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Preface
Many people think that Xie Xingfang loves Lin Dan too much, so she forgave him for his cheating behavior, although it caused her great harm. It wasn't until everyone witnessed the real situation when the two participated in the event together that they understood that Lin Dan no longer occupied an important position in Xie Xingfang's heart.
Many years have passed, and Xie Xingfang revealed the real reason why she forgave Lin Dan for cheating. In fact, it turned out that she made the wisest choice at the time. So, what made Xie Xingfang decide to tolerate her husband's cheating behavior and choose not to divorce? Today, let's walk into the story of badminton champion Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang and his wife.
Xie Xingfang and Lin Dan are both national athletes, and the two fell in love at first sight
When Lin Dan was a child, he was full of energy and was always mischievous, and in order to drain his energy, his father decided to let him learn basketball. However, Lin Dan showed great talent in badminton, and by chance, Lin Dan met Xie Xingfang on the court, and he didn't notice her at first, until his teammates pointed out the tall girl.
This glimpse made Lin Dan's young heart throb like never before, and he was deeply impressed by the girl with particularly beautiful long legs. In his heart, Xie Xingfang exists like a goddess. Although the passing was only a brief fate, Lin Dan thought that they might never meet again. However, unexpectedly, Xie Xingfang's team came to Lin Dan's team for training, and let him see this favorite girl again.
Lin Dan was very happy about this encounter, and he hoped to use this opportunity to get acquainted with the goddess of his heart, but after playing a ball game all afternoon, he didn't know how to speak. The coach had been keeping a close eye on the training and missed this rare opportunity. However, soon, Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang will meet again. As a young player who has made his mark in national competitions, Lin Dan was selected by the national team, although his status in the team was not high, and he even had to live in the basement.
Despite the difficulties, being able to pursue her dream of becoming a World Champion made Lin Dan feel that everything was worth it, especially since Xie Xingfang was also here. However, what Lin Dan didn't expect was that Xie Xingfang didn't seem to remember him at all, and only regarded him as a junior brother he had just met. Still, at least now the Lindane centrifuge girls are closer.
But things didn't go as planned, and Lin Dan often didn't perform well in the national team, and was laughed at by his teammates as the "king of the round", which made him feel very frustrated. Lin Dan was naturally active when he was a child, and he was often mischievous, and in order to consume his excess energy, his father decided to send him to learn basketball. However, Lin Dan showed his talent in badminton, and his father eventually sent him to a sports school to specialize in the sport.
By chance, Lin Dan met Xie Xingfang on the court. He didn't notice her at first, until his teammates pointed out the tall girl. This eye contact made Lin Dan's heart calm for a long time, and he was deeply attracted by those long legs and the beautiful Xie Xingfang. To him, Xie Xingfang is like a goddess-like existence.
Although the passing was only a short-term fate, Lin Dan thought that he might never see her again. But unexpectedly, Xie Xingfang's team came to his team for training, allowing him to meet this long-awaited girl again. Lin Dan was very happy about this encounter, and he hoped to use this opportunity to communicate with Xie Xingfang, but after an afternoon of playing a ball game, he didn't know how to speak.
The coaches have been closely monitoring the training situation and missed this precious opportunity. Soon after, Lin Dan was selected by the national team for his outstanding performance in the national competition, although his position in the team was not prominent, and he even had to live in the basement. Despite the difficulties, the pursuit of her dream of becoming a World Champion made Lin Dan feel that everything was worth it, especially since Xie Xingfang was also there.
However, to Lin Dan's surprise, Xie Xingfang seemed to have completely forgotten him and treated him as a junior brother he had just met. Despite this, at least now Lin Dan is closer to the girl he likes. But being laughed at by his teammates as the "King of the First Round", Lin Dan's performance in the national team was not ideal, which made him feel very frustrated.
The husband cheated during pregnancy but chose to forgive
Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang's marriage was hotly discussed by public opinion because of Lin Dan's derailment. In November 2016, they announced the good news and welcomed a son, but as soon as the good news spread, a paparazzi reporter exposed the ill relationship between Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi. The paparazzi had already mastered this secret, but they were worried that Xie Xingfang would lose control of her emotions, so it was not exposed until she successfully gave birth.
