1. Make good connections
If you envy a woman who has good fortune, there are noble people to help, strong people to support, and warm-hearted people to help.
And you, no one cares, even the relatives around you, they all have their own ghosts, and they have their own little calculations in their hearts, and no one really plans for you.
In comparison, do you feel that your life is thin?
However, you only saw the glamour of that woman's good fortune when it came, but you didn't see her good deeds when she was mediocre, and her pure heart and indifference that she didn't expect to return after she had worked hard to accumulate goodness.
The ancients said: For good, you don't see the benefits, just like the winter melon in the grass should grow in the dark.
The meaning of this sentence is that there is no benefit in doing good, just like a winter melon growing in the grass, even if you can't see it, it is still growing.
The words of the ancients were concise and to the point, and they did tell a profound and everyday truth. Just like a person who does a good deed on weekdays and can't see a return at that time, it doesn't mean that the thing is meaningless.
Your kindness and kindness, your kindness and help to others, even if they do not respond in the moment, will play a role in the future due to an opportunity.
This reminds me of the scene in "Dream of Red Mansions" where Grandma Liu visited Jiafu for the first time.
At that time, she brought her grandson to the door to ask for help, and it was Wang Xifeng who received her, and the two exchanged a few words, and Grandma Liu replied with a smile, with a smile hidden in the embarrassment and humility of begging people.
The shrewd Wang Xifeng didn't wait for Grandma Liu to speak, so he took the initiative to say: Take the twenty taels of silver that his wife left for the maid to make clothes.
Grandma Liu was grateful, and it didn't take long for her to go back. After that, Grandma Liu didn't show up for a long time, thinking that she had disappeared, but later Jiafu's family fell into the middle of the road, and the people in the house ran around and were displaced.
At this time, Grandma Liu appeared again, and in order to save Wang Xifeng's daughter Sister Qiao, she poured all her family wealth, just because of Wang Xifeng's good deeds back then, she was relieved of her dilemma.
Although Wang Xifeng is ruthless and strict, she can be regarded as accumulating virtue for herself here in Grandma Liu, and her blessings are repaid to her daughter, which can be regarded as a wish.
The cycle of cause and effect, the good karma you have formed, one day, will repay you in another way.
It is delusional to have good deeds before there are good deeds, rather than doing nothing and waiting for good fortune to fall from the sky.
As a person said: To be a man, you have to accumulate virtue at any time, like saving money, little by little, and only when you are virtuous can you hold on to blessings.
2. Thanksgiving Diagram
I have found that the blessings of those who know about Entu are generally not shallow.
Repaying kindness is also a kind of repayment of debts, repayment of human debts, the purpose is peace of mind, and what is done is to benefit others and oneself, so that the blessing will become thicker and thicker.
And the ungrateful cannot bear the blessing, even if they have a short period of good luck, they will eventually be eaten up by the unkindness.
When watching "Dream of Red Mansions", I was moved by the beautiful quality of Grandma Liu's gratitude and retribution, and she also became a person with profound blessings in the play.
On that day, she got twenty taels of silver from Wang Xifeng and went home to develop. Then, during the harvest season, I came back with a lot of fresh fruits and vegetables.
This time, she didn't come to borrow money, but to repay the favor. When Jia Mu heard about it, she was very curious and summoned her.
Although she is a countryman who grows crops, she has a very happy conversation with Jia's mother, and she has made Jia's mother laugh several times. Then, Jia's mother left her for dinner, tasted tea, and took her to visit the Grand View Garden.
Grandma Liu left a humorous impression on everyone, and she was sincere and simple, the old man worked tirelessly, and came all the way to repay the kindness, and the people of Jiafu were also very interesting, accepted her kindness, and entertained her.
Before leaving, Wang Xifeng, Jia Mu and others gave her a lot of things, telling her not to go to relatives anymore and take the money to do some business. Grandma Liu was so moved that tears were about to come out.
Grandma Liu's gratitude and gratitude ushered in greater blessings for her, she was originally poor, but later she had the capital to turn over.
If you take advantage of the favor and enjoy it alone, or if you look at the benefactor coldly, then the blessing you have saved so hard will eventually be ruined due to your bad character.
3. Have the courage to try
Some people's good fortune is brought by others, while some people's good fortune is their own.
Like one of my classmates, she likes to try different fields and doesn't mind working in a few more lines until she decides on a lifelong career.
Later, she joined an Internet company and found new opportunities that had never been seen before. A few years later, she became a well-known knowledge blogger.
A few days ago, in the circle of friends, I saw her sharing a video of working while traveling, and I was inevitably full of emotion.
As a peer, why is her good fortune so good, and I am still groping for my career, crawling hard.
I think it's all because of the hardships I'm suffering now, she has already endured, but when I choose to work comfortably, she chooses to keep trying.
Today's smoothness and good fortune are tempered by the hardships she has suffered for a long time.
I have never suffered like that, I have never tried so boldly, worked hard, and endured the double pressure of gossip and unpredictable risks, how can I have such a blessing as her?
If she had chosen to be content with the status quo and enjoy stability and light pressure at the beginning, then she would not have ushered in the ideal days of freedom and material things without delay.
A person's good fortune is not given by God for no reason, it is either accumulated by doing good deeds in ordinary times, or won by unremitting efforts, or it is exchanged for one's own outstanding advantages.
In short, maintain a kind heart for the world, a grateful heart for the society, coupled with a wise and foolish mind, and a diligent attitude to actively solve problems, you will also become a blessed person.