The Buddha said: "The state of mind is happy when it changes, and the heart is annoying when it changes with the environment", whoever can see it will be detached!
Whether a person is happy or not depends only on himself, and a person's situation will change with the change of his heart, and the surrounding environment is only a reflection of his heart. If you want to have a smooth life, you must learn to look inwardly.
01. The so-called heart changes with the situation, and the suffering is unspeakable; The situation changes with your heart, and you can be at ease.
Many people have encountered situations where your life was peaceful and happy, but when you get something, you become happy, and when you lose something, you become miserable.
This is an example of the mind changing with the situation, in fact, you have not lost anything, you are still the same you, but because you have gained something, you have lost it, and the state of mind has changed.
I remember a story about a woman who was betrayed by her husband and her child died in a car accident.
When she fell into the water, she happened to be rescued by a passing master.
The woman said with a blank face: "I was bent on death, why did you save me, after saving me, I have to jump into the river, you are really doing this too much!" ”
After hearing this, the master laughed and said, "Why did you commit suicide?" ”
"I was abandoned by my husband and my children died, so why am I left alive?" The woman cried.
"Then how did you live before you met your husband?" The master asked.
"I lived a very happy life alone, and then I met someone who loved me and married him, but I didn't expect him to be a kind person!" The woman said resentfully.
The master shook his head and said, "Why are you so troubled? Now you are the same as you who didn't meet your previous husband, you are all alone, and fate has given you a chance to choose again, why are you not happy? ”
When the woman heard this, it suddenly dawned on her, yes! I have lost nothing, I have not gained, and I have returned to my original self, so why should I die?
Thinking of this, a smile appeared on the woman's face and said, "Thank you, I understand, I am still the same as I was, and I should be happy now, so I should be happy now." ”
The tall man nodded and turned away.
The bitterness and joy of life are like this, if you think about happiness, you are a happy person, if you are entangled in pain, then you are a painful person.
It's all because of your own mindset.
This also responds to the previous sentence, "The mood changes with the heart, it is pleasant, and the heart changes with the situation, it is annoying"
02. When you change, everything changes!
Life is short, and it is not someone else who can determine the fate of your life, but actually yourself.
In life, unsatisfactory things are common, people who are not used to seeing them are common, if you are disturbed by these things, you will be very entangled, if you don't take it seriously, then, you will have no troubles.
Buddhism says: Ten thousand laws are created by the mind.
People's perception of the external environment is actually inspired by their own minds. You will come what you want, and if you don't want to, nothing will interfere with you.
The heart has everything, the heart is empty, and everything is empty. The heart is in turmoil, everything is in chaos, and everything is at peace.
Many troubles in life come from the obsession in our hearts, what we obsess, what we will inevitably be trapped in.
There is a middle-aged woman whose husband has left her, and she lives a peaceful life on her own.
Suddenly, one day, she met a man she could talk to, and the two fell in love with each other.
In this way, the two began to fall in love, spending every day before and under the moon, and the house was full of romance.
However, as they got along for a long time, there were more and more contradictions between the two, and the woman found that she couldn't understand him more and more.
And the man also felt that the woman was prejudiced against him, so the two kept arguing, and finally broke up.
After the breakup, the two missed each other again and felt that there was no empty heart in each other's hearts.
As a result, the two split and reunited several times, but they couldn't leave each other.
But because of the idea of breaking up, this root has been buried in the heart, and once the other party has some problems, this seed will germinate, resulting in breakups again and again, pain again and again, and finally when they break up unhappily, both of them fall into pain and confusion.
Why can't love have a beginning and an end, when both people love each other, but they can't be together?
In fact, what the Buddhists say, the idealism of all laws, is this truth.
Your state of mind has changed, and there will be such a result, once the thought of separation occupies your heart, that is, you want to get back together, and there is also a chasm.
Unless both of them change each other, the love will last forever.
03. The ancients said: "The wind and the moon have no present and ancient, and the feelings are different."
The wind and moon are boundless, and many people yearn for beautiful love, which has been the same since ancient times, but the mood of the people who see it is different.
The story of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl has a long history, some people say it is romantic, some people say it is miserable, romantic people say it is the flaunt of love, and miserable people say it is the tragedy of love.
It's just that the heart is different, and the look is different.
The Buddha said: If there is a Buddha in the heart, everything you see is a Buddha.
I said, "If there is love in the heart, then the eyes are full of love."
It's like living in your own home, even if it's a thatched hut, you will feel comfortable and safe.
If you live in someone else's house, even if it is fine clothes and food, you will be restless day and night.
If the heart is stable and at ease, no matter what kind of situation you are in, you can be leisurely; If you are troubled in your heart, even if you stay in the treasure of feng shui, you will feel miserable and tormented.
Therefore, you are the root of everything.
One thought of heaven, one thought of hell. Your life is all your own creation.
There is a sentence in the "Diamond Sutra": The heart cannot be obtained in the past, the heart cannot be obtained in the present, and the heart cannot be obtained in the future.
People's joys, sorrows and sorrows are determined by themselves, you see it, let it go, you are still you, or the same you used to be. If you can't see it, then you're not you, it's you who is enchanted.
The mind is the root of everything, the root of trouble, and the root of happiness. If you don't want to be troubled by impermanence, you have to train your state of mind.
So, when you encounter problems, don't always complain, pat your conscience and ask yourself, why did the people who love you leave you? Is it because the people you meet are not good, or is it because you are less tolerant and understanding in your heart?
Many times, the root of the problem is in one's own heart. The person who bothers you may be here to help you. The person who makes you miserable may be here to cross you.
Therefore, if you want to open it, it is heaven, and if you can't think about it, it is a quagmire.
To sum up: if the heart is wide, people will be safe, and if the heart is big, it will be blessed.
As the old saying goes: the body is not as safe as the heart, and the house is not as wide as the heart.
You have tens of millions of wealth, not necessarily ordinary people are happy, material wealth, not real wealth, spiritual wealth, is real wealth.
Life is short, many things, there is no need to worry too much, too much, your heart will be chaotic, and nothing is pleasing to the eye, in fact, it was originally like this, but your mentality has changed, and everything is covered by haze.
If your heart is wide, it will disappear.
The heart is one inch wide, and the road is one foot wide. That's what I'm talking about.
As a person, the bigger the belly, the greater the achievement. The heart is selfless, the world is wide, and the heart has a lot of everything.
Relax in everything, good luck will come naturally, everything will be taken care of, and there will be troubles everywhere.
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