When he was 24 years old, the guy whose family was in Xiguan, Xi'an, worked in the hospital preparation room during the day and opened an Internet café at night. He has his own business, and he is also in a relationship with a Beijing girl.
Suddenly, one day, his body collapsed. Like a young horse, running to explore the borders of the world, suddenly fate casts a rope and knocks it to the ground.
In the years that followed, he was in the hospital. His father died of an occupational illness and he picked him up from the hospital. His mother's mental illness relapsed, and he accompanied his mother to get treatment and medicine. At the age of 26, he had a kidney transplant, and six or seven years later, the transplant failed, and more than a decade later, he went to the hospital three times a week for dialysis......
Where is the path of salvation for fate? Here is the answer given by Liang Yong.
The first half of his life
Liang Yong was born in 1973 and is 51 years old this year. Mr. Cha, a former neighbor, said that if Liang Yong's past life is made into a TV series, he can shoot 40 episodes.
The plot of the first few episodes is relatively flat. Liang Yong's father was a soldier who participated in the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea at the age of 15. After returning from the battlefield, he began working at the Far Eastern Hospital in 1956. Liang Yong's mother left school at the age of 12 or 13 due to family difficulties to work as a temporary worker in a shoe factory, and at the age of 17, she entered the No. 3 Northwest Cotton Factory and is an advanced producer at the factory level.
(Liang Yong holds a photo of his father's youth, he looks a lot like his father)
After Liang Yong was born, his physical fitness was not as strong as that of his age. He was diagnosed with "chorea" at a very young age and had not yet learned to walk in kindergarten. At the age of 8, he contracted polio again. My mother remembered that when Liang Yong was in elementary school, a classmate in his class had hepatitis A, and Liang Yong was the first to be infected because of his weak constitution.
After graduating from junior high school, Liang Yong entered the society and worked hard. He is curious about new things, exposed to computers, and the stock market, and the energy of young people seems to be inexhaustible.
The plot of his life has taken a big turn since he was 24 years old. The people around him, including himself, could not have imagined that he would suffer from uremia.
Liang Yong's first symptoms were dizziness, inability to eat and drink. At that time, he was working in the preparation room of the Far Eastern Hospital, and the water that his body drank was sprayed out of his mouth.
At the suggestion of a colleague, he had his kidney function tested. Later, he went to the Second Affiliated Hospital of Xi'an Jiaotong University for renal puncture and was diagnosed with renal interstitial lesions. About a year later, Liang Yong began kidney dialysis.
"After dialysis, people can't climb the stairs. At that time, my house was on the 3rd floor, and most of the time I had small backs, I went up and down, in and out. ”
On July 2, 2004, Xidian Hospital (now known as Global Medical Xidian Group Hospital) waived part of the fee for Liang Yong to perform a kidney transplant. After the surgery, he no longer had to go to the hospital for dialysis. As long as you take anti-elimination drugs and auxiliary drugs, your body will not show abnormal symptoms, and you can resume your daily life.
Liang Yong then returned to work, in his opinion, the long road to illness, the previous few years were actually not hardship, and he could go far with medicine on his back after changing his kidney.
Liang Yong's mother has always felt that her son, like his father, is open-minded and can survive no matter how big things are.
In 2009, Liang Yong's father, who had worked in the radiology room for nearly 40 years, became seriously ill. In the past few years, the total number of white blood cells in his body was seriously lower than the normal standard, and he was recognized as occupational external beam radiation chronic radiation sickness I degree. In the last days, when Liang Yong's mother was taking care of her husband in the hospital, she always heard him say, "I took a hanging needle once, and 10 catties of eggs were gone."
Due to multiple organ failure, Liang Yong's father passed away on July 27, 2009, and Liang Yong's mother suffered a nervous breakdown. A few months before her husband left, she had lumbar spine surgery, and she had 6 screws in her waist, and she was the wife who was taken care of by the belt.
"When my wife left, the sky fell in our house. I thought, how am I going to live with my sick baby in tow? ”
There are unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and so is fate. In 2010, Liang Yong developed symptoms of loss of function in the transplanted kidney. The most shaky moment of his life is also the moment when he spiritually explores the path of salvation.
Don't be a burden to others
Liang Yong needs to receive anti-expulsion medicine every 3 months, he and his mother live in the west of Xi'an, the two of them take the bus and subway, the first stop is to the First Affiliated Hospital of Xi'an Jiaotong University to stamp the approval form, and the second stop is to the Big Wild Goose Pagoda to pick up the medicine. Because the final destination is the Big Wild Goose Pagoda, he likens this part of the journey to "the road of learning from the scriptures".
(Liang Yong's house is full of medicine)
The phrase "the road to learning" also sums up the life of Liang Yong and his mother after 2011. In one afternoon, Liang Yong was able to talk to reporters about what happened in the past, but what he actually experienced was far from being described in words, and he sighed that it was really too difficult.
