Yesterday I heard a very sweet and sweet story.
A boy has secretly liked a girl for a long time, but he has been silently paying attention to her, and there is no chance to get close.
Later, when the girl was in a little trouble, the boy volunteered to help her and started to talk.
The girl slowly found that the boy seemed to understand herself very well, and the preferences of the two people were also very similar, and she gradually had a good impression of the boy.
In fact, the boy was silently paying attention to her during that time, and did a lot of homework to understand her. Now that he finally has a chance, of course he seizes every opportunity to get the attention of the girls.
The boy confessed to her, saying that he liked her very much and wanted to be with her.
The girl asked: You confessed to me so directly, aren't you afraid that I will reject you?
The boy said, "I'm afraid, but what if I refuse?" If you refuse, I'll keep chasing.
In the end, the two of them were naturally together. But the boy insisted that WeChat confession does not count, and he must find a romantic time and place to confess in person.
And then he did.
The girl said that she had met a lot of boys who liked to be ambiguous before, young and ignorant, she thought it was like it, and she was fooled several times.
It wasn't until she met him that she understood what it was to really like.
Nowadays, it is always said that there are fewer and fewer people who are willing to take the initiative.
Because being proactive means that you may have to suffer from disappointment, disappointment, and neglect.
But believe me, emotionally, there is no boy who will not take the initiative, and most of the people who will use the "want to catch and indulge" set on you are not good people.
How much a person likes you depends on how active that person is to you in the relationship.
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Take the initiative to chat with you
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Someone once said that if I take the initiative to chat with you, it may just be a good impression of you, but it does not necessarily mean that I like it, if I take the initiative to chat with you, then I must like you.
A person who is willing to always take the initiative with you, always open up to you, and always willing to be your listener, must like you.
If a person always takes the initiative to talk to you for a long time, it proves that he likes you very much.
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Take the initiative to show affection
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In the adult world, everyone is very clear, and if they don't meet the right person, no one will take the initiative to cut off all their back roads.
Only when you meet the right person will you tell the world.
Because I really like it, because I have confirmed my eyes, I know that each other is the right person, so I dare to introduce her to everyone around me without reservation.
Because he was sure, he didn't hesitate at all, cut off all his back roads, didn't leave other opportunities for himself, and didn't give others a chance to take advantage of.
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Take the initiative to admit your mistakes
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It is normal and natural for there to be occasional conflicts or quarrels in a relationship.
If a person is willing to take the initiative to admit his mistake to you after a quarrel, or take the initiative to give you a step down, then it means that he really loves you.
Only people who truly love you or care about you will sincerely admit their mistakes to you after arguing with you.
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Take the initiative to care for you
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Love or not love, it's all in the details.
If a person can start from the details, start from every little thing related to your life, and take the initiative to care for you and care for you, then I think he has you in his heart.
He puts you first in everything, remembers your menstrual period, remembers the foods you don't like to eat.
When the weather is cold, he will take the initiative to care about whether you are warm;
If you're in a bad mood, he'll try his best to make you happy;
For your sake, he will reject all temptations and temptations;
Because he knows how important you are to him.
With him, you can feel favored and cared for.
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Take the initiative to create surprises
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For a girl, what is more precious than love is his determination to love you.
Love is to feel that whatever he has is nothing, whatever he gives you, it feels like it is far from enough.
You are perfect in his eyes, only the best can be worthy of you.
When I see a newly opened high-end restaurant, I want to take you to try it for the first time;
When you go shopping, you will buy the clothes you like.
What girls want is expensive, not the price, but the heart.
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I'm sure you must have seen other people's love, and seen the state of both parties in a relationship.
If a person really cares about you, he must have that kind of "not seeing you for a day, such as every three autumns".
There is the kind of sweetness that has to talk a lot after saying goodnight,
There's that expectation of wanting to know what you're doing all the time.
We have all loved someone very seriously, and we all know in our hearts what it is like to love someone, and we also know that if he loves you, you will definitely feel it from his performance and actions.
If he cares about you, you must be the person he wants to contact the most.
If he cares about you, he will want to take you there at the first moment when he encounters delicious food, and he will be the first to think of sharing with you when he encounters something interesting;
If he cares about you, he will take the initiative to tell you what he is doing, and he will take the initiative to introduce you to his friends;
If he cares about you, he will have endless words with you every day, instead of sparing words like gold;
If he cares about you, he will definitely take the initiative to open his arms to shield you from the wind and rain, protect you, and quietly plan your future.
People don't always maintain an ambiguous attitude towards what they like.
Love is the same, although it will hesitate, it will not retreat, let alone give up.
When you really like someone, even if you are calm, you will try to get close to the other person, and you will not be suspicious.