As the saying goes: people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles.
When interacting with people, the feeling of "first sight" is especially important.
Whether it's to us or others,
Or someone else's treatment of us.
The feeling at first sight,
It directly affects the communication and relationships in the back.
Many times, judging a person's true state and character,
You can see it at a glance by looking at his clothes.
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A well-dressed person has a sense of self-cultivation in him
As the old saying goes: a tree needs bark, and a man needs a face.
In life, the most important thing is "face".
The things on the face, in addition to the style of doing things outside,
There is also external image building.
The best way to maintain a person's appearance,
That is, it is to put effort into dressing up.
In fact, people who are truly self-contained,
Simple principles will be followed in the way they dress.
Because they don't spend too much of their minds on the outside,
They pay more attention to inner self-cultivation.
The richness of the soul,
It will add color to people's external spirit,
When a person is out in spirit, he is full of energy and radiant.
No matter how plain and simple he dresses,
can make others feel comfortable.
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Deliberately highlight the luxury jewelry, the inner vanity
Jewelry & Accessories,
Compared to the existence of clothes,
It's more about the whole,
It is the icing on the cake.
But some people will be gorgeous, expensive jewelry,
It has become a capital to show off.
Always like to be in front of others,
Emphasize the luxury of jewelry, the value of famous bags and watches.
This kind of people are afraid that others will "not know the goods",
Everywhere you have to be superior.
They have a strong sense of superiority in their hearts,
But it is also extremely in need of attention from others.
This also reflects a statement in psychology:
The more people lack something, the more they show off.
Such people have low self-esteem in their bones,
Lack of attention from others.
So I longed to pass,
external added value to gain attention.
These precious jewelry,
It became the "bet" of his life.
When the value of life and the value of material things are confused.
And they became material slaves,
Carriers of vanity.
There is sorrow in the hateful man,
Their pathos is visible to the naked eye.
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Raunchy, uneducated
In the choice of clothing,
You don't have to be too complicated,
But it must be neat and decent.
Hygiene is the best thing a person can look like.
If a person doesn't even care much about his appearance,
I can't do my own personal hygiene.
Then even if this person has great ability,
It's also hard to become a climate.
Raunchy people,
Usually uneducated.
The essence of parenting is to gain respect.
Mutual respect.
And to be able to make people comfortable,
It doesn't cause disgust.
A man who doesn't even know how to respect himself,
Not to mention respect for others.
If you want to be respected, you must first respect yourself.
Put yourself in a position of contempt,
Don't expect others to value it.
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People who are excessively fancy, impetuous at heart
People's aesthetics are very different,
Everyone's definition of beauty is different.
Just like the flowers in a hundred gardens,
Compete for beauty, each with its own style.
But in everyday life,
People still have to live in the real world.
Excessive bells and whistles,
It will only give people a frivolous sense of déjà vu.
As the so-called:
At any age, you have to do something.
At the stage of mental maturity,
Don't do the opposite.
Perhaps, in your opinion, it doesn't matter,
In fact, he is lowering his own value.
Learn to listen appropriately to the opinions of others,
Learn from the experiences of others.
It can help you avoid 90% of the pitfalls in your life.
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Time knows people's hearts, and details see character.
Knowing is only in the skin, and knowing the heart is important in character.
Recognize a person, and there is no need to be tempted repeatedly.
Look at the outward appearance of his clothes,
It's easy to see at a glance.
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