Liang Yong has three obvious scars on the inside of his left arm, from his wrist to his elbow, and the color of the scars has blended with his skin tone. The scar on the wrist is round, which is left by dialysis, and there is also one on the right wrist. The scars on the arms and elbows show the marks of surgical sutures, which are the arteriovenous fistulas established by the buried artificial blood vessels after the dialysis fistula of the wrist has been closed. This fistula could not be used due to complications from Liang Yong's hemangioma in the middle of the process.
In uremia treatment, vascular access is referred to as the "lifeline" of hemodialysis patients. Liang Yong's only "lifeline" now is a dialysis tube inserted through his neck, the end of which leads to his heart.
This tube has been used for eight years, and Liang Yong's mother still remembers that Liang Yong was hospitalized 9 times that year, and it took 8 tubes to install the tube in the intervention room of Xidian Hospital. His life and death were at stake, not just this once.
In 2011, Liang Yong was hospitalized due to kidney transplant failure. In order to protect this kidney, the doctor injected Liang Yong with a lot of hormone drugs. If it is revitalized, the kidney will continue to function. If you can't live, there is nothing you can do. There is a fine line between good and bad, and the hand of fate dials Liang Yong to the bad side.
The transplanted kidney was inactive, and a large number of hormone drugs also destroyed Liang Yong's immune system. He didn't have the slightest resistance, his throat was rotten and he couldn't eat, and he lost 70 pounds. He was transferred to Qing'an Hospital (after the merger of Qing'an and Far East Hospital, now AVIC Xi'an Hospital), the director gave him a three-month change of medicine, and his life was saved.
To stay alive, Liang Yong had to undergo hemodialysis while taking anti-excretion drugs and other auxiliary drugs. Dialysis three times a week, he has been on dialysis since 2011. Staying in the hospital 9 times to change 8 pipes also happened after 2011.
Dialysis patients are most afraid of stomach bleeding and cerebral hemorrhage, and in 2019, Liang Yong fell ill again at the door of death due to stomach bleeding. During his hospitalization, he had to be transfused with 800 milliliters of blood every day, and a total of 22,000 milliliters of blood were transfused to survive. Mr. Cha, a neighbor, went to visit Liang Yong and saw that his whole body was swollen, and his arm couldn't stop dripping, so he had to wrap it in a diaper.
The son's pain is always doubled by the mother's. More than 20 years ago, Liang Yong's shroud was ready. Every time he encountered a life-and-death situation, his mother would take the shroud to the hospital, take it again and again, and take it home again and again.
Liang Yong's mother couldn't do without mental calming drugs. The death of her wife had caused her to fall ill once, and she was reluctant to go out, and her mind was full of negative thoughts. Liang Yong pulled his mother out and locked the door. He took his mother to see the flowers and get in touch with the outside world.
A mother and son, two patients, are supporting life. One of the mother's most vivid memories was when she and her son went to a mental health centre to pick up medicine. It was raining heavily halfway through, and the two had no rain gear so they could only walk forward. The door of the mental health center was moved, and the two of them walked a lot of unjust ways in the rain, but they couldn't find the door.
In 2019, because her mother was unwell, Liang Yong suggested that she go for a physical examination. The results of the physical examination are not satisfactory, and there is a lot of risk of developing brain diseases. When her mother fell ill again under pressure, Liang Yong stayed by her mother's side, accompanied her to seek medical advice, and encouraged her to go square dancing.
Liang Yong and his mother also survived the three-year epidemic. Without public transportation, what should Liang Yong do if he goes to the hospital for dialysis 3 times a week? He spent 1,000 yuan to buy a second-hand tricycle and tried his best to learn it. From the community, he drove the tricycle to and from his home and hospital. The reporter learned from the Xifang Community of Sanqiao Street that during the special period of epidemic closure and control, the community also sent volunteers to drive Liang Yong.
(Liang Yong and his mother)
After Liang Yong fell ill, he was the most reluctant to be a burden to others. In 2017, he applied to the employer for retirement due to disability due to illness due to complete loss of working ability. After retirement, his monthly salary was more than 2,200 yuan. This money is enough to live, but not enough to treat diseases.
Liang Yong paid attention to the stock market when he was young. After his father passed away, he discussed with his mother to withdraw all the family's savings of more than 150,000 yuan. He told his mother that if he wanted to fight, more than 150,000 yuan could only guarantee their life for a few years, and what would he do in the future.
The mother cried and withdrew the money from the bank. Liang Yong is resolute, invests money in the stock market, and takes a computer to care about the rise and fall of stocks when he is hospitalized. In his words, "a miracle happened", and he spent about one million yuan on medication, dialysis, and hospitalization, most of which was earned by trading stocks.
Liang Yong and his mother now live in a small community in the west of the city, and the community environment is good. This suite was bought by Liang Yong in full in 2015 and was specially bought on the first floor. For him, it is very convenient to not have to go up and down the stairs. For my mother, my mother, who loved to grow flowers, finally had a small garden of her own.
Love is a cycle
Liang Yong has many friends. When some friends are frustrated, they always talk to him. He is very good at empathizing with others, has experienced life and death, and his understanding has led him to find the way to salvation.
