In the rainy season, Brother Jia Bao and the female employees of CICC left this flowery world one after another.
Brother Jia Bao was killed by others, and the female employee of CICC committed suicide by jumping off the building.
The reasons for the death of these two seem to be completely different, and the nature is completely different, but from the deepest and most fundamental point of view, there is actually one thing in common, the most fundamental and deepest reason for their death is:
Lack of reverence.
First of all, CICC's female employees lack reverence for the laws of the economy. This is not an isolated case. Three years ago, a lot of people were like that. In terms of buying a house and investing, they always adopt an investment method that seems to be within their means according to their current income level at that time.
However, "heaven is impermanent", a person's income cannot always be static, and it cannot always be so, whether it is investing or buying a house, you must take into account your own income, what to do if there is a decline in the day, and then decide whether to invest or not.
Strictly speaking, investment should be operated with the money you already have. Overlending and overdrafts are more like speculation.
Also, house prices aren't set in stone. Since 2020, there have been at least 10 factors for the decline in housing prices, such as the total population, homeownership rate, urbanization process, housing vacancy rate, birth rate, serious aging, economic depression, epidemic, etc.; Therefore, at this time, when investing in buying a house, we must take into account the high probability of house prices falling in advance, and we must predict the magnitude of the decline to see if we can bear it, rather than buying a house with the understanding that "house prices will rise".
To think that house prices will only rise and never fall is to lack reverence for the laws of the economy.
We admit that Brother Jia Bao is innocent and he is a victim. However, if he can maintain a sense of reverence, he should be able to avoid being killed. Today, I am not here to discuss who is right and who is wrong, but only from a philosophical point of view, to talk about cause and effect. The ancients:
"A gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall."
Of course, we can't just think of this wall as a wall, but as all the places and situations that are in danger. We can't stop others from being aggressive and even murderous, but we can try to avoid the bad luck and avoid running into the muzzle of the bewildered person's gun.
Brother Jia Bao is a lack of reverence for the laws of society and the laws of people's hearts.
First, there is a lack of reverence for social laws. Brother Jiabao's popularity is not popular with real talent and aesthetics, but by sensationalism, exaggerated boring actions and expressions.
This will inevitably be looked down upon. Once or twice is enough, and in the long run, it will inevitably arouse the resentment and dissatisfaction of some people, which will lead to fire and put themselves in danger. Think about it, if a person is despised and resented by many people, can there be a good result?
I watched Brother Jiabao's dance video repeatedly, and I really couldn't see any beauty in his dance, but I just saw a man who seemed to be hanging, nothing mattered, no one cared, twisting his waist and swinging his hips, self-absorbed and even a little cynical demeanor, whether it was dancing, rhythm and rhyme, or hand and foot movements, there was not much appreciation value and learning significance. Therefore, it is actually an accident that Brother Jia Bao became popular because of this. Saying goes:
"The gun shoots the first bird."
What's more, a rising bird like Brother Jia Bao does not create beauty, but also twists and postures are not beautiful. In this way, Brother Jiabao should be self-aware, and he can't take this as his main business, and it doesn't hurt to have fun occasionally; If you do this every day, you will inevitably be "shot".
If it is really a beautiful and moving star, publicly performing colorful dances, it is a kind of selfless dedication to life, it will win the admiration of thousands of streams, resulting in a situation where thousands of people are empty, everyone is too late to appreciate it, who would think to teach her a lesson?
Second, there is a lack of reverence for the human heart.
"Shangshu" has clouds:
"People's hearts are in danger, and the Tao is only small."
It is said that people's hearts are unpredictable, and we cannot and do not have to predict everyone's mentality. However, we should be in awe, that is, we should act ourselves with respect for everyone's ideas. It is to consider whether what you do pollutes the ears and eyes of others, harms some people, and is not conducive to social harmony.
Brother Jia Bao is mixed in a group of middle-aged and elderly women all day long, and his eyebrows are eyebrows, and there are some exaggerated movements (whether there is any language, we don't know), isn't this a disaster? Just imagine, if a big man mingles with a group of middle-aged and elderly women all day long, it will definitely cause some disputes, and it will definitely attract the envy and jealousy of individual people, and the results are self-evident.
In addition, it is dangerous and impolite to look at others at all times. The person who is being looked at must be uncomfortable. It's just that ordinary people can endure it, but when you encounter a strong person, he is unwilling to endure it, what should you do? There are countless incidents of fights and brawls caused by looking at others.
You can experiment with a dog on the street and see how it goes. If a person's bestiality is furious and there is nowhere to vent, and you happen to look at him, the result can be imagined.
Third, there is a lack of reverence for the environment.
Although the square is in front of the public, it is also a place of controversial right and wrong. Because the elderly dance square dance, it affects the rest of the surrounding residents and the learning of students, and the disputes caused by this are not once or twice. Therefore, the square with dancing is actually a place of right and wrong.
The land of right and wrong, we should stay away, or go as little as possible. But Brother Jiabao is actively going, persevering, and it is inevitable that there will be a certain amount of right and wrong.
Therefore, in broad daylight and in public, it is not necessarily absolutely safe, and we must maintain a sense of awe.
Shangshu. Zhou Guan" cloud:
"I'm afraid."
It means: if you don't know reverence, you will enter a dangerous situation. Reverence, that is, vigilance. The death of Brother Jia Bao and the female employees of CICC tells us: