Many people often look at whether a person is married or not to measure his charm, if a girl or boy of the right age is not married, many people will think that he must have some shortcomings, or lack of charm.
In fact, marriage is not a measure of a person's standard, there are many excellent people who just want to live a single life, and marriage is not a necessity in life for them.
There is such a story, a woman and her ex-husband just finished the divorce procedures, and a man came to talk to her when she walked out of the door in a low mood, which made her very happy.
She and her ex-husband were in free love, she was still an ignorant little girl back then, and when she saw her ex-husband as the boss, she was instantly captured by his tall appearance.
In order to get her boss's attention, she works hard, tries to express herself, and begs for her boss to see her.
At the same time, she also pays attention to dressing up, and most of her salary is spent on clothes and cosmetics, and with her continuous efforts, her ex-husband finally notices her.
She launched a passionate pursuit of her ex-husband, which was so high-profile that almost everyone in the company knew about it, and many colleagues said behind her back that she wanted to fly on the branches and become a phoenix, wishful thinking.
But she really succeeded, after three months of pursuing the boss, the two established a relationship, and after two years of love, she successfully turned the boss into a husband.
Now she has really become a phoenix, no longer has to work 9 to 5, no longer has to squeeze the bus, no need to eat roadside stalls, she can eat big meals when she wants, she can buy as many expensive cosmetics as she wants, and clothes are piled up in a room.
After getting married, she was radiant and had a bit of a noble woman's temperament, and she was very satisfied with this kind of life, but her husband's attitude was always lukewarm, which made her feel a little sad.
She originally planned to get pregnant and have a child as soon as she got married, so that she could sit firmly in the position of the boss lady, but her husband didn't seem to have this plan.
He is busy with work and socializing, and often does not go home at night, and even when he does, he will sleep in the study and not sleep in the same room with her.
She found an opportunity to talk to her husband about having children, but the other party always moved out of work and career as a shield, knowing that the life they enjoyed was all due to her husband's hard work, so she had nothing to say.
After five years of living like this, although chic, she often heard some gossip, some people said that she was sick, so she couldn't have children, and some people said that her husband didn't love her at all, so he didn't want her to have children, and some people said that they were actually divorced, but she didn't want to go.
These words would get into her ears every day, and under great pressure, she decided to talk to her husband.
He still arrived home late that day, and she had already slept normally, but on this day she waited deliberately, and as soon as her husband entered the house, she stood up and said solemnly, "There is something I want to talk to you about." ”
The husband seemed to have guessed what she was going to say, and while untying his tie, he said indifferently: "If it's about having a baby, don't talk about it, don't delay my sleep, I'm tired." ”
Hearing this, her tears flowed instantly, and she asked aggrievedly, "Why?" Aren't we husband and wife? Why can't we have a child that belongs to us? ”
She cried very loudly, and the more she talked, the more aggrieved she became, venting all the pressure she had endured for so many years, and finally she cried a little hysterically.
The husband in front of him looked indifferent, and said indifferently: "Don't think about it, child, I won't have sex with you, you can live this kind of life if you want to, and divorce if you don't want to, I don't have to be you." ”
This sentence stimulated her, she was already inferior, and she cared very much about others saying that she was not worthy of her husband, and now her husband said that he didn't care about her, how could she stand it?
She erupted: "What? Are you wronged by marrying me? If you are so reluctant, you will go to divorce! ”
Unexpectedly, the other party didn't want to let it go at all, and shouted even louder: "Divorce is divorce, do you think you have a lot of charm?" It's better than you to pull a girl over on the street, you prepare the information, and go through the formalities at dawn! ”
Lying on the bed, her tears still couldn't be stopped, in fact, she regretted it a little, the decision to divorce was too impulsive, this was completely angry, she thought, maybe she should say something soft to her husband after dawn, coax him.
After a sleepless night, she got up at dawn to freshen up, squeezed toothpaste for her husband, waited for him to get up, and finally when he got up, she greeted him with a smile and wanted to tell her husband what she had thought about all night.
But the husband interrupted impatiently: "Don't say it, my mind will not change, I regretted marrying you at the beginning, I finally had the opportunity to divorce, I don't want to give up." ”
She walked out of the bathroom in silence, turned around and asked hurriedly, "Didn't you marry me because you liked me and liked me?" ”
The husband sneered: "What are you kidding, you see where I can be taken a fancy to, I'm just trying to be fresh." ”
At this point, she was finally disheartened, and the marriage was divorced.
The divorce procedures were completed quickly, she walked out of the door, looked at the divorce certificate in her hand, and felt sad in her heart, she originally thought that her charm had touched her ex-husband, but she didn't expect that in the eyes of the other party, it was just for freshness.
She was very disappointed, and her inferiority complex swept through her heart again, but she didn't expect that when she was immersed in sadness, a strange man walked up to her and asked with a smile: "Hello, have you just divorced?" Me too, I think you're very good, in line with my eyes, or let's leave a contact information, right? ”
She raised her head in surprise, looked at the man in front of her in disbelief, and asked a little sluggishly, "I'm good?" I've just been abandoned, others don't want it, why do you think it's good? ”
But the man said, "The first time I saw you, I thought you were very special, and that person abandoned you to show that he had no vision."
They left each other's contact information, and the man hurried away, and after this incident, her mood was much better.
After the man left, she thought to herself: My charm is still not small, otherwise why would someone come to talk to me so soon?
Author's point of view: Although the woman is divorced, this does not mean that she is not attractive, divorce can only mean that she has not met someone who has been with her for a lifetime, as long as she meets the right person, her charm can last forever.
A person's charm is only exuded by the right person in life, and we should not be presumptuous in life, we must know that everyone has charm, but there is a lack of an opportunity.
Of course, we should not treat marriage as a child's play, treat the other half sincerely, and have no purpose, so that the married life can last for a long time.