Everyone.
will hope to become a person favored by fate.
Pay for it.
Dreams can be achieved.
But in fact, there will always be a big gap between aspirations and reality.
And so!
Many of my friends became anxious day by day.
As everyone knows, there is a kind of person.
They started late, but they will have the fate of being a late bloomer.
With the passage of time, these people will not be abandoned by fate, but will get better and better.
Because they all have the quality of "thick accumulation".
This trait, like a seed buried deep in the ground, has been nourished and tempered by time.
Eventually, it will break through the ground and bloom with a striking brilliance.
Psychologically, a person is better at crossing? There is often a "personality trait", and that is accumulation.
1. Accumulate thick and wait for thin hair.
What is accumulation?
As the name suggests, it refers to the amazing strength that is displayed after a long period of precipitation.
If you want to do that.
We need to be able not to be disturbed by the impetuousness of the outside world.
In your own "time zone", work silently, wait for the flowers to bloom, and strive to meet a better self.
Accumulating this quality will make people better and better.
is like actor Mr. Zhang Songwen.
In his early years, he installed air conditioners and worked as a hotel waiter.
Although the talent is average, he has been precipitating.
In the end, the drama "Hurricane" was completely remembered by the audience.
2. How to accumulate steadily?
1. Take a long-term view
There's no denying it.
Many friends are talented.
However, if one lacks sufficient foresight.
Then, it is easy to lose direction frequently and change fields frequently in the midst of gains and losses.
As a result, a lot of time is wasted.
But they failed to do it in a certain field.
If you want to have the quality of accumulation, you need to take a long-term view.
See what success looks like in the future.
Then we can maintain enthusiasm and hard work and go in a better direction.
is like Mo Yan's "Late Bloomer".
"When there is a stage to show his talent, he will shine."
2. Be in the present
Target.
Of course it's important.
However, if there is a lack of execution.
Then the goal is nothing more than a castle in the air, nothing more than a fantasy.
Saying goes:
"Down-to-earth, steady and far-reaching."
When you find your direction, you have a clear goal.
Then the next thing you need to do is to grasp the moment.
Whether it's work, or study.
They all need to be taken seriously, and they all need to be kept improving.
Cherish the present moment and be grateful for life.
While pursuing your goals, you must also learn to cherish and enjoy your life in the moment.
In this way, we can maintain our passion.
When encountering ups and downs, I will also have sunshine in my heart or someone to support, so as to persevere.
III. Conclusion
I've seen a sentence like this:
"Everybody, living in their own time zone."
How to understand it?
Everyone in life has their own life trajectory.
This means:
We don't need to be anxious about the success of others.
Instead, you should find your own position, be clear about your own direction, and move forward firmly in your own time zone.
Someone is twenty years old and has gained fame and fortune.
But when he reached the age of thirty, he was physically and mentally exhausted, leaving the root of his illness.
Some people start their own business at the age of 40.
When he reached the age of fifty, he still achieved nothing, and he did not succeed until he was seventy.
So, friends.
Grasp the moment, do what you have to do, and do it steadily.
One day, you will meet a better version of yourself.
At that time, your life was bound to be prosperous, and you had already found a true sense of happiness.