"I'm not the person you love the most, why don't you talk?"
Mentioning this classic "Am I your most beloved person", I have to say that Pan Yueyun, a diva in the music world.
The first singer to be signed by Rolling Stone Records has created a nostalgic legend in the music scene.
His friend Sanmao once said: "Qi Yu is like an angel, while Pan Yueyun is like Cleopatra." ”
As a hall-of-fame singer in the music scene in the 1980s and 1990s, her singing voice accompanied the memories of a generation's youth.
Time has passed, and now she has long disappeared and even been forgotten.
And the decline in her career is directly related to that unhappy marriage.
She loved the wrong person, her heart was broken for half a life, and she finally failed to become the person who was loved.
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In 1957, Pan Yueyun was born in Kaohsiung to a wealthy family, formerly known as Pan Yueyun.
When she was young, Pan Yueyun had little entertainment, and the four-story bungalow became all her childhood memories.
Her mother disciplined her very strictly, and rarely let her go downstairs to play around.
The only entertainment was listening to my parents' collection of vinyl records in the house.
These records are all pop music from Shanghai in the 1950s collected by their parents, as well as Western music bought by their older siblings.
Such a growth environment also allowed Pan Yueyun to have a deep sustenance for music, which changed her life.
At the age of 17, Pan Yueyun's parents died, so he began to live independently with half work and half study.
Pan Yueyun, who is full of enthusiasm for music, grew up to be a resident singer with a guitar on his back, and grew up in adversity.
At that time, she often played and sang with her guitar, and sang with like-minded friends, full of youth and comfort.
During this time, she met a very good friend, Su Rui.
The two often sang together on the same stage, and each time when Su Rui finished singing, pan Yueyun took over the rest time, and they had a tacit understanding with each other.
Who would have thought that in the future, both of them would become the diva-level figures in the Chinese music scene.
Later, Pan Yueyun's friend Tai Zhaomei, whom he knew as a teenager, has released a record and become a famous campus folk singer.
Once, Pan Yueyun went to a charity party performance at the school, and she played and sang on the stage and deeply attracted the attention of Tai Zhaomei.
Under the recommendation of his friend Tai Zhaomei, Pan Yueyun was recommended to the Rolling Stones to audition.
After arriving in Taipei, Pan Yueyun auditioned three songs in the recording studio, namely "Forget Who I Am", "Just Like Your Tenderness" and a Western folk song.
It is precisely because of these three songs that the fate of Pan Yueyun's life has been completely changed.
Pan Yueyun, who performed extremely well, officially signed a contract with the Rolling Stones.
On October 31, 1980, Pan Yueyun officially debuted as the first singer signed by the Rolling Stones.
She was 23 years old.
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As the first singer to be signed by the Rolling Stones, the first album of Rolling Stones Records had the participation of Pan Yueyun.
In December 1980, Rolling Stone Records released its entrepreneurial work, which was the "Three-Man Exhibition" by Wu Chuchu, Pan Yueyun and Li Lifen.
And Pan Yueyun officially broke into the music scene with one of the songs "My Thoughts".
A year later, Pan Yueyun released his first solo album "Goodbye Parting", and the song of the same name became the favorite of college students.
Pan Yueyun, who just debuted, showed a high degree of musical talent and began to get the praise of the Rolling Stones.
In 1982, Pan Yueyun released a Chinese album "Sky Sky Blue", which made him famous in world war I.
The album set a sales record of more than 100,000 copies at the time, and Pan Yueyun instantly became popular in Taiwan.
The following year, Pan Yueyun won the Golden Tripod Award for Best Singer with this album.
This year, Pan Yueyun was 25 years old and opened his own era of singing.
Immediately after, Pan Yueyun made a cameo appearance in the movie "Wild Sparrow High Flying" and released the soundtrack of the movie of the same name.
One of the songs, "Wild Lilies Also Have Spring", became a classic and was later covered by many singers.
Later albums such as "Rouge Beitou" and "Wordless Song" have gained a good reputation, which completely allowed Pan Yueyun to gain a firm foothold in the music world.
In 1985, Pan Yueyun, who was seeking a breakthrough, released the album "World Woman".
This album allowed Pan Yueyun, who took the literary and artistic route of folk songs, to completely transform into popular, and also released the album "Acacia has not been idle".
In the same year, Pan Yueyun cooperated with Qi Yu and published Sanmao's biographical album "Sanmao Works No. 15 - Echoes".
This album is of great significance to the times, not only is the first collaboration of three friends, Sanmao, Pan Yueyun and Qi Yu.
The album also became the first CD in the history of Taiwanese music, known as "biographical music".
At this time, Pan Yueyun had become the only hall-level singer who could rival Qi Yu.
