The boy standing next to Xue Zhiqian was not a vegetarian, but it was likely that if you wanted to break your head, you couldn't remember who he was.
He is Hou Gao Junjie, who once appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala with Jay Chou and sang "Compendium of Materia Medica" and "Hot Girls". He wasn't even 10 years old...
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Hou Gao Junjie was really powerful when he was young, and he showed a very high artistic talent and a super memory since he was a child. When he was still learning to speak, he began to read and recognize words, come into contact with music, painting and other knowledge.
One example that proves his memory is that he was able to memorize more than 1,000 decimal points.
He has been "someone else's child" since he was a child, especially in learning street dance, which can be said to be "gifted". Many of his peers can't complete the action, such as head spin, Thomas, etc., he can easily complete, amazing.
From a "genius dancer" who has gradually become popular to being appreciated by Zhou Dong and appearing on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, Hou Gao Junjie is lucky. That year's Spring Festival Gala, Jay Chou sang, he was responsible for showmanship, and even stole the light of the protagonist.
Almost overnight, everyone got to know this child standing next to Jay Chou, and became popular overnight. After becoming famous, Hou Gaojunjie also released his own single, which has long been a lot ahead of his peers.
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I thought that this boy who won at the starting line could bring us more surprises, but now he has become a passerby and forgotten.
Hou Gao junjie, who became a hit and became a hit, began to appear on the show and take business performances non-stop, became a guest of honor at various David TV, and even tried to be a guest host, but the response was mediocre.
Regarding the reason for his "dropout from school," some people questioned at that time whether he was tempted by the outside world of flowers and flowers, thus delaying his studies.
His family clarified that he was asked to leave the school because the school's teaching method was too slow to suit his children at all, and indicated that Hou Gao junjie had completed all the courses of junior high school at the age of 11.
Even so, he was quickly forgotten by everyone, and new people emerged in an endless stream, whether it was the entertainment industry or life, it was "sailing against the current and not advancing or retreating", until 2020 he came to "Every Day Upward", recreating the classics of the year, still did not stir up too much splash.
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Now Hou Gao Junjie is also trying to fight for the role, belonging to the people who are wandering on the edge of the entertainment industry, his killing Matt style and gradually blessed figure, making it difficult for everyone to associate with the spiritual dance genius of that year, and everyone is lost.
The story of "Hurt Zhongyong" is widely circulated, the child's childhood is like a blank piece of paper, what kind of rules and regulations his parents draw for him, he will follow what kind of rules.
Liang Qiushi wrote in his essay "Children", "Young prodigy, less ambitious, long and unknown, in the end with the grass and trees decay." ”
In order to avoid the occurrence of this phenomenon, parents should be particularly vigilant in these aspects.
1) Don't show off your child too much
Parents should praise their children specifically and appropriately, and exaggerated and frequent bragging will make children feel proud. It is also likely that this honor will become a "burden", once the child does not reach the "high" level of the parents, both sides will be disappointed, and the child will even "doubt life".
2) Don't use your child as a "money-making tool"
From selection, training, packaging, launch to participation, the child star industry chain has become a system, in 2016, the domestic child star training market size exceeded 40 billion yuan, it is expected that by 2023, this figure will climb to 116.1 billion yuan.
On the road of child stars, there are young celebrities, and more are cannon fodder. Parents should maintain their sanity in this regard, if the child has the talent to develop, and has the ability to learn, it is a way to improve the child's ability. Think twice about the other.
Fattening this industrial chain, there is no lack of many parents' "ambition", do not do short-sighted "nibbling small clan" buried the child's life.
3) The right age, do the right thing
Frankly speaking, these children who have squeezed into the wave of child stars, there are really not necessarily a few people who can catch up with Hou Gaojunjie's talent, after all, prodigies are a minority, and even if they are talented, they need the efforts of the day after tomorrow.
At the right age, let the child do the right thing and maintain a childlike fun, it is not bad.