One morning in 2008, Pan Yueyun and his lover were asleep, and her husband Huang Guangquan suddenly broke into the door with 6 policemen, he took the camera and slammed it, and Pan Yueyun, who was naked, quickly wrapped up in the quilt and turned around. In a fit of rage, Huang Guangquan sued the two for "obstructing the family" and demanded compensation of 8 million yuan for spiritual consolation.
In this regard, Pan Yueyun said: "For me, this is not a very shameful thing, and I do not regret it. ”
Perhaps, you are very unfamiliar with the name Pan Yueyun, but you must have heard the songs she sang, "Wild Lily Also Has Spring", "Thank You for Loving Me", "Am I Your Most Beloved Person" and so on are all from her mouth.
In 1957, Pan Yueyun was born in Taiwan, but her childhood was not happy, she did not have rubber bands to jump, there was no hide-and-seek to play, more often than not, she listened to her parents' vinyl records in the small 4-story Western-style building.
Those vinyl records were all Shanghainese pop music from the 1950s. Listening to it day after day, Pan Yueyun had the initial recognition and touch of music.
At the age of 17, Pan Yueyun's parents died suddenly, and she had to go out to work to support herself, and she worked as a resident in a bar, with a small salary, but enough to support herself.
In 1980, Rolling Stone Records was formed, and Pan Yueyun became the first singer signed by rolling stones.
In the same year, Pan Yueyun participated in the release of the Rolling Stone Records entrepreneurial work "Three-Man Exhibition", Pan Yueyun rose in the music world with one of the songs "My Thoughts", and Pan Yueyun's spring came.
In 1983, with the popularity of the TV series "Wild Sparrow High Flying", the theme song "Wild Lilies Also Have Spring" made Pan Yueyun famous, and this song was later covered by many singers and became a major label in the early days of the Rolling Stones.
Pan Yueyun is an easy singer to shape, her singing voice can be high and low, all kinds of styles can be controlled, is a natural singer.
Since most of her works are love songs, fans also hail her as the "lyric queen".
However, Pan Yueyun, who sang more love songs, her feelings were extremely unsmooth, and it could even be said that she had ruined her life.
In 1997, Pan Yueyun opened a restaurant, where she met the painter Huang Guangquan, and when they first met, there was a different feeling between the two, commonly known as "love at first sight", and soon the two lived together.
At this time, Huang Guangquan has been greeting Pan Yueyun with cold greetings, and every day is poetic and picturesque, which is very romantic.
Two years later, Pan Yueyun became pregnant, at this time she was 42 years old, she longed for marriage, but also wanted to be a mother, so the two people hurriedly got a license to get married.
As a result, without the blessing of art, life became a chicken feather.
Only 3 months after marriage, Huang Guangquan exposed his nature, his income is unstable, the daily expenses of the family are all borne by Pan Yueyun, the pressure is inevitably greater, and Pan Yueyun will occasionally complain a few words.
Huang Guangquan pretended to be crazy and stupid through wine, and even when Pan Yueyun was 8 months pregnant, he took a knife to intimidate her, and treated a pregnant woman like this, which was really a futile husband.
Pan Yueyun's love for her husband is gone, but for the sake of the child in her belly, she decided to hold on again, perhaps, when the child is born, Huang Guangquan will change, don't they all say that men will grow up overnight after becoming a father?
Unexpectedly, after the child was born, Huang Guangquan instead intensified drinking and scolding, Pan Yueyun really couldn't stand it, and proposed divorce in the second year after marriage, but Huang Guangquan did not agree.
Since then, Huang Guangquan has been mentally destroying Pan Yueyun at home, and Pan Yueyun has once again filed for divorce, but Huang Guangquan just does not agree.
After torturing Pan Yueyun for 10 years, Huang Guangquan finally agreed to the agreement to separate.
This time, he did not go to Pan Yueyun's house to harass him, but he found a private detective to follow Pan Yueyun.
Pan Yueyun thought he was free, so he got along with the restaurant partner, and the two lived together, interestingly, the man was also surnamed Huang.
The private investigator quickly told Huang Guangquan about Pan Yueyun's cohabitation with the man surnamed Huang, so there was the opening scene, huang Guangquan took the police to take pictures and take evidence.
In front of the police, Pan Yueyun calmly admitted that he did agree to separate from her husband, and got along with the man surnamed Huang.
For a time, all the spearheads were pointed at Pan Yueyun, and she became the "person who betrayed the marriage" that people criticized.
In 2009, Huang Guangquan took Pan Yueyun and her lover to court for "nuisance to the family" and demanded NT$8 million for spiritual consolation.
Pan Yueyun was helpless and could only ask Huang Guangquan if he could solve it privately.
In the end, Huang Guangquan dropped the lawsuit against Pan Yueyun and also agreed to divorce, the daughter belonged to Pan Yueyun, he enjoyed the right of visitation, and most importantly, Pan Yueyun paid Huang Guangquan 8 million Taiwan dollars.
At this point, Pan Yueyun was completely relieved.
Later, in an interview, Pan Yueyun first expressed his position on this matter: "For me, this is not a very shameful thing, I do not regret it, even in law and morality, others think that I am currently married, there are flaws in behavior, but I am a mature adult, I do what I do, I am willing to bear." ”
After this incident, Pan Yueyun's career plummeted, she is no longer the sought after "lyric song queen", but at the same time, she no longer has to worry about being found by Huang Guangquan, she is calm and free inside.
Is Pan Yueyun wrong? She was wrong! Whatever the reason, she did betray the marriage, which was immoral.
But should she really be scolded by the thousands of people? Not necessarily.
She had filed for divorce several times, but Huang Guang refused to do so; she had also chosen to flee, but Huang Guang found her again and again. Even in order to get compensation, Huang Guangquan did not hesitate to give her a set.
Pan Yueyun should have taken up the weapon of the law early in the morning and sued for divorce instead of living with other men during the marriage.
Therefore, both men and women, before marriage, we must clearly see each other's character, otherwise, the bitter is still their own, in case the marriage is unfortunate, we must use the law to protect ourselves.
