What kind of character is Ma Dajun?
He seems to be a harlequin in the play, and he can only provide the audience with laughter: the total score of the college entrance examination is only 98 points, which makes his father faceless;
The boss is sad, and he can read it as the boss is sad, and he doesn't learn and has no skills.
In Ma Chenggang's mind, the eldest son has been raised and abolished, and he can't inherit his family business, so he is just a straw bale!
But I think that Ma Dajuncai is not so bad, his poor results in the college entrance examination and low level of education have not prevented him from becoming a warm and kind person and realizing his own value.
Why did you understand that Ma Dajun personally rubbed his younger brother to understand how much Ma Chenggang owes him?
1, the father's eccentricity, too obvious
The younger brother Ma Jiye, walking the streets and alleys to pick up garbage and plastic bottles, under his father's poor education, became a good child who was considerate of his parents and thrifty in keeping the house.
On the contrary, his brother Ma Dajun was busy with his career when he was young, and although he had a lot of money to spend, he lacked the company and education of his family.
It is conceivable that when the three views are not established, the child has unlimited squandering capital, and there is no family to guide the education, what kind of character will he develop?
Why did Ma Dajun not learn and spend money?
There must be an intrinsic reason behind a person's thoughts and actions.
Ma Dajun grew up to be such a person, and there was no big fault in himself, but a lack of fatherly love and correct guidance.
Ma Chenggang stubbornly believes that the eldest son has rotted from the roots, and there is only disgust, suspicion and denial for him.
Ma Dajun felt sorry for his younger brother, and took the initiative to let his good friend take his younger brother to a big meal, give his younger brother a bath, and recycle plastic bottles at a high price.
The father felt that he interfered with his education, praising his younger son's excellence while denying his eldest son's achievements.
2. The father's distrust of the child is too chilling
There is a detail in the movie:
Ma Jiye took the opportunity of the college entrance examination to direct and act in a kidnapping scene, and sent a photo of his kidnapping to his father, wanting to uncover the truth of life.
Even Ma Jiye's own mother faced this situation, her first reaction was suspicion:
However, Ma Dajun's father directly characterized this kidnapping incident as:
With such a father-son relationship and such a family atmosphere, where can Ma Dajun feel any warmth?
From the point of view of money, Ma Chenggang did not treat Ma Dajun badly, and his wealth can make his eldest son worry-free for a lifetime.
However, from the perspective of family affection, Ma Chenggang owes Ma Dajun too much: when he was young, he did not give him company; When you are young, you don't guide your children properly; As an adult, there is no education to respect trust.
It seems that in Ma Chenggang's mind, only if he is admitted to Qingbei is worthy of becoming his good son!
I can't imagine how deep the grievances buried in my heart were when Ma Dajun climbed the 8,000-meter Mount Everest and shouted "Old Ma, I don't need you to look down on me"!
Once upon a time, he was like a child hiding in a corner, longing for his father's loving gaze and affirmative praise.
Later, Ma Dajun no longer asked for recognition from the outside, but explored himself inward and found his own value.
We live in a highly competitive society, and many people use the scores of the college entrance examination to measure success or failure, and the value of the results achieved, as if to emphasize:
In fact, our competition with ourselves is the most important thing, not being tied by scores, finding self-worth, and already being a winner in life.