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Some people say: give birth to a child, and the family will be happier and happier.
Some people say: having children, the family happiness index is lower.
In fact, each definition of fertility is different, and some elderly people say that children are family "feng shui".
Some families are getting happier and happier after giving birth, and their income has been greatly improved in all aspects.
Some families, after giving birth, get worse and worse, and begin to decline, and the family happiness index is low.
So, everyone has a different view of fertility.
In the eyes of many young people, childbirth will only bring them a burden, economic and artificial burden, but they neglect to give birth to a baby, what benefits can they bring to themselves.
There are many such cases around me.
When I got married, I borrowed money from relatives and friends in order to start a business, but everything didn't go well and I failed repeatedly.
However, after giving birth to a child and having a burden, my career went smoothly, not only paid off my debts, but also achieved a well-off life, and my happiness index was greatly improved.
According to the survey, these families will also be very happy after giving birth to a baby.
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There are families to pursue
If the family has pursuits, they will live the life they yearn for.
After all, after having children, the burden on the family will become greater and greater.
After starting to pursue, they will carefully plan their work and expenses, and this kind of family will gradually improve their happiness index and live the life they yearn for.
There are also many families who gnaw at the elderly, and after having children, they do not pursue self-motivation, resulting in their happiness index getting lower and lower.
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Harmonious family
Family harmony is the key to happiness.
Family conflicts and disharmony between husband and wife will also affect the quality of family happiness.
After many families have children, the veil is lifted, and if the family relationship between parents and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be very harmonious after giving birth, it will naturally move steadily towards happiness.
If you have a child, you will play tricks on your heart, and there will be internal friction, and it is likely to be difficult to be happy, and it is also a kind of sadness for the child.
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A responsible family
A family with a strong sense of responsibility will naturally become happier and happier.
After all, after having a child, you are no longer alone, if you have a sense of responsibility, you can also continue to work hard to improve your quality of life in order to give your child the life you want, and you can slowly achieve it through the efforts of husband and wife.
However, there are also families who have no sense of responsibility, have no plan at all, and only care about living a good life, so it is difficult for such a family to be happy.
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