⊰ Wen / Ge Jie ⊱
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"Lipstick brother" Li Jiaqi overturned the car again.
On August 13, Li Jiaqi was fined 300,000 yuan for suspected false publicity, and then the company responded sincerely to accept the punishment and will immediately rectify it.
Although the attitude of admitting mistakes is also good in a timely manner, Li Jiaqi's wind evaluation has once again been impacted.
Why?
Because not long ago, Li Jiaqi had just been scolded by netizens once because of the live broadcast problem.
At that time, Li Jiaqi and her staff were live broadcasting together, and the other party was a slightly fat girl, and had just changed her new hairstyle.
At the beginning of the live broadcast, Li Jiaqi began to complain:
"Hello teacher, now we should sing a song called "Let's Go.""
The implication is that the girl is like Teacher Liu Huan who sang "Good Han Song".
For Li Jiaqi's words, the female assistant did not care at first, and said that her hair was very soft, and she could endorse hair care products.
I thought that the topic would end here, but I did not expect Li Jiaqi to pick up the conversation again.
"Why do you make your hair so sticky and straight?"
"You're completely exposed to the shape of your face, flatter than a mango."
After saying that, he added:
"Did you get any blows?" Is your husband talking to a straight-haired girl? ”
It may be that a sentence of Li Jiaqi really poked the girl, so the originally confident girl began to doubt herself:
"Does everyone think it's not pretty?"
At this time, the girl's face was already embarrassed, but Li Jiaqi next to her was still poisoning her tongue.
"You go down first, I think the sales of snacks in the live room today will be affected by your hair."
"You look like this, everyone doesn't have any desire to buy something to eat."
At this point, the girl completely gave up resistance, and no longer used these words as a joke to cooperate as before.
She began to cover her face with her hair repeatedly, and finally tied her hair directly.
As soon as the live video came out, Li Jiaqi was scolded by netizens.
"Why is Li Jiaqi like this?"
"How sad it is to be spat at in front of so many people..."
A girl, in front of so many people, is spat on in front of the hairstyle and appearance, and even the degree of spit is getting worse and worse, this situation, no matter who it is placed on, will feel sad.
Although perhaps in Li Jiaqi's view, he said those words as a joke, but shaking his wit does not mean that he can personally attack others.
Something you think is a joke that others don't necessarily find funny.
Never feel pain if you don't slap yourself in the face, and never feel hurtful if you don't make a joke on yourself.
Li Jiaqi's remarks disappointed many viewers and made many people feel angry.
But in fact, this is not the first time he has overturned his car because of improper speech.
Last year, Yang Mi tried a snack when he was a guest in his live broadcast room.
Due to the packaging, this snack is somewhat inconvenient to eat.
Who knew that Li Jiaqi suddenly said: "This should be a better oral job, otherwise it really can't be sucked out." ”
As soon as the words came out, the scene was once extremely awkward.
Perhaps realizing that what he said was inappropriate, Li Jiaqi immediately added:
"So is it okay to open the yellow cavity?"
Yang Mi, who was deeply trapped in the "center of embarrassment", had to pretend not to hear, which shifted the topic to the past.
It is undeniable that perhaps the purpose of Li Jiaqi's speech is really to enliven the atmosphere.
But as a public figure whose attention is comparable to that of a big-name star, it is really not a thing to say something indecent in public.
In addition, what he said at that time was far beyond the scope of jokes, even with a slight offense.
Such remarks are not only irresponsible to oneself, but also irresponsible to others.
Akira Kurosawa wrote in Tsubaki Juzoro:
"You are sharp, this is your weakness, you are like an unsheathed knife, sharp, but a good knife should be in the sheath."
There's nothing wrong with joking, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to enliven the atmosphere.
But no matter what you do, you should grasp the measure and keep your words and deeds in the "sheath".
Otherwise, even if it is a sharp and perfect knife, the consequences of speaking quickly can only be self-inflicted wounds.
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If the consequences of speaking without a sense of proportion brought to Li Jiaqi are still controllable, then for another star in the entertainment industry, Gina Carano, the price paid because there is no sense of proportion in speaking is much more serious.
In February 2021, Lucasfilm issued a statement officially firing Gina Carano, who played the heroine Carla Dune in The Mandalorian, and will not work with him again in the future.
The reason for this dismissal is that Karano had previously posted on TikTok, comparing the current political situation in the United States to the Persecution of Jews by the Nazis.
And she has also published statements similar to anti-masks and anti-NEW CROWN vaccines, arguing that there is no so-called racism in the United States, supporting the conspiracy theory that "Epstein did not commit suicide" and so on.
A public figure whose every move affects many people has repeatedly said something that does not conform to the mainstream of society, and Carano has been fired, to a greater extent, to blame himself.
Gina Carano, born in the United States in 1982, is a well-known mixed martial arts boxer.
In the MMA showdown, she has a record of 7 wins and 1 loss, ranking first in the world at one point.
In addition to the absolute crushing of strength, Carano, who is 1.73 meters tall, also has a proud figure and a super high appearance.
When the US website selected the top ten sports beauties of the first decade of the 21st century, she also beat Sharapova to the top of the list.
While boxing, Carano also studied a degree in psychology at the University of Nevada.
After announcing his retirement, Carano disappeared for a year and a half.
When she reappears, she is no longer a boxer but an actress.
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When Carano first appeared in the film and television industry, he played a role that could not even be called a supporting role.
Due to her own conditions, she can only play some hard female roles who are good at fighting, and this positioning, for herself, is both a feature and a disadvantage.
Very few actresses are good at martial arts, which allows Carano to stand in his own right.
But at the same time, most of the martial arts in general films are concentrated on male actors, and the roles of female actors are relatively weak and difficult to perform.
Under the dilemma, Carano's development is far less than in the boxing ring.
Until she played the role of the dust angel in "Deadpool", her tough appearance and cold expression were considered by many viewers to be like a "female version of Schwarzenegger".
Carano was also able to use this opportunity to be known to more people.
Later, the emergence of "The Mandalorian" really pushed her into the mainstream vision, and she began to become more and more popular with the audience and the role was also more and more.
From a boxer to an anonymous supporting role to a heroine in a film and television drama, Carano's efforts and hardships along the way are far beyond what ordinary people think.
It's just that now she can't help but get out of her head again, but because of her own words, she has burned all her previous efforts and achievements.
Zhu Yongchun once said in the "Zhu Zi Family Training":
"If you do not speak much in the world, you will lose more words."
Whether it is Li Jiaqi or Carano, as public figures, their words and deeds will have a far more extraordinary "butterfly effect".
Joking is not the same as making personal attacks on others; freedom of speech is not the same as being ignorant.
In the world, speaking is an art, and what we need to grasp, in addition to self-knowledge and humility is a sense of proportion.
No one pays for a "joke" that is not funny at all, and no one tolerates "personal opinions" that distort right and wrong.
Meanness and humor are two different things, unguarded and frank are two different things, and the distinction between light and heavy and geng is two different things.
Be careful in words and deeds, learn to speak and know how to shut up, this is the lesson that everyone needs to learn in their lifetime.
You and I are all encouraged.