The most complicated thing in the world is the emotions between people. And in a variety of emotional relationships, the love between men and women is always full of countless possibilities.
Love is wonderful, but at the same time, there can be a myriad of pitfalls.
Many relationships have to go through an ambiguous period at the beginning, and after the ambiguous period, some emotions ferment and rise, and some emotions gradually disappear.
In the ambiguous period between the opposite sex, there must be some subtle signs. The two of them felt that they had done a good job of keeping each other's secrets, but in the eyes of the people around them, everything was silent.
There is such a pair of men and women around them, and the two of them are cautiously ambiguous, and they don't tell everyone until the relationship is completely confirmed. After saying that, both of them waited, wanting to see everyone's surprised expressions.
Unexpectedly, a few of our friends just said "oh" and continued the topic just now.
The two of them were unwilling and directly interrogated us, and we said in unison: I have long seen that the relationship between the two of you is not ordinary.
Yes, feelings are often something that can't be hidden. Even in the ambiguous period, it's the same, being cautious and pretending to be serious can't hide people, and you can see at a glance whether the two people are ambiguous.
The brushed eyes when looking at each other, the "careful thinking" that can't be hidden
Two people who are ambiguous with each other will subconsciously have frequent eye contact. The drawn eyes between the two of them will be noticed by anyone.
There are so many stories hidden in their eyes, and every smile is given to each other. They kept getting closer in the crowd and dodging as they got closer. This abnormal behavior completely exposes their careful thinking.
Maybe they are ambiguous, thinking that their performance is seamless, but they don't know that the onlookers have already seen them through.
Two people who are ambiguous, they only have each other in their eyes, how can they have the time and extra energy to pay attention to other people.
And every small movement and every subtle change in their expressions is as transparent as being seen by the people around them.
Unconsciously overly caring, "eccentricity" that is difficult to hide
Like coughing, you can't hide it. In front of the person you like, you will unconsciously follow each other with your eyes and care about each other.
Concern between friends, care between colleagues...... It's all at a distance. The care between lovers is extremely intimate, and they will subconsciously involve some privacy without knowing it.
Ignoring the sense of boundaries in social etiquette, the other person's every move is tied to your heart. The ambiguity of the two people is difficult to hide, and this "eccentricity" has long exposed the true emotions in their hearts.
Only if a person cares about you will care about your feelings, want to meet your needs, and pay attention to your mood. Ambiguity is sometimes a kind of can't help it, thinking that it is well covered, but it has already been seen through by the people around you.
The unique tacit understanding between the two reveals the "tacit understanding"
Ambiguity also needs to be responded, and it is difficult for a person's ambiguity to persist. And the tacit ambiguity between the two people has a different taste.
The beginning of the ambiguity is a temptation, a temptation to get along as a friend, but doing what a couple can do.
Between two ambiguous people, there will always be a wordless tacit understanding. It seems that a look can make the other person understand what is going on in his heart; One action can let the other party know what emotions are hidden behind him.
Two people who are involved in love will always be more attentive to understand each other's emotions and intentions, which is impossible for ordinary friends.
And this tacit understanding is like a layer of window paper, and neither of them will pierce it. But the people around can change the angle and see through both of them.
I don't mind the physical collision contact, the air is all "ambiguous"
Ambiguity shows that the relationship between two people is not yet determined, and two people can enjoy this unresolved throbbing, and they will not want to make a big deal out of this uncertainty.
The two people who are ambiguous think that as long as they are polite to each other, others will not be able to see the clues. But in essence, as long as two people communicate, the air is full of ambiguous smells.
Two people who are ambiguous don't have to abide by social etiquette. When there are outsiders, they tend to deliberately keep their distance, but they are subconsciously attracted to each other and keep getting closer.
Two people who are ambiguous won't mind each other's physical touch. There will even be inadvertent touches, and the fawn will bump around.
For other members of the opposite sex, touching beyond social etiquette can be annoying. From this change in emotion, you can get a glimpse of the relationship between the two people.
The ancients often said: "The big is hidden in the city, and the small is hidden in the wild." "The two people who are ambiguous think that the most dangerous place is the safest place, think that no one knows the feelings between the two people, and think that they are well disguised.
But they didn't know that their actions and thoughts had already been exposed to everyone, and it was completely difficult to hide.
Some people say that ambiguity is like a state of suspense, which makes people look forward to it and make people feel uneasy.
Some people say that the process of beauty from flowering to fruiting is the most intoxicating, and it is also the most difficult to discern the direction.
In the eyes of different people, the meaning of the two words ambiguous is different. The transition from ambiguity to a definite relationship can be said to be an inner "contest" between the sexes.
In this ambiguous tug-of-war, we must learn to perceive each other and distinguish the truth. Instead of being blinded by momentary emotions and choosing the wrong direction.
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