Oh my god, this is really a big trouble! A premature baby was choked to death by the confinement sister-in-law, which can frying netizens now! Everyone is asking: Is this platinum confinement lady professional? Let's talk about it.
Here's the thing: There is a 34-year-old Ms. Li who finally got her first baby, and she was still a premature baby. In order to take care of this baby bump, Ms. Li spent 10,000 oceans to hire a platinum-level confinement lady. Who knew that this "senior" confinement lady choked to death on the first day of work! I heard that I was fed four times, and each time it showed obvious unprofessionalism. Thinking about it, I feel sorry for this 25-year-old novice mother, who finally had a child, but it turned out to be like this, how uncomfortable!
As soon as this incident came out, the Internet exploded. Everyone questioned the professional level of the confinement sister-in-law, and some people said: "You can ask someone to cook and do housework to reduce the burden, but the child still has to bring it himself to rest assured!" Another mother shared her experience and said: "I gave birth to two babies, both of whom were raised by myself. If you don't know how to learn, it's better than giving it to someone else! "
What's even more infuriating is that when such a big thing happens, the confinement company is only willing to bear 10% to 20% of the responsibility! Isn't that bullying? The children are gone, so that's the compensation? Ms. Li said that the company didn't even apologize, which is too unusual!
However, in the end, this matter had a "happy" ending. On July 16, the blogger posted a video saying that he had reached a settlement with Swan Daojia and that the matter had been resolved. The related videos have also been taken off the shelves, and the couple is ready to return to normal life.
Hearing this, we can't help but ask: What kind of "consummation" method is this reconciliation? How much money do you have to lose to make the parents who lost their children feel "fulfilled"? There must be an untold story behind this!
Honestly, this is a lesson for us. Finding a confinement lady is not a casual matter, you have to investigate it carefully. Some netizens said: "Excellent confinement ladies all accept private orders, and the queue is full." In a place like Xi'an, the monthly salary is more than 12,000. Only newbies who have just come out will take orders on the platform. "That's really to the point!
Looking back, there are quite a few problems that have been exposed. First of all, is there a problem with the supervision of the confinement industry? Isn't it a joke that a platinum-level confinement lady can't even pass the most basic breastfeeding skills? Secondly, shouldn't those confinement platforms also reflect on it? It's irresponsible to just collect money, and if something happens, you want to shirk responsibility, can such a platform be reassuring?
Let's talk about the new parents, especially the elderly mothers like Ms. Li. We all understand that for the sake of the child, we can't wait to give him the best. But is it really the best option to leave your child completely in the care of someone else? Perhaps, growing up and learning with children is the most precious experience.
At the end of the day, there is no shortcut to raising children. Whether you bring it yourself or ask someone to help, you have to be careful. To be responsible for your children is to be responsible for yourself.
This matter caused a lot of uproar, and in the end it was quietly "reconciled". However, can the wounds in the hearts of those parents who have lost their children really heal so quickly? Can the problems that have been exposed really be so easily ignored?
Each of us should think about it: if it were you, what would you do? Is it wholeheartedly to bring the baby by yourself? Or carefully choose a reliable confinement lady? Or, what better way do you balance work and parenting?
In this world, there is nothing more precious than a new life. So, no matter which way you choose to take care of your child, remember: your child's safety and well-being always come first.
To be honest, after hearing this, I felt very uncomfortable in my heart. A little life is gone, and it's scary to think about. Don't we parents just want our children to grow up healthy and happy? It's heart-wrenching to encounter this kind of thing.
This incident is also a wake-up call for us. Finding a confinement lady is not a trivial matter, you have to be cautious. It is not only the price that depends on the price, but also the professionalism and experience of the people. If you really don't feel at ease, then bring the baby yourself. It's hard work, but at least it's steady.
Also, it's time for those confinement companies to reflect and reflect. If you collect so much money, you have to be responsible. If you can't guarantee even the most basic safety, then what kind of company is there to open? Hurry up and close the door!
It's also a lesson for new parents. No matter how busy you are, you should take time to learn about parenting and communicate with experienced parents. After all, no one knows their children better than you, and no one cares more about their safety than you do.
Finally, let's not forget that government departments should also be responsible in this matter. The supervision of the confinement industry has to keep up, and this kind of tragedy can't be allowed to happen again. It is necessary to conduct strict audits and regular training, and if there is a problem, it must be severely punished. Only in this way can we as parents be truly at ease.
In short, this is a lesson for us. It's not easy to raise a baby, but no matter how difficult it is, you have to work hard. I hope that all parents can raise their children safely and smoothly, so that every little life can grow up healthy and happy. This is our greatest wish!