Lu Jiayi prepared for a year, stringing the stories of friends and family into a new book "As Long as You Are Willing to Go On Together". The title of the book comes from a quarrel between her and her husband Tang Zonglin, the two quarreled over trivial matters, but her husband chose to stop fighting calmly because he still wanted to go down with her. In the book, Lu Jiayi nicknamed her husband "big", and praised her husband as her "inspirational male god". But now she suddenly announced that this was the last book to write about "big children", because her husband ordered that she would no longer "sell her husband for glory".
Lu Jiayi and producer Tang Zonglin have been married for more than 5 years, and the "small soup" of that year has long become the "soup boss". Although he is still the "big man" in his wife's eyes, he does not want his clients or partners to be affected by the sweet stories in the book. Lu Jiayi is as kind as a stream, thanking her husband for growing up in love with her, obediently maintaining privacy for her husband, if you want to mention "big" in the future, you will use other ways to present, "so big fans should grasp the collection of this book!" 」
Compared with the previous book "Of Course Not All OK", which presents anxiety and confusion about life, she changes her concept in the new book, showing the wisdom and open-mindedness of women after 40 years old. Lu Jiayi described herself as "out of the cocoon", not only breaking through the heart defense to write down that she was "unfamiliar" with her sister Lu Jiaxin, but also disclosing the reason for not having a pet for the first time, and also pointing out that she was relieved of the current situation of not having children.
"Life can't demand it, it all depends on what fate wants to give you." Lu Jiayi did not deny that she had borne the expectations of her parents since she was a child, and when she grew up, she married but did not have children next, so that she also experienced the struggle of self-doubt and loneliness. Her friend told her that she was just skipping childcare and that the couple would have to return to their lives sooner or later when they grew up with their children, which gave her an epiphany. And she also mentioned in the book that the blueprint in her heart now is mainly based on the couple.
No one could answer her question about why she had a baby, but her friends often missed the time when she didn't have children, so she gradually stopped being trapped by this subject. She also mentioned the courage to face the re-establishment of a relationship with her sister, "After 20 years of these things, I think I have matured and can face the difficulties in my heart." 」 The most painful thing is that she wrote the chapter of her dog's death, and the words were full of tears. Because she witnessed the death of two dogs one after another, Lu Jiayi did not dare to keep any more pets and did not have the courage to bear the blow of parting.
She heals herself through words, but also comforts many fans who have lost love and are frustrated. She also mentioned that she will move towards a "travel writer" in the future, and she has studied photography with her teacher, and one day she will take her husband to travel the world with her.
