I was so surprised! When I went to buy food in the morning, I walked to the road to school, and there was almost the same traffic jam as before the holiday.
Because there are many training classes on both sides of the school's road, and there are also several new "×× study rooms", in fact, everyone understands in their hearts that it is a make-up class in disguise.
Although the prohibition of make-up classes has always existed, it cannot stop the "make-up class style" during the holidays.
It is said that children usually go to school very hard, and the holidays are supposed to be a time for them to rest, develop hobbies, and broaden their horizons, but they are occupied by various training classes.
And, parents across the country support holiday catch-up classes for surprisingly consistent reasons.
Instead of letting children play with mobile phones at home, it is better to send cram schools, even if they can't learn, it is better than running around and watching mobile TV.
The approximate reasons why parents let their children make up lessons
(1) Education involution, do not want children to fall behind
After the double reduction, the children's learning pressure has not really been reduced, everyone is still studying desperately "you chase me", and the situation of educational involution still exists.
Even in kindergartens have appeared this phenomenon, a kindergarten class in a place actually opened a "full-time sprint class", the goal is to sprint to the famous primary school, the children in the large class can not even hold the pen steadily, they have begun to brush the roll.
Think about it, the children in the kindergarten class do not have a sense of autonomy, and their parents ask them to do the questions. In elementary school, children are obedient and learn whatever they are asked to learn, but in junior high school, such children are likely to be bored with school.
During the holidays, parents see their children's peers making up classes, and they dare not relax, worrying that their children are falling behind.
(2) Parents are busy with work and have no time to take care of their children during the holidays
During the holidays, many parents are busy with work and their children are left unsupervised when they are at home. Parents generally believe that their children lack self-awareness, and if they are alone at home, they are often addicted to watching TV and playing games, and it is difficult to control themselves.
In contrast, it is better to send your child to cram school, even if it is just to learn a little knowledge, it is also rewarding. In this way, the children's holiday that was supposed to be happy and relaxed has reluctantly become a make-up day.
(3) The child's grades are poor and he wants to make up for it during the holidays
After the child's test results are announced, parents see that their child's results are not good, and they don't even ask the reason, and the first thought that comes to mind is how to arrange make-up classes for their children.
I thought, if the child's grades are like this, if he doesn't make up for the class, how can he keep up with the start of school?
However, they don't realize that there are two keys that have a great impact on children's grades: first, children's good study habits; The second is the child's initiative in learning.
There is a big gap between the two aspects of "make-up classes" and "non-make-up classes", and parents should pay attention to them
After the high school entrance examination, while we were amazed by the high scores of the top students, we also wanted to know whether they were making up for the classes? I found that when the top students shared their learning experiences, almost all of them talked about one point, not making up classes. When the parents of the top students shared their experiences, they answered almost the same, they never cared about their children, did they really care?
In fact, 90% of the top students are indeed not unable to make up classes, but there are also 10% of ordinary students who cannot make up classes.
Parents say that they don't care about their children because they have been in charge since childhood, and they don't have to take care of them in middle and high school; Some parents just declare to the public that they never make up classes.
There is a big gap between the children who make up the class and those who do not make up the class:
(1) Children who "make up classes" from an early age have less learning habits and concentration than children who "don't make up classes".
Most children who make up classes from an early age tend to learn subject knowledge early in the holidays. In this way, when the child officially starts the class, there is no sense of freshness, he does not want to prepare, and there is no focus on listening to the class.
And because I have already learned, I have difficulty concentrating and my knowledge is not firmly grasped.
Excessive make-up classes excessively consume children's interest and ability. So much so that after these children enter high school, they lack stamina and their grades decline.
Therefore, it is not recommended for primary school students to take "bridging classes" during the holidays, and it is better to make up for habits, learning ability, and thinking than to make up for classes.
Children with good habits, strong learning ability, and strong thinking can study in middle and high school without their parents' urging and without making up for their grades.
The difficulty of junior and senior high school courses increases, and children with strong self-learning ability can learn by themselves, and those who have no method can follow excellent teachers to learn methods.
(2) Children who do not make up classes have stronger independent thinking and independent learning ability than children who do not make up classes
Most of the children in the cram school are in a state of passive learning, do not arrange their own study plans independently, basically rely on the cram school teacher, are constrained by the homework assigned by the cram school, have no initiative, and have few opportunities to think independently.
Those children who are barely admitted to junior high school and high school by making up classes have certain problems in terms of learning attitude and learning ability.
After some children enter junior high school and high school, they are very confused in their studies and will not learn independently. For example, if the teacher does not dictate the words, he does not know how to take the initiative to memorize the words; If the teacher doesn't ask for more questions, he will be in a daze with nothing to do, so it is inevitable that his grades will decline.
Children who do not make up classes, especially those who develop independent thinking and independent learning habits in primary school, can quickly adapt to the learning style of junior high and high school, formulate their own study plans, summarize learning methods and skills, and have good grades.
Advice for parents
Parents must not pin all their hopes on make-up classes, and let their children make up classes without finding a reason when they see their children's grades are not good.
Children are more obedient in primary school, and parents ask them to make up for the lessons. However, when it comes to junior high school, children enter the rebellious period of adolescence, and there are many children who are tired of learning because of lack of interest in learning, and parents should pay attention to it.
In high school, a child's ability to think actively and learn on his own is an important ability. Self-discipline is the premise of learning well, and self-learning ability is the key to learning well. Because of the knowledge content of high school, children need to use their brains more, think hard, and be good at summarizing in order to learn well.
Of course, if the child is studious and has improper methods, his grades will always not be improved, and he needs to "make up for the learning method".
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