When Lan Yingying and Cao Jun were together, it was really extremely sweet, and other people in the entertainment industry were also very envious of the relationship between the two.
But after the breakup, the two never had any contact with each other.
In fact, the relationship between the two will become like this, and everyone really didn't expect it at all, after all, the two of them have come to the point of talking about marriage.
After the separation, Lan Yingying took the initiative to mention having a child when she participated in the show, feeling that having a child would affect her career development. But if you don't have children, when you see that these friends around you have children, you really want a child by your side.
This also made many people think that maybe she regretted breaking up with Cao Jun back then?
If they hadn't broken up, the two would definitely have a different life now. Regarding the question raised by Lan Yingying, Huan Xi also revealed the truth in one sentence, what is it?
Suspected of regretting breaking up that year? My heart is entangled
Most female stars in the entertainment industry actually put their careers first.
Because these female stars know how much effort they have put into their careers. And in the process of pursuing their careers, they also understand a truth, that is, many women give up their careers and return to the family will not be respected by their husbands.
But this is not what happens to all women, it mainly depends on the character of the man?
Lan Yingying really thought so at the beginning.
It's just that now maybe it's because I'm getting older, so I'm starting to shake my mind, so I asked a question from the bottom of his heart.
Question: Should she have children? After having a child, is it more joyful or more painful?
In fact, at the beginning, Lan Yingying definitely wanted to take the Dink route, but later I saw that many Dinks actually regretted it, because she was indeed very lonely in her later years, which also made Lan Yingying not know how to find the answer.
At the same time, Lan Yingying also mentioned that she was not decisive before, and felt that if she had been more decisive back then, maybe her identity would have been different now.
In fact, it can also be heard from this sentence that Lan Yingying will feel a little sad in the past three years after the separation from Cao Jun.
It is very likely that the two separated at the beginning, because Lan Yingying was unwilling to give up her career for love, so the relationship between the two completely parted ways.
But now that I see these friends around me regaining happiness, I am extremely envious in my heart.
But Lan Yingying is very entangled, she knows that the current society is still not very friendly to women's pregnancy, especially for some female stars.
As long as the figure is out of shape after pregnancy, no matter how you lose weight after that, there is no way to return to the entertainment industry, and Huanxi is a typical example.
Although his status in the entertainment industry is still very high, his acting skills are not comparable to before.
This also makes many people feel that this is what she became after she became pregnant.
And Lan Yingying feels that if she has a child, her career development will definitely be affected to a certain extent.
But if you don't have children, you feel very lonely, and it will also affect your work.
After all, at this age, the next role can't be a little girl, and sometimes there will be some maternal scenes, but she doesn't know how to play it?
She also mentioned that she likes children very much, but she doesn't want her life to be constrained by children, to put it simply, she wants to have children with her company and want to have a comfortable life.
To tell the truth in one word, you can't have both and both
The reason why Lan Yingying is very entangled in this problem now may also have something to do with her age, after all, she is 35 years old.
If the age continues to go up, although there is still a chance of pregnancy, but the probability is naturally not very high compared with that of young women, and the risk of having a child will become greater and greater, which is also one of Lan Yingying's most tangled problems.
So Lan Yingying told all the doubts in her heart to Huanxi.
In response to this question, Huan Xi also directly told the other party the answer that came to mind in his heart.
"You can't look at outsiders when it comes to having children, you have to look at your own wishes. If you feel that you are not happy to have a child, then you must not try, but if you are happy, then do not be affected by these voices of the outside world, and after having a child, it is not so easy, at least six years are not your own. ”
In fact, what Han Xi said is also very simple, that is, I hope that Lan Yingying can take on the responsibility of an adult, and not want both children and freedom, which is definitely impossible.
Huan Xi's words also made Lan Yingying now very clear about her problem, that is, a little greedy.
In fact, in my opinion, what Huan Xi said, whether it is for female stars in the entertainment industry or for ordinary people, we have something worth learning.
As adults, we must think of the risks and benefits in everything we do.
Now many women are very similar to Lan Yingying, that is, they want both a career and a child, but in the end, it is very likely that they will not get both.
What will Lan Yingying choose next? Perhaps only Lan Yingying herself can know what she really thinks in her heart.
But from my point of view, if Lan Yingying does not choose to get pregnant in the future, it is very likely that she will regret it even more in her later years, which is nothing more than saying that she was very determined to take the Dink route from the beginning.
When it comes to this issue, many people are curious, is it possible for Lan Yingying and Cao Jun? If the two get back together, it is estimated that Lan Yingying will definitely be willing to have children.
From my personal point of view, the possibility may not be very large, the relationship between the two people at the beginning is indeed extremely sweet, but now that they have been separated for so long, they must have their own lives.
And Lan Yingying's personality is completely different from Cao Jun, her pursuit of career is something that many female stars in the entertainment industry can't do.
In order to give herself a chance to make her debut, Lan Yingying even had certain conflicts with other contestants when she participated in the variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", which also made Lan Yingying feel that this kind of dedication may not be recognized by others.
The relationship is sweet, and in the end they go their separate ways
Lan Yingying looks very simple on the surface, but in fact, many people think that Lan Yingying is too selfish.
is also the reason why when she and others participated in the variety show above, many people were silent as long as they saw Lan Yingying, such as Huang Shengyi and Zhang Meng.
These two people actually have very good personalities in the entertainment industry, and they almost don't remain silent in the face of others, but as long as Lan Yingying appears, these two really don't know for what reason, anyway, they don't interact with her.
Now different from Lan Yingying's current situation, Cao Jun is becoming more and more popular in the entertainment industry, and some netizens directly commented:
"As soon as I look at Cao Jun's face, I feel that he is the kind of very good man, no matter who is with him, he will definitely move towards happiness."
When the two just broke up, Cao Jun was actually very reluctant, so his career was also hit to a certain extent because of this incident, but what is quite surprising is that after Cao Jun walked out of this relationship, he also ushered in a new beginning.
He took the initiative to participate in a competitive variety show, which is called "Actors, Please Be in Place".
Cao Jun did this, in fact, to better improve his acting skills.
He knows very well that he was affected by his emotions before, and his career has indeed suffered a certain blow, so if he wants to return to the entertainment industry, he must improve his acting skills.
When Cao Jun participated in this competitive variety show, many directors were impressed, including Er Dongsheng.
It is precisely this dazzling performance that has made Cao Jun's return to the entertainment industry more and more smooth.
As for Lan Yingying, she has hardly filmed any leading roles over the years.
The two people also went to different lives, and at the same time, there was no intersection. This also reminds everyone of the three years before the two, which were really inseparable.
My favorite thing to do is to show affection on my social account, and I don't hide my relationship like other celebrities.
At that time, the career development of the two was not affected by the announcement of their relationship, because their enthusiasm for work has not declined, and at the same time, the two also hope that both parties can grow together and support each other at the same time.
Just when the careers of the two were thriving, the relationship between the two was also going in a better and better direction, and every once in a while the sweet daily life of the two would be posted, but in the end, this relationship still came to an end ahead of schedule.
The reason why the two broke up may also have a certain reason for their work in the entertainment industry. After all, it is impossible for the two to be in the same place all the time at work, and a long-distance relationship will naturally affect the relationship.
Maybe Lan Yingying regrets it now, but if she wants to get back together with Cao Jun, it is estimated that the possibility is not high!
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