Text: Wu Qingqian
In the variety show "My Girl 2024", Liu Yan and He Jie were a little shocked and incomprehensible when they learned that Sa Dingding had been living with their parents, because artists like them who work outside all year round often live alone. But after listening to Sa Dingding's explanation, I seem to understand a little, Sa Dingding is an only child, and her parents like to accompany her, and it is normal to live together, and Liu Yan and He Jie are both brothers and sisters, and their parents' needs for them are unlikely to be as strong as those of only child parents.
When she was a guest at Liu Yan's house, He Jie, who gradually picked up her career and worked hard alone, said that she slowly realized that when a woman is independent, she doesn't need a person to rely on at all, and she is her own support. At present, her husband does not live in Beijing, her husband and children are not with her, she is alone in Beijing, or sometimes she works in other places and will not be with them, and she is learning to live on her own, and she thinks it is very good.
Liu Yan and He Jie have known each other for many years, and they know that each other was accompanied by their families before, so it is normal for them to live alone in recent years. And Liu Yan's explanation is based on the conditions of all members living alone, and she thinks that single artists should basically live by themselves like her, and their parents live in their hometown, or even if everyone is in the same city, in order to give each other more space, or one of them is more eager to live alone, they will live separately. Who knew that Sa Dingding did not live alone, but always lived with his parents.
This situation made He Jie very curious: "How do you fall in love?" Liu Yan was also curious, "I'm your boyfriend who falls in love with you, and I see your parents every day (in other words, it's scary to think about). But Sa Dingding felt that none of this was a problem, who asked him to come to her house, whether he could see her outside, and he didn't necessarily have to be brought to the house. This explanation seems to make sense, and it is irrefutable.
But Liu Yan said that living with his parents will always encounter inconvenient times, especially when he is in love. Sa Dingding once again explained that the reason why she has been living with her parents is because she is the only child in her family, and if she does not live with them, she will feel completely sorry for her parents, and her parents also like to accompany her. She also asked her parents if she had "kidnapped" them. They followed her in Beijing, and they couldn't hang out with their friends or anything, but their parents said they were still willing to follow her. So she doesn't feel guilty, and she sometimes takes her parents out to play and enroll in various classes to make their lives fuller.
That is to say, Sa Dingding has been living with his parents because of the objective factor of the only child problem, and her parents need her company, and she will feel guilty if she does not accompany her. Liu Yan and He Jie both understood this, and felt that they didn't have to live with their parents, maybe because she Liu Yan had an older brother, like He Jie, she had a younger brother, and her parents' spiritual dependence on them would not be so strong. After all, even if you don't have their company, don't you still have their brother's company? What's more, many grandparents of the older generation still prefer to live with their sons, so their parents will not want their daughters to accompany them all the time. In addition, the nature of their work does not allow them to spend more time with their parents all the time, and parents feel that it is better to follow another child who has more time to spend with them.
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