The relationship between students and teachers is just a simple teacher-student relationship, and after students graduate and enter the society, can former students and teachers still go on a blind date? It's incredible, but that's how it happened in reality.
There is such a story, a woman went on a blind date with flowers in her hand, and found that the other party turned out to be her former student, and then she turned around and ran but was pulled back by the man.
The woman was a university teacher, and in her first year of work, she became a counselor, and the man was the first student she taught.
At that time, she graduated from graduate school, and she was just a little girl in her twenties, and she was a little uncomfortable from being a student to a teacher.
After becoming a teacher, she realized how troublesome it was for students to be disobedient, and she remembered that this man was the most capable student in the class to deal with the teacher.
When the school held a sports day, no one signed up for the long-distance run, and as a counselor, she had the responsibility to mobilize the enthusiasm of the students, so she held a class meeting.
As soon as she finished speaking on the podium, the man who was still a student spoke: "Teacher, let's abstain if no one signs up, anyway, we can't get the ranking, and it's very tiring to run so far, so there's no need to let the students go." ”
She was anxious: "What kind of attitude do you have, if you don't actively participate in the activities held by the school, do you still want to win the award?" At that time, we won't have a share in the school's evaluation. ”
She was so angry that the student was negative and affected the other students, resulting in none of the more than 40 people in the class signing up.
In the end, she talked to the squad leader alone, and let the squad leader go up to solve the matter smoothly.
A lot of similar things have happened, and the man seems to have a grudge against her, and he has to do everything against her, as if this is very powerful.
In her first year on the job, she encountered a problem that left a deep impression on her.
But at the same time, she also thanked the man for solving this problem, and when the next class of students came, she would be able to deal with it easily.
She has been single since she devoted herself to studying teaching, and there will be male teachers of the right age among her colleagues, but her mind is not on falling in love, so she naturally doesn't think much about this aspect of things.
There are elderly teachers who are enthusiastic and want to introduce her to a blind date, but she also pushes them away.
She feels that she is still young and very busy with work, not only to be a counselor, manage the daily life of students, but also to study and teach, and feel that there is not enough time every day.
When she was in her twenties, she was really not in a hurry to find a partner, and as time went by, she was already thirty years old, even if she was not in a hurry, her parents at home were anxious to urge her.
Her mother would call her every night to tell her to find a partner quickly, and if she didn't find it, the family would give her a blind date.
She is a stubborn temper, the more she urges her, the more she doesn't look for it, she feels that the emotional matter is not urgent, and she must meet the person who makes her heart like to fall in love, otherwise she would rather be single all the time.
After her parents knew that she was in such a state of mind, they were as anxious as ants on a hot pot, and from then on, the top priority of the family was to find her a partner.
When my mother went out for a walk and saw people she knew in the same community, she would ask if there was a man of the right age around her and introduce her daughter.
The mother called all the relatives of the family and asked them to keep an eye out for the good young man around her, and to be sure to introduce her.
She was very impatient, no matter how much she persuaded her mother, she would not stop, and she must find a partner for her.
In desperation, she could only promise her mother to go on a blind date, and put forward a condition, she only went on a blind date this time, if it was not suitable, she would not let her mother arrange it for her in the future.
Mother agreed, and before leaving, my mother advised: "You will definitely be able to take a fancy to this young man I found for you, younger than you, he joined a large company after graduating from college, and I heard that he earns more than 20,000 yuan a month, which is much better than you as a teacher." ”
She smiled self-deprecatingly: "People are so good that they can take a fancy to me? Don't blame me if it doesn't work out then, and don't introduce it to me, this is not the right door, which will embarrass both parties. ”
The mother smiled mysteriously, "It will definitely be done, I have inquired, this young man said, I want to find a teacher as a girlfriend, I think the conditions are compatible with you, you have to behave well, and strive to marry as soon as possible." ”
Her mother patted her on the shoulder with hatred, and she longed to marry her off the next day.
Before going out, my mother didn't know where to get a bouquet of flowers, so she had to stuff it for her: "You take it, and when you see someone, you will give it to someone, at least you are older than others, and you must know how to be polite." ”
She reluctantly took it, and went out slowly, she really didn't want to go on a blind date, and when she heard her mother say that the person was still younger than herself, she was even less interested in going on a blind date.
But in order to cope with the errand, she still went honestly, she had already thought about it, and then she would tell the other party the truth, and just end the blind date quickly.
She went with flowers in both hands, and saw a tall man standing against the railing in the distance, the woman walked over and patted the other person on the shoulder, the man turned his head, and when she saw it clearly, her heart instantly rose to her throat.
It turned out that this man was the male classmate who impressed her, and it was too embarrassing to let the other party see that she was almost 30 years old and had no partner, and she was going to go on a blind date with him?
Thinking of this, the frightened woman threw away the flowers in her hand, turned around and was about to run away, she panicked and wanted to climb over the railing to escape.
Obviously, the man also recognized that this was the former teacher, he quickly turned around and pulled the teacher back, the woman lowered her head in embarrassment and did not speak, he broke the deadlock and said: "Don't run away, I already knew it was you, I heard that I came on a blind date with you, I think we are quite suitable." ”
"I had a good impression of you when I was in school, and I didn't dare to say it at that time, so you don't want to run away now." The man confessed sincerely, and then she realized that this blind date had been arranged by the man a long time ago.
Author's point of view: Although they used to be a teacher-student relationship, the man has graduated and is no longer a student, and the woman is naturally no longer his teacher, and there is nothing wrong with going on a blind date as a member of society.
The man has buried his love in his heart for so many years, and when the time is ripe, he takes the initiative to contact the blind date, which shows that he is serious about his liking for her, and such sincere feelings can be considered.
They have a certain understanding of each other, and if they give each other a chance, maybe they can make a beautiful love.