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The baby's family of origin is really too important.
Different families also have a big gap for the baby's future achievements.
In terms of the baby's IQ and emotional intelligence, these two aspects are also the key to the baby's future happiness.
However, in different families, the baby's "double business" situation is different, and mothers should also understand this, and they should be more confident after comparison.
In my opinion, both IQ and EQ have a certain relationship with the original family, after all, after the baby is born, both quotients are on the same starting line, so the quality of acquired growth is the key.
Mothers can also compare, if the baby is born in several families, EQ and IQ are not low.
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Good communication atmosphere for the family
The language atmosphere of a family is crucial.
Some families speak the local dialect, and the baby will only speak the dialect when he grows up.
Mandarin has been spoken since childhood, and the baby will also have fluent Mandarin when he grows up.
Then, language is also an art, and the expression is rich and the family has close communication, which is conducive to improving the baby's desire to express. Then the way and depth of language communication will also directly affect the baby's IQ.
Through verbal communication, the baby's emotional intelligence can also be cultivated.
Therefore, in families with a communication atmosphere, the baby's EQ and IQ are generally not very low.
If everyone in the family doesn't like to talk, it is not only not conducive to the development of IQ and EQ, but the baby will speak later.
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A family that fights wits and courage
Fight wits and courage, always play clever.
The happiness index of this type of family is also very high. Whether it is a battle of wits between husband and wife, or a battle of wits with the baby, it will bring help to the baby's development.
As long as the baby fights wits and courage, it can promote the development of the baby's brain, which should be taken very seriously, and mothers must not be negligent.
After all, the baby's ability to imitate is very good, and parents always fight wits and courage with the baby, and play smart. It will also cultivate the baby's ability, and slowly the baby will begin to fight wits and courage with his parents.
These families are of great help to the growth of the baby.
Both the baby's IQ and EQ have developmental aids.
Of course, the baby has a high IQ and excellent intelligence, and will surpass many babies of the same age in learning, and if the learning ability is good, the happiness index of mothers will be higher.
After going to school, the baby will also be more treated by everyone.
If the baby's emotional intelligence is very high, it will naturally be welcomed, and the baby's socialization and future survival and work ability can be greatly improved.
In fact, after every baby is born, the stage of 0-3 years old is very important, and it is also the golden period for the foundation of the baby's IQ and emotional intelligence.
If the foundation is established at this stage, the subsequent development of the baby will be better. So mothers should be taken seriously.
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