During Xie Xingfang's pregnancy, Lin Dan tried his best to maintain the image of a "good man", although he was busy with training, he went home to accompany him whenever he was free. However, the truth is shocking: when he feels indebted to his wife, he spends very little time on cheating incidents. Lin Dan and Zhao Yaqi were photographed intimate in the hotel, and they quickly forgot to draw the curtains, and since then, more details of the derailment have been exposed.
This incident completely shattered the illusion of Lin Dan's "good man" and turned their former model couple into a laughing stock. No matter how good he is on the badminton court, his image of a "cheating man" has made the public no longer have a good opinion of him, and more people choose to spit on him.
Lin Dan's cooperative brands have also terminated their contracts, for fear of getting involved with him. And Zhao Yaqi, as a "little three", was also criticized, and even affected her possibility of becoming an actor. Although the two tried to apologize, the public's accusations against them were difficult to erase, and they would have preferred to see them punished as they deserved.
However, netizens paid more attention to Xie Xingfang's feelings as a victim, especially when she had just given birth when Lin Dan derailed. Netizens were indignant for Xie Xingfang, she gave up her career for the sake of her family, and even the filial piety of Lin Dan's parents was her responsibility. Despite this, Xie Xingfang chose to forgive her husband and expressed her determination to "stand together through thick and thin".
However, her decision disappointed netizens who supported her, with many criticizing her for being irrational, believing that her choice was only because she couldn't live without a man.
Choose to be a better version of yourself
Xie Xingfang was once blamed by public opinion, but she chose to remain silent, as if she really accepted her husband Lin Dan's derailment, and continued to support his career and take care of the family. It wasn't until later, in an interview, that Xie Xingfang revealed the real reason for forgiving Lin Dan: "Marriage is not black and white, and sometimes helplessness is a last resort. ”
Her public forgiveness seems to be a symbol of tolerance and understanding, but behind it lies a lot of sadness, and her decisions are also made in pain. Lin Dan's mother did not blame her son for her son's infidelity at that time, but put pressure on her daughter-in-law who had been taking care of her, telling her: "Forgiving Lin Dan is your only choice." ”
This sentence sounds cruel, but it expresses the helplessness of reality. Now, six years have passed, and many things have shown that forgiving Lin Dan may be the best choice for Xie Xingfang. Xie Xingfang, who had just given birth, needed confinement and taking care of the child, and she didn't have the energy to fight against Lin Dan.
Moreover, the child has just been born and needs fatherly love. Divorce will make her a single parent, which is not good for the growth of the child. Therefore, out of consideration for the children, Xie Xingfang could not get a divorce. A deeper consideration is that if Xie Xingfang chooses to leave Lin Dan and has no career and income of her own, she may give a third party an opportunity to get along freely in public.
But she finally chose to forgive Lin Dan, and the family became stable and someone helped take care of the children, which gave Xie Xingfang time to live for herself. After all, she was once a proud World Champion. When the children grew up, Xie Xingfang founded her own business. She chose the maternal and child industry based on her parenting experience, hoping to bring happiness to more mothers and children.
Her brand name is "Du Finn", which symbolizes that children are God's gift to parents. Through struggle, Xie Xingfang's company has continued to grow, and she has also earned more wealth and become a strong woman in the business world. He also needed to listen to Xie Xingfang when Lin Dan retired and planned to enter business, and now he respects his wife even more. Now, in addition to his career, Lin Dan's mind is mainly on his children and wife.
epilogue
As a world-class badminton player, Lin Dan's former glory and honor are in stark contrast to the flaws in his love life. His cheating behavior is not only a betrayal of his family, but also a damage to his public image. And Xie Xingfang, as a victim, chose to be silent and tolerant in the face of questions from the media and the public. Her choice may be out of consideration for her family and children, or out of reluctance to give up the good memories of the past, but in any case, all this is no longer the image of love and loyalty that once became.
This scene reminds us once again that people's lives are often not as simple as winning or losing on the playing field. In the face of complex emotional and social pressures, everyone has their own choices and limits of patience. The story of Lin Dan and Xie Xingfang may be just a microcosm of the many family problems in this society, and both the public and the media should be given more care and understanding, rather than simple public opinion hype and moral criticism.