Most parents, the track has been fixed, it is difficult to change the future through their own efforts, but children have countless possibilities, although they can no longer fly, but their children still have the possibility of flying, through children to change the future of the family, it is much easier than their own change.
This is actually a very helpless reality, my own academic limitations, professional limitations, and location limitations, so that no matter how hard you try, you can't compare to the height of others' paddling. Although it is difficult for college students to find employment, although they cannot be admitted to college or even high school, there are more theoretical possibilities, but the admission to a good university in high school is still the most effective, and it is also one of the few reasons that can be promoted.
However, from the middle school entrance examination to the college entrance examination, the essence of each stage of further education is still based on the child's thinking ability competition as the core, and the ability gap between different children objectively exists, but this gap will be in the primary school stage, because of the external investment, the embodiment is not obvious, so that parents have high expectations, and in the emergence of the second watershed in junior high school, the sudden embodiment of the performance gap caused by thinking ability will make many parents feel unacceptable.
For the unwillingness of the high school entrance examination diversion, the parents of boys from ordinary families are relatively more obvious, one is the diversion of boys from ordinary families, and the future road is more difficult to walk, the second is that the widely circulated boys have great stamina, so that they still have a trace of expectation, and the third is different from girls, many boys do not have good grades, often intentionally or unintentionally as not working, and also let parents have the illusion that their children are very smart, but they don't work hard.
Nowadays, young people are under a lot of pressure, and boys are under even greater pressure, if they are shunted in the future, they will face greater pressure when they start a family in the future, even if they can't go to high school, girls at the same level often have more choices, they can find a better half, they can find a doctor if they are a kindergarten teacher, and they can match doctors when they are nurses, but boys cannot.
Boys have more stamina, this obviously unfounded argument is still firmly believed by many parents, but this kind of praise, in most cases, is only the vanity of parents and children, and can not form an incentive, but makes the children who can be diligent and can make up for their clumsiness, in order to maintain their smart praise, and become afraid to work hard, many boys even under the dual influence of vanity and inertia, deliberately do not learn to play to cater to this evaluation.