Later albums such as "Several Degrees of Sunset Red", "Old Love and New Joy", and "Happy Paradise" allowed Pan Yueyun to start playing in the Taiwanese music scene.
In 1989, Pan Yueyun reached his peak again and released the classic album "Am I Your Most Beloved Person".
With this album, Pan Yueyun was nominated for the Golden Melody Award for Best Female Singer and won the Best Vocal Album Award.
Among them, the song "Am I Your Most Beloved" swept the country in one fell swoop and became an immortal classic.
At this time, Pan Yueyun was 32 years old, at the peak of his singing career, and the scenery was infinite.
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In the 1990s, Pan Yueyun's career was still smooth sailing, and he became the top predecessor of the music industry.
In 1993, the album "Infatuation" was released, which was nominated for the Best Chinese Female Singer Award at the 6th Golden Melody Awards.
The inclusion of "Infatuation is not a sin" has also become the ending song of Qiong Yao's TV series "Plum Blossom Branding".
Pan Yueyun's career in the singing world, which should have been smooth, was hit hard because of a failed marriage.
In 1997, when Pan Yueyun opened a restaurant, he met the painter Huang Guangquan.
Huang Guangquan eventually captured Pan Yueyun's heart with his talent, and the two developed into a romantic relationship.
After falling in love for two years, Pan Yueyun became pregnant, and the two entered the palace of marriage.
That year, Pan Yueyun was 42 years old, and after marriage, the two had a lovely daughter.
For Pan Yueyun, who has been lonely for half a life, he has a happy family of his own, and his heart is particularly cherished.
However, everything not only failed to go as she wished, but brought her shadows and hurts that could not be healed.
Just 3 months after the two were married, there was a contradiction in their feelings, and her husband Huang Guangquan instantly disappointed her.
At that time, Pan Yueyun's career was booming, and Huang Guangquan was still a depressed painter.
Therefore, the whole family has to rely on Pan Yueyun to support, which makes Huang Guangquan, whose self-esteem is in trouble, very uncomfortable.
Huang Guangquan, who feels that he has not met Huaicai, has a short temper and low income, and often goes out to borrow wine to pretend to be crazy, which is extremely unreliable.
According to Pan Yueyun, when she was 8 months pregnant, Huang Guangquan held a knife and waved it in front of her with intimidation.
After collapsing helplessly and frightened, Pan Yueyun moved the idea of divorce and decided to leave him completely.
But Huang Guangquan was reluctant to respond to Pan Yueyun's divorce proposal and did not agree at all.
Pan Yueyun, who was already discouraged, had to take his daughter to live alone and began to live separately from Huang Guangquan.
At that time, Pan Yueyun, who had moved several times, was often disturbed and monitored by Huang Guangquan, and was tortured.
One does not want to divorce, the other is like ashes, and the marriage between the two has long existed in name only.
Although the divorce was not successful, Pan Yueyun's heart had already turned this marriage into nothing.
After separating, Pan Yueyun met Huang Qizhou, who also worked in the music industry, and the two fell in love and lived together.
This matter, after being discovered by Huang Guangquan, became angry and ashamed, and then made a move that Pan Yueyun could not let go of for the rest of his life.
In the early morning of August 26, 2008, Huang Guangquan directly led the police into Pan Yueyun's residence to catch the adulteress.
Because Pan Yueyun did not divorce Huang Guangquan at that time, he was regarded as cheating in marriage.
In 2009, Huang Guangquan took Pan Yueyun to court, demanding compensation of 8 million yuan in compensation for spiritual consolation.
At this time, Pan Yueyun had nowhere to go, and after compensating for a huge amount of mental loss fees, he finally divorced Huang Guangquan as he wished.
The entangled marriage between the two, which lasted for 10 years, came to an end.
After this incident, Pan Yueyun's image was seriously affected, and his career also suffered a huge blow.
In the face of all kinds of gossip, Pan Yueyun said frankly:
"For me, this is not a very shameful thing, I do not regret, others think that I still have a marriage contract, there are flaws in behavior, but I am a mature adult, I do what I do, I am willing to bear." 」
For many years after that, Pan Yueyun would be troubled by that embarrassing incident.
After the divorce, Pan Yueyun's singing career plummeted, and gradually lost its former glory.
Raising her daughter alone, she began to live a low-key and quiet life, singing occasionally and rarely showing up.
Later, talking about that unfortunate marriage, Pan Yueyun, who had endured for many years, said with grievance:
"When I have no way to ask for help, unlike others who can go back to my mother's house to complain, my parents died when I was 17 years old, and every time I see my daughter, I think of my parents, if they know that my marriage is such a failure, they will definitely feel sorry for me." 」
Today, Pan Yueyun is 67 years old, has no plans to remarry, and is gradually forgotten.
And the unbearable marriage tragedy once made her a person who was not loved in frustration.