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When it comes to Zhang Jianing, many people's first impression is that she is beautiful and generous, has starred in many excellent TV series, and her reputation is also very good. But not long ago, she was at the center of the storm because she resolutely refused to recognize her biological father. This is a heartbreak from my father!
In fact, Zhang Jianing has not had the nourishment of father's love since he was a child, and he is even more resentful of his biological father. It turned out that when she was born, her father showed a serious patriarchal mentality, and he had no love for this daughter at all, and the mother and daughter could only be self-reliant.
The biological father left his wife and daughter and left alone
Zhang Jianing's mother, Zhang Shuzhen, was an ordinary middle school teacher and lived a decent life. But soon after Zhang Jianing was born, her husband Han Jinhai turned a blind eye to this daughter and ignored his wife and daughter.
Over time, the couple gradually drifted apart. Han Jinhai felt that he was too a failure as a father, why did he give birth to a daughter? So he simply ran away from home and left his wife and daughter behind.
Shouldering the burden of a family of three alone, Zhang Shuzhen could only quit her job as a teacher and make a living by doing some odd jobs. The living environment suddenly became very poor, and the mother and daughter often had problems with food and clothing.
"At that time, my family was really poor, and sometimes I couldn't even pay for the most basic food." Zhang Jianing recalled that difficult childhood, and his eyes moistened.
Overwhelmed by patriarchal prejudices
The situation of the mother and daughter is certainly sympathetic, but what makes people even more angry is Han Jinhai, the so-called father. Not only did he leave his wife and daughter behind, but after he had a new family, he was reluctant to give even the most basic child support to Zhang Jianing and her mother.
It can be seen how patriarchal this man is, and he is 100% shameless for his daughter. In order to maintain her life, Zhang Shuzhen had to do all kinds of miscellaneous work, scraping together every day to barely make ends meet. Even when he was sick and hospitalized, Han Jinhai did nothing.
"My mom unfortunately developed a severe kidney stone when I was in elementary school and needed surgery. But my so-called father turned a blind eye to this, and my mother had to rely on her own friends and relatives to pool money for treatment. Zhang Jianing's tone was full of anger.
Uncle Zhang Xiaolong became a confidant
In this predicament, Zhang Jianing has the support of an important relative, that is, her uncle Zhang Xiaolong.
Zhang Xiaolong is a well-known actor in the circle, and his family background is also very good. After learning about the situation of his niece, mother and daughter, he reached out without saying a word, not only funding Zhang Shuxian's surgery expenses, but also bearing Zhang Jianing's living expenses and later college tuition.
In addition to financial support, Zhang Xiaolong also paid great attention to Zhang Jianing's growth. He often talks to his niece on the phone to understand her study and life, and will also give timely advice and guidance. From elementary school to university, Zhang Xiaolong is like Zhang Jianing's biological father, who cares about her all the time.
It was Zhang Xiaolong who encouraged Zhang Jianing to apply for the acting major and discovered her stage talent. It is with the strong support and careful cultivation of his uncle that Zhang Jianing embarked on the road of acting step by step, and finally became a popular first-line star.
Career take-off and success
With his own extraordinary efforts and talents, Zhang Jianing gradually opened up his popularity in the film and television industry. She has starred in many blockbuster dramas such as "Little Brother and Sister", "Do You Know", "Twinkle Twinkle and Twinkle", and her acting skills have won unanimous praise.
Today's Zhang Jianing not only has a successful career, but also has an annual income of hundreds of millions. As a popular little flower, she has always been conscientious and diligent in her work, and this spirit of hard work has also continued into life.
Last year, she took her mother Zhang Shuzhen to participate in the recording of a reality show. In order to repay her mother for her hard work over the years, Zhang Jianing also specially purchased a mansion worth 5 million yuan for her mother as a gift for Mother's Day.
Everything seems to be happy, but when asked if he is willing to re-recognize his ancestors and accept his biological father, Zhang Jianing gave a resounding slap in the face. She bluntly said, "Don't mention my biological father again, my father is my uncle Zhang Xiaolong!" It turns out that the pain of the year can no longer be healed.
Is it the fear of marriage or the inability to let go of old wounds
However, while his career is shining, Zhang Jianing is extremely cautious about married life. At the age of 35, she is still unmarried and has no children, and she has always been a gold medal leftover girl. Even the news of dating a boyfriend is unheard of.
Some analysts pointed out that the reason why Zhang Jianing is so "afraid of marriage" is likely to be affected by childhood and family trauma. The shadow of broken parents and families will undoubtedly create fear and distrust of married life.
Some people also believe that perhaps Zhang Jianing has been unable to let go of her father's injury, and this hatred for her biological father occupies her heart, making it difficult for her to devote herself to a relationship. After all, he has not been infiltrated by father's love since he was a child, and he inevitably lacks confidence in love.
However, regardless of the reason, many viewers praised Zhang Jianing's approach, saying that she has principles and ethics and will not be easily forgotten by old injuries. This tenacious character is also one of the important reasons why she has a foothold in the entertainment industry.
How important is family love? Some people regard money and status as heaven, but some people would rather abandon their families and careers for the love of their loved ones.
From Zhang Jianing's family experience, we can see how huge and far-reaching the impact of a complete family and a harmonious parental relationship is on the growth of children. Without her father's love, she has endured too much pain and injustice at a young age, which will undoubtedly leave a wound in her heart that is difficult to heal.
Fortunately, Zhang Jianing did not fall like this, on the contrary, she chose to exchange her own efforts for dignity and happiness. Relying on the tenacity of tenacious struggle, she finally achieved her career and resolved hatred with love.
For the biological father of the negative man, she did not hurt him back in the same way, but tolerated to keep a distance from him and focus on her own life.
However, Zhang Jianing's wait-and-see attitude towards marriage is also suffocating. The popular actress has not seen Prince Charming for the time being, and she seems to be more eager for career success than marriage. The shadow of family trauma is still continuing, and the breakdown of her parents' relationship back then hit her too hard, so she is inevitably afraid of love and marriage.
However, the audience also hopes that one day Zhang Jianing will be able to completely let go of the past and open his heart to embrace true love. After all, a person's physical and mental health development is inseparable from the nourishment of family affection and love. As a public figure, her life experiences will also affect more ordinary people's outlook on life and values.
There is no absolute fairness in life, and everyone will encounter such and such unsatisfactory and even suffer harm. But the key is what kind of mentality to face and let go. Zhang Jianing used his life to give the answer: forgive the past, embrace the present, and run towards the future.
Only by learning to let go of hatred and stop dwelling on the past can life have more possibilities. Looking forward to a better tomorrow and finding peace of mind and strength is the true meaning of life. Zhang Jianing interprets this point with her personal experience, and her story will surely warm the hearts of more people.
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