Hello everyone, I am learning English and my voice is dumb "class leader".
His name is Li Yang, yes, the same Li Yang who had no difference in scenery at that time, who had been on CCTV and was exposed layer by layer because of domestic violence.
Although I don't know if the event that the "class leader" wants to talk about today is his original, I can be very sure that with his help, the entire millennium era has been covered by a layer called "moving education".
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > where does the moving education come from, and what is his relationship with Li Yang? </h1>
In 2001, China joined the WTO, the national football team broke into the final round of the World Cup, Beijing's bid for the Olympic Games was successful, China's relations with the Western world continued to heat up, Chinese learning English became Li Yang's wealth code, he began to lay out a nationwide English speech, and used patriotism as the entry point, which can be described as a big show.
After 2006, the post-80s students are no longer the core consumer group, a new generation of post-90s debut, post-90s can be described as a unique generation standing on the cusp of the new era, this generation of children's material life has become rich, and the country has gradually changed from material needs to spiritual needs. Therefore, the problem of star chasing, Internet addiction, early love and other issues are like a cannon blowing up in front of people's eyes, and the society is full of verbal criticism of the post-90s. At this time, the clever Li Yang gave up the name of patriotic education and turned to moving education, that is, this decision led the national primary and secondary school speech industry into a new era of "filial piety".
In 2007, when hundreds of students in Baotou knelt down and caused a sensation in the country, Li Yang set up a crazy English training base in Baotou, asked all students to kneel and kowtow to the teacher in a speech, and put photos on his blog for publicity. In the end, things were defeated by justice, but Li Yang's whole model was learned by countless "education speakers" and constantly applied to the next generation of minors.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="6" > li yang who fell down, and could not go to the expert speech</h1>
Recently, a video of a campus speech at the Eighth Primary School in Honghuagang District, Zunyi City, attracted widespread attention, and the children on the screen looked down and sobbed one by one, as if they had become a tearful person. The big words on the stage of "family education, Lide tree people, gratitude to realize the dream" are particularly eye-catching.
In the setting of these so-called "well-known educators", the image of the parent is standard with four major pieces, rough hands, wrinkles at the corners of the eyes, giving up XX for you, and willing to be a cow and a horse. At the same time, the image of the parent must also be the appearance of Tu Bu La, because only in line with this temperament can it be linked to greatness. They told the child to accept the child's negative emotions as the mother's punching bag, because "if the mother's emotions are not vented, she will get mental illness." As a child, you can only be patient and called gratitude. There is nothing to repay except obedience.
Children who are obviously only ten years old seem to have committed unforgivable sins through the mouths of "well-known educators". The guilt fell from the sky, the guilt came from nowhere, the spirit of independence was far from formed, and the childish body was saddled with the debt of love early.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="8" > distorts the essence of quality education and forcibly moves in order to move</h1>
In the speech of the "well-known educator", the rich emotions of human beings are ignored, and family affection is reduced to a formula that can only be calculated in one direction.
"I'd rather let yourself down than let down someone who loves you"
"My coming is the source of my parents' pain and burden, the grace of nurturing is like Tarzan pressing the top, and the rest of my life is the road of atonement"
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Such a biased statement is forcibly injected into the young minds of students in the mouths of "well-known educators", and this group of bricklayers can be said to have exerted their language talent to the extreme in order to achieve the effect, but they do not know that such remarks are actually a great destruction to the children's young minds.
When interviewed by Professor Feng Jianjun of Nanjing Normal University, Guangming Daily said: "Overemphasizing gratitude for shi geen will psychologically strengthen the inequality between parents and children, and it will be detrimental to each other's moral development." Gratitude is inspired by feelings, and it stems from real life scenes and relationship interactions, rather than hanging tragic stories and imposed ethical oppression. ”
Gao Desheng, a professor at East China Normal University, believes that "the love of parents is the love of giving, and the love of not seeking return." To inspire gratitude in terms of reciprocity is to belittle the love of parents. ”
Exaggerating the hard and arduous rhetoric of effort is not education at all, but rather an oppression. Those emotions forced out by external stimuli are also not real emotions, and they cannot be precipitated into qualities. The tears were hot, but the love was already cold. As Gibran wrote, "Children come for you, not for you." ”
When life becomes an endless debt repayment, family affection no longer makes people nostalgic, it becomes a kind of bondage, bitter and unbearable, embraced like a barberry swallowing needles, and finally connecting with each other, mostly resentment. What children need is not gratitude to their parents, but to learn to love their parents. We should advocate a kind of love, and this kind of love is a kind of great love, a great love beyond gratitude.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="10" > sigh again, the haze will always be blown away</h1>
The word love is really too great and too heavy, so it is easier to be used. When love is interpreted in a simple and crude way, and the era of widespread circulation is a gray era, many coincidences have contributed to this deformed and unscrupulous industry.
Quality education is becoming more and more deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and good education makes us understand that the original true love education requires an afternoon of experts gushing endlessly, which needs to shout loudly and exhaustively, and which needs to kneel at the mercy of others.
Love comes from the heart, and love is when two hearts are truly attached together.