Many times, people are often good at forgetting the benefits of others to themselves, and once there is an unintentional offense, they are always obsessed with it, and it becomes more than half a sentence of speculation, or even old and dead.
Think about whether there are such cases around us, and in life, it is inevitable to interact with people, and if you want to have a good life, you must deal with your relationship with the people around you.
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Look at people's strengths
No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, and if you always focus on the shortcomings of others, your relationship will definitely not be good.
On the contrary, learn to empathize and look at the advantages of others, and you will find that the more you look at others, the more pleasing you will be, and you will be able to get along with others and know how to use people's strengths.
A lone branch is not spring, a hundred flowers bloom in spring. Only people who know how to get along with others can succeed. If you know how to use people's strengths, you will have the quality of a leader.
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Helping people is difficult
It is to lend your helping hand when others are in difficulty, it may be a gesture, or it may require a certain amount of effort, as long as you can do it, the icing on the cake, it is better to send charcoal in the snow.
If you help someone when he is proud, he may not remember you. If you help others when they are in trouble, they will remember you for the rest of your life.
When you are in trouble, people will help you in the same way, and your road will become wider and wider. For example, some things often encountered in life, illness and hospitalization, red and white happy events, natural disasters and man-made disasters, etc., your help, your greeting, and even a text message will be like Lucky Star Chinese Restaurant, completely narrowing the psychological distance between each other.
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Remembering the benefits of people
It is to always be grateful. You must know that every person from birth to death, every bit of progress and every drop of harvest is inseparable from the help of parents, family and friends.
Always remember the good of others, in order to have sunshine every day, every day to have friends, and a lifetime of happiness; On the contrary, always remembering what others are not will only make you miserable.
Keep your mouth shut, don't say these things, and don't judge others for their good or bad, because they don't affect your eating. Don't judge someone else's virtue, because you are not necessarily nobler than him.
Don't judge other people's families, because they have nothing to do with you. Don't judge other people's learning, because the most important thing in the world is learning.
Don't judge anyone, not even the people you look down on the most.
Don't hurt others, cause and effect will come sooner or later.
Don't lose your temper at will, no one owes you. It's painful now, and when I look back after a while, I'll find that it's not really a problem. We often complain that life is unfair to us, when in fact life has no idea who we are.
Don't discuss whose practice is good or bad, practice in the individual, others are a mirror for you, reflect your own shortcomings, and cultivate yourself in your shortcomings.
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