country.
Her success is the result of countless days and nights of hard training; Her honor was bought with sweat and tears.
If she is not qualified to enjoy the beauty of life, who else is more qualified than her?
Because she is Quan Hongchan, she used to be poor, so even if she becomes famous, she should remain poor.
This is a typical hatred of the rich.
It is really dirty to slander Quan Hongchan with a hatred of the rich mentality.
There are always some people in society who, once they see others crossing the class, feel like they have been stepped on by the tail.
Then he will say some vitriolic remarks, and his words and deeds will reveal full of malice.
To put it bluntly, I don't have the ability or don't want to work hard, and I can't see others living better than me.
reminds me of a joke that has been widely circulated on the Internet.
A father and son were walking down the street when they saw a luxury imported sedan.
The son pointed to the luxury car and said to his father: You see that the person who sits in this kind of car must have no knowledge in his stomach, and he is either a nouveau riche or a rich second generation.
The father did not echo his son, but told him solemnly: The person who says such things must have no money in his pocket, and he is either a wage earner or a poor dick.
After hearing this, the son immediately lowered his head in shame.
Hatred of the rich is a disease of poverty.
I can't make money myself, and I don't want to see others rich, so I'm always hostile to rich people.
In fact, what they really hate is not the rich, but the inability to become rich.
What they really hate is not the rich, but why they don't hate the rich.
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As a veteran netizen, I found that many people are very "double standard".
When they see actors and influencers making millions a day, they will jump out and say: It's really unfair, when can our scientists make so much money.
But when scientists do make money, they don't feel good.
On the 125th anniversary of the founding of Sichuan University, Professor Liu Jin, director of the Anesthesiology and Surgery Center of West China Hospital, donated 100 million yuan to the hospital.
Professor Liu Jin is not an entrepreneur, nor is he a celebrity Internet celebrity, seeing that he, as a scientific researcher, actually donated 100 million yuan, netizens couldn't sit still.
"Strict investigation, there must be serious corruption from it, and it will hurt us young people."
"A professor, a professor engaged in scientific research, how did he earn so much money?"
After reading the comments of netizens, it really makes people speechless.
Let me tell you how Professor Liu Jin's 100 million came from, and whether he deserves so much money.
As a well-known clinical anesthesiology expert in mainland China, Professor Liu Jin has safely and effectively completed nearly 20,000 cases of anesthesia.
He is the head of the Department of Anesthesiology ranked No. 1 in the country, and about 5% of the young anesthesiologists and about 40% of the directors of the Department of Anesthesiology in the country are trained in the professional base of the Department of Anesthesiology where Professor Liu Jin is located.
West China Hospital and professional institutions have signed two patent licenses and project cooperation development, with a total contract amount of 750 million yuan.
Later, Professor Liu Jin led the team to develop two new anesthetic drugs, so he received a reward of 100 million yuan.
In other words, this money is not his salary, but the income from scientific research.
Professor Liu Jin, a person who has made significant contributions to medicine, doesn't he deserve to receive a scientific research award of 100 million yuan?
Should heroes be destitute and generate electricity with love?
There is a "moneyless personality disorder" in psychology.
The biggest characteristic of this type of person is first of all that they have no money, and then they are paranoid, lazy and vitriol.
The so-called poor and poor are talking about this kind of people.
Even if others earn money with their own hands, he feels that this money is not clean.
There was a popular article on the Internet, called "Why don't you drive a BMW back to the countryside?" 》
When the successful entrepreneur returned to his hometown during the Spring Festival, the villagers saw him driving a BMW and flocked to him.
In a poor rural place, many people's mindset suddenly changes when they see a brand-new BMW.
Someone came to borrow money, and the boss was forced to lend it to several families.
Because he didn't bring enough cash, he refused to borrow money from anyone who came later.
As a result, the next day, rumors spread in the village that his money came from unknown sources, and that he was raising women outside the bread.
And the BMW he parked in front of his house was also marked beyond recognition.
When you meet the weak and poor, you can't bear it; When you meet a strong and wealthy, you are unwilling, this is human nature.
There is a saying that when people ask you if you are doing well, the purpose is not to know how you are doing, but to know that you are not doing well as him.
Those who comfort the poor will always be poor, and those who hate the rich will not be rich.
It's not terrible to have no money, but it's terrible to think of the poor who have no money and blindly hate the rich.
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Brand marketer Sun Qin shared a small story.
Last year, a business partner asked her out for dinner.
During this period, the two talked about the high consumption of the rich, but they did not expect their friends to be indignant and harbor a deep hatred for the rich.
Afterwards, Sun Qin gradually decided not to cooperate with him anymore.
Because she has always insisted on one point of view: people who have a hatred of the rich are not destined to be rich.
If you hate the rich and always stand on the opposite side of the rich, how can you make money and become rich?
There is no kind of wealth in this world that will befall those who hate it.
There is no opportunity to favor those who curse, complain, and hate.
If you want to be rich, not only should you not hate the rich, but on the contrary, you should respect the rich.
The so-called respect for wealth is to respect and learn the way of thinking, work habits and treatment of the rich people.
The richman's greatest asset is not the numbers on his account, but his different way of thinking.
If you can't accept this idea, then you will stay in a poor mind forever.
There is a passage in "The Road to Wealth and Freedom":
"A person who has never seen the sea cannot accurately describe what the sea looks like. Just like a man who has never been rich, he must learn more from the rich in order to be rich. ”
If you want to become rich, you must first learn the thinking of the rich, and then use the thinking of the rich to do things.
"China Entrepreneur" magazine interviewed Huang Zheng, and Huang Zheng shared Duan Yongping's influence on his career.
Huang Zheng was born at the grassroots, he called Duan Yongping his life mentor, and in the process of getting along with each other, he learned two points.
The first point is that an important lesson he learned from Duan Yongping is called "duty".
Huang Zheng explained: Because the cost of trust between people is high. It would be very powerful if people could do their part, or if they could build a system that allowed them to trust each other.
At the beginning of his business, many people were unconditionally willing to work with him, and what he valued was his "duty".
The second point is about investment thinking.
For many companies, advertising is an expense reflected in the financial statements.
But Duan Yongping told him that if marketing is used well, it is not consumption, but an investment.
Therefore, after the establishment of Pinduoduo, Huang Zheng did not hesitate to spend a lot of money, and quickly opened up his popularity by sponsoring 13 popular programs such as "Extreme Challenge" and "Happy Camp".
Huang Zheng said bluntly: It is undeniable that my thinking was influenced by Duan Yongping's business thinking.
What kind of people you are with, what kind of pattern and thinking you have.
If people at the bottom want to climb up, they have to pass two hurdles:
The first hurdle is the hurdle of hating the rich.
Another hurdle is that whoever is excellent should learn from whom, rather than who is excellent and belittles whom.
If you want to get rich, you must fear the rich and learn something from the rich.
Only by learning to think like the rich and cultivate the habit of becoming rich can you live a prosperous life.
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Finally, I would like to share with you a passage from writer Zhou Chong:
Hatred of the rich is powerless and stupid.
It doesn't give you a chance, earn respect, and add a dime to your card. On the contrary, it will blind you, delay you, and destroy you.
Acknowledge the existence of the gap between the rich and the poor, and use all your mind and ability to close the gap.
It may be a long process, but only by working in this direction, day by day, will you slowly be reborn.
Source: "One Book Per Night"
Author: Nightly muye
Editor: Jing Chen
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