"Looking back now, this disease was an experience for me. I couldn't accept it at first, there will definitely be a period like that, but I can't let myself go out for too long. Some things, like we grasp a handful of sand with our hands, we can't grasp it tightly, and we can grasp it with a little loosening of our hands. ”
Liang Yong's principle is to be a kind person, and he believes that kindness is passed on to each other. He and his mother remembered many good people, such as the doctor colleague who suggested that he have a check-up in 2002 when he found out that he was not in good health, and the doctor later offered 200 yuan to see a doctor. For example, the Xiaoyan girl who was the first to be handled by the medical insurance, Xiaoyan saw that he was weak and had to go all the way to go through the procedures to get anti-depotion medicine, so she told Liang Yong's mother to write a certificate, and his mother could take it for him in the future......
There is also a girl who once lit up Liang Yong's life.
This girl's home is in Beijing and she is Liang Yong's former girlfriend. Before Liang Yong fell ill, he opened an Internet café, and he met the girl online. After the two talked for two or three years, Liang Yong was diagnosed with the disease.
Liang Yong and the girl took the initiative to break up. His own life is derailed, but he can't delay others from moving forward. The girl reluctantly agreed.
"I was diagnosed at the time, and I knew I wasn't going to get married for the rest of my life. After the breakup, in order to encourage me to see a doctor and make up for my regrets, she came to Xi'an from Beijing to take a set of wedding photos with me. ”
This set of wedding photos is now kept in Liang Yong's house. In the photo, the girl is beautiful and generous, and Liang Yong has a green face and no trace of illness.
The two went from being a couple to friends. When Liang Yong was seriously ill in 2011, the girl learned the news at noon, and rushed to Xi'an with her sister to visit Liang Yong in the evening. After that, the girl who got married also brought her daughter to Xi'an to see him.
In Liang Yong's home, there are two pieces of calligraphy. One is Yue Fei's Man Jianghong, and the other is the four characters of "Heaven rewards diligence". The girl's father-in-law is a calligrapher, and this is the character he specially sent after learning about Liang Yong's deeds.
(Liang Yong and his mother took a group photo under "Man Jianghong")
Love is organic, love is a cycle.
Young Liang Yong, who went with his brother to donate blood. It was donated more than once, and now only the unpaid blood donation card of 8 September 2001 remains.
In 2019, Liang Yong, whose stomach bleeding was in danger, was lying in a hospital bed, and his upstairs neighbor, Mr. Cha, called on more than 50 owners in the community to line up at the blood donation point near Tumen to donate 24,000 ml of blood for Liang Yong. Afterwards, Liang Yong's mother thanked each blood donor for delivering milk to each other, things are not expensive but the important thing is the heart.
(More than 50 owners donated blood for Liang Yong)
In 2018, Liang Yong was hospitalized due to drug poisoning. The owners rushed him to the hospital and spontaneously raised more than 10,000 yuan. After sobering up, Liang Yong insisted on not wanting everyone's money, but everyone also insisted on not taking it back. Liang Yong saved the money as a love fund for the community, which was specially used for the community's public welfare.
Why are the owners of the community willing to help Liang Yong? It is everyone who sees Liang Yong's dedication on weekdays.
After the delivery of the complex, the developer initially promised municipal heating and self-heating with boilers. The owners organized to defend their rights, and Liang Yong and his mother also joined the rights protection team during the break without dialysis. The other owners went to work, and he and his mother stayed there.
Everyone gave Liang Yong a title, "Community Police". Usually his mother always pushes him around the community, and when he finds that there is a water leak, which natural gas is suspected of leaking, and where there are stray dogs, he will give feedback to the property as soon as possible.
Mr. Cha, a neighbor, remembers the first time he met Liang Yong in the community, he was in a wheelchair with swollen eye bubbles. At that time, Liang Yong would have swelling the day before dialysis. Sometimes in the summer, he also spends his time outdoors in the sun to sweat.
Mr. Cha decided that Liang Yong was a lifelong friend. His wife was injured in the foot and couldn't go out, so Liang Yong's mother came to deliver food to the house. When major changes occurred in his family, it was Liang Yong who always explained that he let go of the past and worked hard to move towards the future.
Every Monday, Wednesday and Saturday, Liang Yong rides three wheels to take his mother to the hospital for dialysis. He left home at 6:50 a.m., got on the plane at 7:50, got off at 12:30, and returned home 40 minutes later. Every night before resting, he made his mother lie on the sofa and hammered her back with a tool. In the corner of the sofa, there are 4 tools for beating the back. In the corner of the living room, there is also a machine for treating the cervical spine and training the feet and waist.
He uses short videos to record his life, in the spring he took a photo of his mother and the moon flowers planted by his family, when he took medicine he took a photo of his mother and the Big Wild Goose Pagoda, the first snow in winter, and a heavy rain in the summer evening, he recorded them and posted them on the Internet, but not related to illness, he wanted to bring positive energy to everyone.
"I just want to make my life with my mother better. Now I have a lot of money to make, and when the artificial kidney comes out, I will have the opportunity to replace the artificial kidney. When I get my artificial kidney, maybe I'll travel abroad. ”
This is the answer that Liang Yong gave to life.
Huashang Daily Gale News reporter Chang Pengduo
Source: Huashang Net-Huashang Daily