On the stage of life, we often meet some people, who are like the breeze of summer, blowing lightly, but also like the frost of winter, quietly biting. Dong Mingzhu, a strong woman in the business world, uses her wisdom and tenacity to reveal a hidden truth for us: "When you try to ignore someone, in fact, your heart is already deeply hurt." ”
Imagine what that would be like? It's like a pot of flowers that you take care of, but it's left out in the corner and no one cares about it. You try to tell yourself that time will dilute everything, but the loss and helplessness in your heart are like forgotten seeds, silently growing and silently taking root. Dong Mingzhu once said: "Rejection does not mean indifference, sometimes, it is just the last line of defense to protect yourself." ”
We are all ordinary people, who doesn't have a few difficult people, who doesn't have a few unforgettable experiences? Those emotions that try to ignore are like stubborn stones, stubbornly embedded in the bottom of the heart, and every touch is a painful reminder. However, life must go on, and we have learned to move forward with our wounds and hide our tears with a smile, because "life is like a reverse journey, and I am also a pedestrian".
"When you don't respond, people will understand that you don't really care." This sentence may be Dong Mingzhu's best interpretation of this emotional treatment. Sometimes, our silence is the most powerful answer. It tells us that it's not that I don't care, it's that I've learned to heal myself and how to find strength in pain.
In this fast-paced society, we are so busy chasing that we often ignore the warmth and coldness of the people around us. But remember, sometimes, the deepest hurt comes from the feeling we try to ignore. You might as well give yourself a chance to face, understand, and cherish, because "loving and being loved are the gifts of life".
Finally, let's end this short article with Dong Mingzhu's words: "Life is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you; You cry to it, and it will return your tears. Therefore, when we try to ignore it, it is better to face it bravely, let the wounds of the soul slowly heal, and let those former pains become the medals of our growth.
This article may not be able to heal all the pain, but I hope it can bring you a trace of warmth and make you understand that those seemingly ruthless neglects are actually deep inner struggles and growth. Forward it to your friends and family so that they can feel this deep resonance too!