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From the moment she entered the venue, she could feel Xie Xingfang's indifference to her husband Lin Dan. As soon as she entered the auditorium, the staff around her found that she looked careless from beginning to end when she faced the camera. As one of the protagonists of the national hand-only show, this seems a bit abnormal.
What's even more outrageous is that even if Lin Dan walked to the side and planned to talk to him, Xie Xingfang turned his head sideways and turned a blind eye at all. In the past, the glamorous "Condor Couple" fought against each other in this way, which made the atmosphere of the scene suddenly very embarrassing.
Looking at the cameraman in the audience with a confused face, a friend who had been with Xie Xingfang couldn't help but solve our confusion. "It's not surprising, since her husband Lin Dan cheated and was caught, Xie Xingfang has never been able to recover her original good feelings."
Reminiscing about the past, the "zongzi couple" who grew up together since childhood
Looking at the Condor couple who are now strangers, people can't help but feel a lot of emotion. As the most well-known "zongzi couple" in the sports world, the two have shared weal and woe since childhood, working hand in hand, and it can be said that they are talented and beautiful, and they have been vowing for a long time.
Xie Xingfang was born in a rural family and was poor. Fortunately, she was born with a natural height advantage, coupled with a unique athletic ability, and was picked up by her coach when she was in primary school, and began a hard badminton training career.
So in the "Bayi Team" to start the ideal voyage, there is also a like-minded teenager with her - Lin Dan. The two are friends of the same age, and they both love badminton, so they naturally became acquainted with each other.
"When I was a child, Xie Xingfang always called me a 'clown' and laughed at me for being frivolous." Lin Dan vividly recalled, "But in fact, I secretly promised her, always hoping that she would pay attention to me in person, and even dreamed of marrying her!"
As a young and vigorous little lover, Lin Dan's liking for Xie Xingfang has reached a level unimaginable to others. Originally, it was a place to go on a date, but later she simply knitted the straw rope that came back from the supply station into a pair of straw slippers and presented it to Xie Xingfang as a "wedding gift", which made her laugh.
In this way, after more than a decade of struggle, the two finally developed an intimate relationship when they went to Malaysia to compete for the world number one in 2002.
"I remember when I went to see the coach that day, Lin Dan hugged me and said that I wanted to fall in love." Xie Xingfang recalled with a smile, "Looking at his bright face, and thinking back on years of friendship, I was all serious." "
This is the origin of the Condor couple, who were later envied and envied by the girls. They have entered their best years, one is the first singles world champion in history, and the other has realized their Olympic dreams, and they are honored and in love at the same time. is destined to come to fruition and enter the marriage hall.
Marriage crisis just 1 month after giving birth, I was shocked to hear that my husband was caught in "touching the buttocks"
It's a pity that the so-called life is endless, and blessings and misfortunes depend on each other. When Xie Xingfang just gave birth to a beloved child for them in 2016, happiness came so quickly, and pain came even faster.
In the Lijing room of a hotel, plastic surgery fairy models Zhao Yaqi and Lin Dan were exposed for 2 hours, and there were even pictures of being caught on the spot. Insiders revealed that this is not the first time Lin Dan has cheated.
"At that time, I had just had a caesarean section and was still lying in the hospital, when I saw the photos sent by the media." Xie Xingfang choked up and recalled, "I've never completely collapsed like that. The shame, sadness, and pain in my heart are indescribable. "
If it is chilling enough to suffer such a heavy blow, Lin Dan made matters worse in the subsequent treatment - he actually used wine to drown his sorrows, traveled overnight with his female companion, and claimed that "Zhao Yaqi is very positive, we are in love".
Frustrated, public opinion bombards, can mothers who live alone withstand it?
The one-sided report and Lin Dan's unreasonable behavior hurt Xie Xingfang, a girl who has lacked fatherly love since she was a child. Everyone questioned her, what did she do wrong to be treated so cruelly?
"During those days, I really thought about divorce at one point." Xie Xingfang's eyes moistened, "After giving birth, my body is still very weak, and my mood is even more depressed. I was scolded when I went out, but when I came home, I only had a deserted house waiting for me, which was really unbearable. "
Just when she was about to collapse physically and mentally, her mother and in-laws unexpectedly appeared and gave her great support. Especially Mother Lin, who reversed her previous pampered style and reprimanded Lin Dan with sharp language.
"Mom said that divorce is easy, but it is not easy to raise children. Let me think twice and don't hurt innocent children...", which impressed Xie Xingfang, "Her original words were, 'Don't push the child out of the garden into the abyss.'" '"
She was originally hesitant and helpless, but she was awakened little by little by her mother's words of wisdom. With the help of her family, she was determined not to divorce and avoid the trauma of her children's growth. Besides, marriage is like a mist of dew, and it is not necessarily gone forever.
After calming down, Xie Xingfang also looked at more problems: Lin Dan is a big ghost, and he is just a flower, and this defeat is not harmful; And escaping from reality and facing the accumulation of nothing to say is more like a lack of independence and blindly relying on marriage.
Knowing that you are lost, starting a business, being a strong woman, and recasting the foundation for happiness
In this way, Xie Xingfang started a new life of reforming her past. She is determined to break away from the image of a good wife and mother, and strive to become a true female independent.
First of all, in order not to be shaken, Xie Xingfang applied for the EMBA course of Peking University without Lin Dan, and she wanted to increase her wealth knowledge and establish an independent personality. From dropping out of high school to absorbing cutting-edge ideas at top universities, she completely changed the trajectory of her life.
"What my mother said is very reasonable, only if you have knowledge and money, you will not be angry." Xie Xingfang said with a smile, "After the class, I feel that my thinking is different, and my horizons have broadened a lot. "
But that's just the beginning. What's more, with the funding of a friend, she founded the "Du Fen" mother and child brand company, showing her management skills that she has studied for many years.
"The road to entrepreneurship is indeed not smooth, but I have made the company bigger and stronger little by little." She said proudly, "Now we have more than 10 million app downloads, and our annual revenue has reached hundreds of millions." "
While making money to support his family, he went to school to charge and make up for his shortcomings. Now she has been able to come up with equal capital with her husband, so that the originally respectful and orderly family relationship will become democratic and equal again.
"I don't think there's a right or wrong in marriage. But the world is like this, as long as you understand with understanding, the family will be harmonious and loving. Xie Xingfang concluded, "I forgive Lin Dan because I hope that the child will grow up in a complete and warm environment and enjoy the love of both parents." "
For a son, it may be happier to have a hard-working mother to teach him than to grow up in an environment where he has money but his parents are divorced.
Today, Xie Xingfang has a successful career and a harmonious family, and Lin Dan has completely turned back from the era of frivolity and has become a good husband and father who is more responsible. I hope that my son can learn from them the qualities of tenacity and tolerance, and in the future, like his parents, he can build his own happy life in the ups and downs.