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The history of the mainland is thousands of years, and it has retained many traditional virtues, including "respecting the old and loving the young". From this traditional virtue alone, we can see the big from the small and see that the mainland is a veritable ancient civilization.
The status of the elderly on the mainland is very high, especially those who are knowledgeable and highly respected, and they are even more likely to be admired by the world.
From ancient times to the present, there have also been a large number of highly respected old people, who are engaged in different professions, but without exception they are excellent people.
It is indeed very important for the elderly to have high morals and good hearts, and they can use these excellent qualities in themselves to influence and educate the world, or future generations.
In this way, our country will become more civilized, harmonious and beautiful. However, there are also some old people who are morally corrupt, and they have become the target of public criticism.
The ancients said: "To be old and not die is to be a thief", the elderly in these three states will harm their children and grandchildren! Why is that?
1. What is "being old and not dying is a thief"?
As we all know, Confucius was a highly respected figure, known as the originator of the Confucian school in the mainland, known as the "Confucian Sage", and to this day, thousands of years have passed, and people still respect him.
Confucius usually did not easily criticize others, but he was annoyed by a person during his lifetime, so when he was angry, he bluntly criticized it.
The phrase "to be old and not to die is to be a thief" came from the mouth of Confucius, who used this sentence to angrily rebuke an old friend, whose quality was very poor from his youth, and did not change much when he was old.
One day, this old friend came to Confucius, and both of them were already gray-haired old men. Confucius was moved and said this.
Since then, this sentence has also been regarded as a classic by later generations. When people see those elderly people with poor quality, they can't help but quote this classic quote and criticize it.
So what does this phrase mean? It means that those morally corrupt old people still live a long life, which is a burden and will only bring trouble to relatives and friends around them.
I have to say that Sage Kong is really powerful, and he hit the nail on the head to point out the biggest shortcomings of these old people who have no kind nature.
2. The old man in these three states is a scourge
Everyone wants their elderly to live as long as possible, so that their children and grandchildren can spend a long time with them. However, there are some elderly people who are very disgusted because they only cause annoyance to their families and others.
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Especially the elderly in these three states can be said to be a scourge, and the longer they live, the more they will harm their children and grandchildren.
1. Ignorant old man
Some old people in life always behave ignorantly, and they often do things that are difficult for people to accept.
Some elderly people are very domineering at home, they rely on their high status, and they like to force their children, sons-in-law or daughters-in-law to do things they are not willing to do.
For example, some elderly people have been reluctant to give up their outdated traditional ideas, hoping that their children will have more children, so that they can appear prosperous.
But how do they know that it is easy to have a child now, but it is difficult to raise a child, and raising a child is already tiring enough, and having a few more children will not only increase the trouble and pressure?
If the children refuse to do so, these old people will make a lot of noise, endlessly, which is really unreasonable.
Some elderly people will also ask their children not to leave their hometown to work, and must find a job close to home, so that they can take better care of them.
However, some small cities are not developed enough to find a good job at all, and only by going to big cities can they get better development space.
If the children don't listen, these old people will lose their temper, which will only make the children feel very uncomfortable, they are in a dilemma, they can't leave, they can't stay.
In fact, why bother with your children? Now that the transportation is developed, as long as you are not going abroad, you can generally take a plane or take the high-speed train home within a few hours. In other words, even if the children go to the big city, they can often go back to their hometown to visit and take care of the elderly.
2. Poor elderly
Although some elderly people live a long life, they have little savings in their old age, and this kind of elderly people belong to the poor elderly.
If there are such elderly people in the family, it is also a burden, and the children have to take care of them and help them in their old age.
You must know that modern society is not as high as in the past, prices are very high, people's lives are under increasing pressure, and it is not easy to support yourself and a small family.
Moreover, some poor elderly people still like to do things, if their children do not give them money to spend, they will rush to their children's units to make trouble, making the whole family restless.
Nowadays, many units attach great importance to the character of employees, once the old man goes to make trouble, even once it will cause a negative impact, then the leader will be furious, thinking that the employee can not even handle his own family affairs. In this case, there is a high possibility that the child will lose his job.
For his own selfish interests, the old man ruined the future of his children, which obviously harmed his children.
