Life is an endless cycle of life, a lifetime of striving for ambitious goals, some people live a happy life, some people survive, and some people don't know what they want.
Adults always say, "When you get into a good college after the college entrance examination, you will be easy", after graduating from college, they say, "If you find a good job, you can live the life you want", after work, "If you have a good job, you must also have a good family", followed by a marriage reminder.
We have been living non-stop according to their wishes, so is there still a road on the other side of the road? Even though most of us have tried our best, we still live an ordinary and ordinary life.
The most difficult practice in life is to reconcile with yourself, and if you are too attached to yourself and can't put down something, it will be even more difficult.
A bully at Beijing Institute of Technology, who has been with garbage all day long for 12 years, has become a waste picker, which makes everyone who hears it sigh.
What made this proud son of heaven fall into this place? It seems that the suffering of life may be late, but it will never be absent.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the story of a scavenger</h1>
Some time ago, the police found a ragged, disheveled, and somewhat delirious man in a demolition house that had been abandoned for many years.
He lives next to the garbage heap, sleeping with the garbage every day, because of the prevention and control of the epidemic, the police temporarily took him back to the police station for investigation, and on the way to investigate, he accidentally found that he was once a champion of the Beijing Polytechnic.
But the resume of the scenery and the person in front of him who exuded a foul odor really did not match, in order to verify this information, the police called the parents of Yao Yuan, a high-achieving student of the Beijing Institute of Technology, to come to recognize him.
Yao Yuan's parents looked at the demented scavenger and shed painful tears, confirming that this was their son who had been missing for many years.
What happened to Yao Yuan? Why did the former college entrance examination be like this? What made him leave his hometown and not even contact his parents?
Yao Yuan achieved excellent results from an early age, and was also admitted to Beijing Institute of Technology as a college entrance examination winner, and during his college years, he has also been at the top of the list, and his future is bright.
After graduation, Yao Yuan also entered the 214th Research Institute of China North Industries Group Corporation as everyone expected, which was one of the best units at that time.
Probably due to the high starting point, life here is not as good as Yao Yuan imagined, and the colleagues around him are all like themselves who come to work from famous universities, and some are even better than themselves.
Gradually, he felt a little difficult, life has always been like this, when he has some ability and can change the status quo of life, most people will choose to flee.
Unexpectedly, Yao Yuan resigned, and he decided to go to Shanghai to take a break, he believes that his high education can help him find a good job.
Shanghai, a bustling city, especially the brilliance of the night, has attracted a large number of dreamers, but behind the prosperity, how many people have tasted the hardships.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the other side of the road is the end</h1>
Yao Yuan, who came to Shanghai, was full of expectations, he had deep expectations for Shanghai, and indeed, with his excellent resume, he successfully found a job.
However, the arrival of the global economic crisis has allowed Yao Yuan's company to carry out large-scale layoffs, and although Yao Yuan has saved his job, he has also reduced his salary.
The meager salary made Yao Yuan unable to see the hope of the future, so he resigned again, and then changed several jobs, all of which were not satisfactory.
The collapse of adults is often only in an instant, the burden of life is stressed Yao Yuan breathless, many problems follow, Yao Yuan gave up on himself.
All his former pride was gone, and this cruel world slapped him hard, shattering his delusional dreams, and reality made him unable to face life again.
But he made a decision that he should never have made, he cut off all contact with family and friends, and he lived a chaotic life every day, and the money on his body was quickly spent.
So he began a 12-year wandering life, refusing to face the fact that he had failed, or that he could not believe that his smooth life would be so miserable.
Over the years, his family has been looking for him through various channels, but when they saw him again, it was such a scene, for a while they did not know what to say, only wordless tears, which could express the grief in their hearts.
There are indeed many helpless things happening in life, but blindly avoiding, not facing, the only one who is really hurt is himself, immersed in the past success and looking forward to the future is no way.
Yao Yuan gave up on himself after encountering a blow, which is not an act of giving up life, the life of an adult is never easy, and everyone will experience different degrees of suffering.
If everyone gives up, then the world will no longer exist, and to reconcile with yourself is to reconcile with this world, you cannot change the world, the only thing you can do is to change yourself.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > shake hands with the world</h1>
Now the pressure of adults is too great, there are unfinished debts, there are unfinished jobs, there are endless social innings, as if life has always been living for such a little broken silver.
There are countless students who jump off buildings because of unfinished homework and unfinished tests, many workers who commit suicide because they can't get paid, and many takeaway brothers who crouch on the side of the road late at night and cry because they are scolded by customers.
Not because they are too fragile, but because they feel a deep powerlessness in life, can't see the end of the road, always want to grow up when they are young, and still miss their former innocence when they grow up.
In fact, the current pressure, half from life, half from themselves, we see that there are too many kinds of information on the Internet, always envy others to have a better life, not satisfied with the moment.
Materialism, escape itself is a suffering, learn to shake hands with yourself and make peace, people can not be willing to be mediocre, but to accept the ordinary.
After the storm is over, remember to say "it's okay, it will be fine" to yourself, cry out loud when you want to cry, no one will laugh at you, the world has no real empathy.
In ordinary life, reconcile with yourself, accept everything that time brings to you, whether good or bad, face it calmly, in the storm, learn to accept your own ordinariness, accept your own mediocrity.
The other side of the road is the end, but the other side of the end is still the road, always looking forward, always being yourself, living in this world with a comfortable attitude.
There are still many things in this world that we deserve to love, to pursue, not to give up the desire for life, not to succumb to the current, even if there is no vigorous horse whip, this life is still very good.