For someone you have given so much, why hate him or even die of dissociation? Foolish pride and self-esteem are evil cages for themselves, and letting others off may be the real way to let go of yourself.
——Lu Jiayi, "If You Don't Love, You Will Die"
Women are crazy, I reluctantly admit. Every woman, no matter her appearance and posture to talk about her intellectual personality experience, no matter how smart and intelligent she seems to be, understanding and elegant, she is still a woman after all, and when a woman meets love, she will go crazy. But do you think we enjoy being a crazy woman? The chagrin and regret after the madness, the lingering 'I knew this, why did I have it in the first place' has become the most profound and necessary growth in the process of every girl becoming a woman.
Ultimately, imperfection highlights perfection, and perfection begs for imperfection.
People are really selfish, many of our kindness and dedication to others, but only to satisfy our own sense of accomplishment that feels very sacrificial and dedicated, many efforts, even if pretending to be the appearance of the overall situation, in the end is just to prove their own good. No matter how you think about it, it is still selfish, but whether you dare to admit it or not, whether you have heard the voice of your heart.
The painful time of the past will surely fade away, but your existence and repentance also remind each other of the greatness and indelible mistakes at all times, and the hard work yourself is inevitably dragging each other down. In this drama, the bell needs to be lifted. When you can really pick up one day, gently put down, stride forward with your head held high, and strive to start pursuing happiness that can really be held in the palm of your hand, she will no longer regret it.
This time and again it seems that the trivial little things seem harmless, because life is always full of unexpected situations, sometimes the sky is not from people's wishes, sometimes the thoughts turn faster than the mouth, sometimes, always sometimes, saying is always better than doing, and doing is always more difficult than saying, not inconsiderate.
It is just that the cloak of madness is likely to fade, after repeatedly confirming the stability and security of the heart, after no longer doubting the self and gradually understanding yourself, after being willing to open your heart to accept your imperfections.
On this life lesson, women are not embarrassed by men at all, but themselves, at most, men have suffered from the pond fish, and there is no need to carry all this blame on their bodies, and then run away because they can't think of a solution.
In love, we are mostly helpless, but whether you can bear to survive it, whether you have used the right method.
Under the seemingly clear and cloudless sky, they have spent many years, all friends when they are born a pair of living treasures, how to guess, after each door closed, there are still their own troubles.
Of course, I also the emperor is not in a hurry to die eunuchs who have clicked over him, thinking that such a lovely couple is not a big problem of betrayal and stealing food, let alone who does not love anyone, getting along, there is always a need to adjust and coordinate with each other. Boys are always more coarse and leafy, many small problems are not put in the heart, and as the days go by, they will only make things worse in the girl's heart.
Perhaps letting go of the doubts and sentimentality in his heart, his stiff shoulder line also relaxed and softened. I said let's all go to Legacy that night to see the show! In the wonderful performance of glutinous rice that was hard to get together again, he raised his mobile phone, recorded their favorite song "Paris Strawberry", pressed the teleport button, and finally extended the pair of hands that were willing to hold again.
She said this about the loss of love --
It is to think carefully about the other party's goodness, his smile, hugs, breath, all the bits and pieces of the slightest, when we all think carefully, after seriously sadness, wipe away the tear marks, and then have greater energy to love others.
"If You Don't Love, You'll Die"
Whether in the harem or in our real life, it is not for love. Those women who want to block and destroy my love, those women who know that I exist but do not take me seriously, with a youthful and innocent smile and a simpleness that is not deeply involved in the world, step into my territory and arrogantly spread wilderness. Even though the feelings have passed, I still can't forget the taste of the breath I swallowed at the moment. This is no longer related to the feelings of men and women, this is a tug-of-war between women and women, winning or losing does not matter at all, but if you make bad and do evil, all the consequences will be borne by yourself.
V is a handsome guy, the kind of guy who glances at the past and scans back and forth quickly within three seconds, and definitely doesn't have any small loopholes that make you frown. Work is also the design industry that everyone envies and has free time, he seems to understand something when talking to him, the most likable thing is that he always smiles at people, no matter what you say, he can look like a sincere and cheerful laugh at all.
And men are never as smart as we think, women don't have to be miserable, one day, true love will overcome everything.
He also said that she gave up the indulgent play of singing night and night for him, washed her hands and made soup, and the two of them nestled in the nest of fresh water every day, living their own happy days. Of course, sometimes there are small fights, but it can always be resolved in a short time, and he draws her beautiful appearance on paper, recording the colorful excitement with black and white sketches.
Their mode of interaction is very small and unsuspecting, two people giggle every day, as if the sky is falling, even if everyone else is squashed, it will not be pressed on the two of them, that kind of, carefree.
I am also crazy, although everyone can't see it, but my madness is always performed for love, only the men in the family can see, this wonderful Drama Queen Show Time, I can imagine that if a third party is present, I will definitely be frightened by the one hundred and eighty degrees of madness, but this is a woman.
I am not surprised at all, but for a girl like her, she is always full of vitality, positive sunshine, and happy to give, but she still feels tired and surprised. It turns out that love is really not an inexhaustible, inexhaustible energy for ten thousand years, even if it is environmentally friendly solar energy, it also needs to be sunburned every day in order to continue to operate, if it is not replenished, it will be exhausted in the end.
"A worm on the stage, a dragon on the stage", a practitioner of life who has lived and failed.