3. The old man with bad morals
There is another kind of old man in life who is very annoying, and that is the old man with bad morals.
This kind of old man has always been arrogant and unreasonable, and they don't even care about the occasion, not only at home, but also often go to public to do nonsense.
For example, when some elderly people take the bus, once they see young people sitting in their seats and do not give up their seats, they will immediately scold, saying that "young people have no quality, and they don't know how to give up their seats when they see old people", and even force young people to get up from their seats.
In June 2016, a girl in her 20s got on the bus and didn't give up her seat to an old lady, and the old lady was furious.
The old lady first hurled insults with foul language for a while, and then dragged the girl up from her seat and forcibly occupied the seat.
In fact, the girl came to menstruation, her stomach hurt so much that she couldn't stand up at all, so she could only sit, and the girl explained for a long time, but the old lady turned a deaf ear.
Old people like this are morally corrupt, they only care about their own feelings, and they don't care about the difficulties of others.
This girl didn't deliberately refuse to give up her seat, but she was unwell and really couldn't help it. What's more, even if the young man was not unwell, the old lady's actions were very inappropriate. After all, it is a duty to give up a seat, and it is a duty not to give up.
Some old people are even more excessive, and they actually deliberately slander people.
When they are walking on the road, if they suddenly fall to the ground, the young people passing by will kindly step forward to help the elderly, and even send the elderly to the hospital for treatment.
As a result, some old people bite back, slandering that it was the young people who knocked them down and demanding that they pay for it.
Some young people can only consider themselves unlucky and lose money to the elderly because they can't explain clearly. Some young people may be lucky, and if there is surveillance nearby, the police will eventually clear their innocence, so that their legal rights and interests will not be violated.
Such things are not uncommon, which is why many people now dare not easily help the elderly when they see them falling.
It's not that everyone has become indifferent and ruthless, but there have been too many similar incidents, and everyone is afraid, so it's best to stay away, otherwise it is very likely to provoke anger.
Needless to say, such old people, their hearts are black. Others had good intentions and took the initiative to help, and in the end, they actually "treated their kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs", and they would take revenge, which is really heart-wrenching.
Third, the old should not rely on the old and sell the old
As an elderly person, you should not rely on the old and sell the old, which will only make everyone very uncomfortable.
But there are some old people in life who always like to rely on their old age, so they feel that they are superior, and everyone must let themselves and not be disrespectful to themselves. Otherwise, they will be vexatious and behave like a scoundrel.
There's an old saying: "It's not the old people who get bad, it's the bad people who get old." ”
Most of the morally corrupt old people are reckless from a young age, showing the ugly side of human nature to the fullest.
This ugly nature does not change with age, so they will continue to do evil as they get older.
In addition to the above three states of the elderly, there is another more hateful, that is, the elderly who deliberately commit crimes, such old people are simply heinous, and they may harm the lives of innocent people.
In short, these old people lack excellent qualities, and they naturally do not get people's respect. Finally, we want a little less evil old people in society.
Of course, there are still many good old people in society, and their number is more than evil old people, which is gratifying. It must be very happy to have such an old man in the family.
Only such old people are worthy of our respect, and I hope that the old people can learn and absorb the advantages of these kind old people. Only in this way will our society become more and more harmonious and beautiful.
The old man has experienced a long life, tasted the ups and downs of life, and it is not easy to live to such an old age.
Now that we have come to the last period of our lives, there is no need for everyone to do something dishonorable. Instead, we should do more good deeds and think more about our children and grandchildren, so that we can leave a good name and be very beneficial to future generations.
epilogue
Confucius once left a classic saying for future generations: "To be old and not die is to be a thief", which is extremely true, that is, to rebuke those morally corrupt old people, the longer they live, the more troublesome they will become, and they will only harm their families and others.
The elderly who live in these three states are all scourges, and they will only harm their children and grandchildren. These old people include: the ignorant old man, the poor old man, and the morally corrupt old man.
In fact, the elderly have seen all the things in the world, and at this age, their minds have entered a supreme realm.
In this case, the elderly should be incarnated as the sun, shining and shining, bringing more warmth to people and guiding the way for everyone.