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What are the reasons
Could it cause your child to have low self-esteem?
Whether conceited or inferior, it is an emotional experience. Low self-esteem is a relatively negative emotional experience. Under what circumstances does it usually form?
First of all, it may be an innate condition from the individual. For example, some children will have height worries, or physical disabilities, or their body is fat, etc., which may cause children to have low self-esteem.
Second, I think the more common phenomenon comes from children's inappropriate self-evaluation. Children's self-perception often comes from teachers and parents.
Third, the reason for most children's low self-esteem must be family factors. For example, the economic conditions of the family, or the fact that parents usually compare their children with other people's children, etc., may cause children to have low self-esteem.
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This can help children to rise above low self-esteem
After we understand the reasons for the child's low self-esteem, we should guide him in a targeted manner.
1. Eliminate external stimuli for low self-esteem. If he has low self-esteem, the reason is more due to the inappropriate evaluation of him by his parents.
Then we should pay attention to the fact that in the future, the evaluation language and attitude towards the child should be more gentle, so that the child can better accept the help you want to give him, rather than a negative emotion.
2. Provide solutions for your child. When the evaluation is not positive enough, we can provide the child with ways to correct it and how to do it. Make your child feel that you are not only judging him, but also helping him.
3. Break the child's negative self-suggestion. I think it's important to build a positive autosuggestion system for children. I have observed that children with low self-esteem usually have a vicious circle of thinking.
For example, if he thinks he can't do it, so he doesn't do it, and when the results come out, he will say, "You see I really can't do it."
What we need to do is to break this pattern and tell children to work harder because they still have room for improvement. Nothing is innate, and hard work will definitely lead to progress.
When parents judge the results achieved by their children, they should tell their children that they have really improved, and give them a psychological hint, and they will feel that I have really made progress with this kind of adjustment, and they will have a sense of inner pleasure.
As the leader of children's growth, parents should provide positive emotional value for their children, so that children can be born in the light and walk towards the sun.