In today's society, there are many ways to relax after the college entrance examination, but when a family's economic situation conflicts with the wishes of the child, how to choose? Especially the daughter's incomprehension, it broke the father's heart!
The college entrance examination ended, and the tight string in her daughter's heart was finally loosened, but what she was thinking about was not to help the family share something, but to think about how to travel and relax. When she asked her father for 5,000 oceans, she completely broke her father's heart, this money is not a small amount for ordinary people!
Adults know that this social work is not easy now, and after a month, it is already a good job to have five or six thousand. But the daughter's request is directly her father's hard-earned money for a month, who can stand this?
Dad too, the entanglement in his heart, he wants to persuade his daughter not to compare, don't run behind other people's butts, but what about her daughter, she doesn't give up, not to say that the whole class has gone, she didn't go alone, how faceless!
Dad was also kind to say, saying that it was impossible for the whole class to travel, but as soon as the daughter heard that she didn't give money, the anger came up, and she was directly scolded: "Other parents give money, why don't you give it to me?" Listening to this, it really makes people's hearts feel uncomfortable.
Dad is also helpless, saying that today's children go to work for summer jobs after the college entrance examination to save tuition for college, but when his daughter heard this, she was even more angry: "How can you still be a father?" If you don't have money to raise a child, don't raise it! These words are chilling to hear.
This reminds me of the old saying: "Raise children to prevent old age, accumulate grain to prevent hunger." "But now it seems that this daughter is not here to prevent old age, but to collect debts!
Netizens are hotly discussed
Some netizens said: "If a child is born to inherit his poverty, hard work, and panic, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness." Looking at this comment, I want to say, if they are all in this way, how many people can come into this world.
Some netizens defended the child: "I think the child is just telling the truth, but he is young and ignorant, and he can't understand the adult, so there is no need to go online to say how the child is." ”
Netizens said: "There is nothing wrong with children wanting to travel and relax, what is wrong is that in this era, it is too difficult to earn 5,000 yuan, and it is too easy to spend 5,000 yuan!" ”
Netizens said: "What the child said is right! You can't afford to have any children! You didn't teach her to be self-reliant since she was a child! ”
Some netizens joked: "When it said the sentence 'Don't raise a child if you don't have money', if his father replied 'Then can I not raise it'?" What will his daughter's expression be, will she be completely devastated? ”
Some netizens asked sadly: "What's wrong with the current society, I dare to start with my parents if I don't agree with each other, and there is really a big problem in education now!" ”
Editor's opinion
Life is not only about enjoyment, but also about responsibility and responsibility. As soon as my daughter opened her mouth, it was 5,000 yuan, and she didn't look at the actual situation at home, what is this called? It's called ignorance!
We also want the best for our children, but sometimes, we really can't do it. This daughter, if she could understand her father more and think more from his point of view, maybe she wouldn't be so willful.
In fact, we parents should also think deeply, is it too doting on children? Isn't it too obedient to them? We have to teach them that life is not always easy, and sometimes, we have to learn to compromise and accept reality.
Message
This incident also allows us to see that some children now compare their psychology of comparison, not learning, not morality, but who has money and who can give themselves more. This kind of mentality is really worrying.
Finally, I would like to say that as parents, we must educate our children to be grateful and understand the hard work of their parents. As for the children, they also have to learn to understand, learn to be independent, and don't always think about pie-in-the-sky good things. After all, happiness earned by one's own hands is true happiness!