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In 2018, when 40-year-old Qin Lan was urged by the media to marry and give birth, she replied domineeringly: "Whether my uterus is used or not, what does it matter to you?" As soon as this remark came out, public opinion was in an uproar. Is she happy now?
When it comes to Qin Lan, her performances in "Zhihua" and "Luping" are impressive. In recent years, she has once again become one of the best 40+ actresses with her role as Queen Fucha in "Yanxi Raiders".
It's just that with such a glorious acting career, she has experienced 3 relationships, but she is still unmarried.
In 1979, Qin Lan was born in an ordinary family in Shenyang, Liaoning Province.
She was born a beautiful embryo, and she was praised everywhere she went, and the photos she took in her childhood were once magnified by the photo studio and placed in the most conspicuous position.
In the year of the college entrance examination, Qin Lan was admitted to a local university majoring in accounting.
Soon after entering school, she participated in a model contest at the instigation of her friends, and became famous because of it, and was favored by Qiong Yao, and played Zhihua in "Huanzhu Gege: Heaven and Earth".
After the show was broadcast, Qin Lan officially entered the public eye and became a well-known actor.
At the same time, she slowly became familiar with Huang Xiaoming, who played "Xiao Jian" in the play, and when filming "Dragon Ticket" in 2004, the two came together.
It's just that, due to the restrictions of the contract rules, Qin Lan must hide her feelings so as not to affect her image in the hearts of fans. Therefore, she and Huang Xiaoming started an "unsightly" underground relationship.
In 2006, Huang Xiaoming had a car accident during filming. Qin Lan was so anxious when she learned about it, she put down all the work in her hand and rushed to the hospital to accompany her boyfriend.
A week later, Huang Xiaoming's condition improved, and Qin Lan rushed to the filming location non-stop to continue working.
Huang Xiaoming was very dissatisfied with this.
On the phone, he kept complaining: "As a lover, it's okay to get together less and hide more, but when I need you the most, you are full of work!"
Qin Lan was also very helpless, so she could only explain patiently.
However, before the contradiction between the young couple was resolved, the news of their love was exposed. Qin Lan, who was in a loss, could only grit her teeth and pay more than 10 million liquidated damages, which also set a record of filming 6 dramas a year.
And it was Huang Xiaoming who really brought this relationship to a dead end.
When he was filming, he had a close relationship with actress Li Feier. After Qin Lan found out, she directly chose to break up.
Three years later, Lu Chuan was filming "Nanjing! Nanjing", the two sparked love in the process of discussing the script, and Qin Lan fell in love with this man who was 7 years older than her.
Soon after the official start of filming, Lu Chuan's filming funds were insufficient, so he had to temporarily disband the crew and go out to attract investment.
Qin Lan looked at Lu Chuan, who was frowning, and took the initiative to take out her savings to help her boyfriend tide over the difficulties.
Although the final box office results were not satisfactory, after this incident, the relationship between the two became more and more stable.
During the 4 years they were together, Lu Chuan proposed to Qin Lan 4 times, but she refused on the grounds of developing her career.
In Qin Lan's heart, she has always adhered to the marriage concept of "one couple for a lifetime". has seen too many examples of divorce after marriage in the circle, and she wants to wait until she is ready to make plans to get married.
Unexpectedly, this decision pushed my lover further. Lu Chuan didn't want to continue to suffer in a fruitless relationship, so he took the initiative to break up.
At the end of 2013, Lu Chuan married CCTV anchor Hu Die and had a son.
After returning to be single, Qin Lan put more energy into her career, not only had a breakthrough performance in "The King of Crossover Comedy", but also won numerous awards for the role of "Queen Fucha", and returned to the public eye with her superb acting skills.
In 2022, Qin Lan fell in love with Wei Daxun, who was 10 years younger, and once again detonated the topic of "sister and brother love". Many netizens are not optimistic about this relationship, but Qin Lan is willing to be happy and happy.
Qin Lan, who is fair-skinned and beautiful, has unnatural figures, and her acting skills and resources are above Wei Daxun, for her, why not start a new relationship after 10 years?
On the other hand, Wei Daxun, after being with Qin Lan, may have been guided by his sister, and he was comfortable in portraying the role of "Meng Yanchen", and there was a new turning point in his career.
Love is like air, it is indispensable spiritual food for everyone.
Qin Lan's dedication in the process of chasing love is also a true portrayal of many girls.
When she was young, she longed for vigorous love, and in order to take care of her injured boyfriend, she filmed frantically to compensate tens of millions of liquidated damages; In order to support her boyfriend's career, she took out all her savings; In order to pursue the uniqueness of marriage, he dodges so much that he misses the person in front of him.
The difference is that Qin Lan, who is not yet married at the age of confusion, faces the fingers of others, she calmly and domineeringly fights back, making women with the same experience extremely comfortable in their hearts.
I hope that every girl can be equally free and easy when she experiences the doubts of outsiders.
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Introduction: Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, intermediate social worker, well-known emotional self-media person. I have wine, do you have a story?