When the water is full, it is profitable, and when the moon is full, it is lost. Similarly, a family cannot prosper forever. In "Yulou Spring", the main line of the decline of Sun Fu runs through the entire plot. However, Sun Xun's dedication to the people of Chicheng finally preserved the glory of Sun Fu.

It is also this man in a high position, but there is a different emotional entanglement behind it: one is the first love who has been worried about 30 years, and the other is the wife who has been honored and humiliated for 30 years, if he can start again, how will he choose?
Let's start with Willow.
Life in the world, to go through so many ups and downs, not to let it be immersed in fame and ambition, until death, is clean. --Liu Sanjie
She is Sun Xun's white moonlight, the person who Sun Xun once promised the white head, and the person who made Sun Xun worry for 30 years. As the saying goes, "drama is ruthless", but as the daughter of the master of the hundred drama class, Liu Sanjie, although she is in Vanity Fair, has a clear heart and guards a pure love.
Thirty years have passed, and the beloved person of that year is now in the first place, and she is still alone. Unwilling to be tainted by fame and fortune, she has cultivated her open-mindedness, transparency and wisdom. Every time Lin Shaochun encountered a problem, he could always glimpse the way out from between master's words, which could be seen.
Even so, the characters can't do everything thoroughly. When she heard the news of Sun Xun's death, she felt all kinds of feelings rushing into her heart: "In the beginning, I should have rushed to the end, maybe I was by his side, he would not end up where he is today." ”
She regretted it. Not long ago, the two met again after 30 years of separation, and although she rejected Sun Xun's wishes on the grounds of "cleanness", her concern was overflowing: "Prosperity is decline, strong pole is insulting, don't wait until the building collapses, and then think back." ”
But how can people easily see through in the red dust? When I was young, I was too strong, and what I thought in my heart was: You have your great future, I have my clarity and cleanliness, and since I can't have both, then, I will complete you, and from then on, the ends of the earth, each happy.
However, after experiencing ups and downs and changes in the world, I have another feeling in my heart: maybe the original struggle to the end will be a different ending. But whether it is pity or regret, there is no possibility in life. The unforgettable teaching is that life is short, don't wait until you can't go back and regret it.
Then there is Mrs. Shen Qingyao.
If you want, I will marry you, and if you don't want to, I, the bride who escaped from marriage, will have no way to live. ——Shen Qingyao
She looks soft and weak on the outside, but on the inside she is a very assertive person. Since she has been inquiring about Sun Xun's news for many years, there are two doubts: First, why didn't she find it before the title of the gold list? Second, didn't you find out that Sun Xun was already on the side before finding out?
The former shows that she will not look for a person who has no meritorious name and is poor; the latter, indicating that "a good woman does not marry a second husband" is just a pretext, after all, the two do not know each other, there is no emotional basis, her purpose is very clear, that is, to marry this "potential stock".
30 years later, conversations at home dinners confirm this. In the face of Sun Xun's true feelings of "I have been worried about another person in my heart", Shen Qingyao replied with a smile: "At the beginning, my father did not force marriage, it was I knew that you were in high school, and deliberately played a play of running away from marriage, just to marry you." ”
The reason why she dared to tell the truth is because the original right and wrong have long been insignificant in the face of life and death, and it is because of 30 years of honor and disgrace, which makes her believe that this love and righteousness have long surpassed others. Even if the husband knows the truth, what can he do? After all, the years pass without being traced, and the choices are made by yourself.
At the time of Sun Fu's disaster, Sun Xun stayed alone and let her lead her family to Twilight City to avoid disaster. After saying goodbye, she attacked her heart at the moment of turning around, spitting out a mouthful of blood, but immediately ordered the left and right to be silenced, and boarded the car without turning her head back. Perhaps, this is the demeanor of a big wife, and it is also such a light cloud, giving Sun Xun a stable rear.
She is perfect. As far as she is concerned, those illusory things cannot withstand the harmony of husband and wife who have respected each other for 30 years, and cannot withstand the honor and glory brought by the wives of the officials. She was happier than most of the official ladies.
Finally, let's talk about Sun Xun.
If I don't marry her, her life will be ruined. Besides, her father, Shen Lingying, is a Sanpin master, which will definitely help me in my career. I have a lot of ambitions to fulfill and I want you to have a good life. --Sun Xun
30 years ago, in the face of love and career, Sun Xun wanted to have both. After Liu'er learned of his attitude, she immediately fulfilled his ambition and offered to "gather and disperse". Since then, he has soared all the way to The Yellow Tengda, but Liu'er has always been alone.
In fact, Liu'er is not only his lover, but his father also has the grace to sponsor him to enter Beijing to catch the examination. But when he became famous, although he was unwilling to give up love, he was also unwilling to give up on people with great benefits in the future, which was undoubtedly too greedy, and once made people think that he was a selfish person who was bent on climbing up.
But people have a thousand faces, not all of them are black and white. After all, he is not only for fame and fortune, but also has the ambition of a "good official", because only by being in a high position can he have a platform to show his ambitions. As he took Shaochun to the place where the river embankment was built, he said: "How many people can a Jishan Hall feed every month?" Then I have thousands of JishanTang. ”
For the sake of kindness, everyone has it. After all, the Jishan Hall in Shaochun, the reception of one porridge and one meal, after all, has limited ability, but Sun Xun, as the first assistant, is enough to build the river embankment alone, which is enough to solve the livelihood worries of thousands of ordinary people. This kind of energy of the people cannot be said to be a great good.
There are thousands of people in the world, some people pursue family well-being, some people pursue high-ranking officials Houlu, some people pursue value realization, there is no distinction between high and low, but the energy released is large and small, and the living method is different. Sun Xun's ambition is a way for him to realize the value of life, just as he said to the people: "Thanks to you, my Sun Xun has a place to play." ”
However, how can those who are in the center of power not be helpless? In order to cooperate with the emperor, Sun Xun staged a big drama of "hiding the sky and crossing the sea" of sunfu's fall, just to find out Liang Jingguan's greedy silver two and the situation behind it. Although the whole family was frightened and scared, and Sun Yulou and his wife were separated for many years, they were also forced to do it.
His life, loved, pained, entangled, helpless, sloppy, glorious, in the end, realized the value of his life, as he said: "Did not walk in the world in vain."
Write at the end
Liu San absolutely thought that if she was by Sun Xun's side, then her ending would be different, right? Absolutely.
Liu San's absolutely strong personality will certainly not tolerate Sun Xun's many official changes, and her stubbornness will not tolerate her husband's "concubine" like Shen Qingyao, at that time, how can Sun Xun, who is everywhere constrained, go all out to realize his ambitions?
And Shen Qingyao, born in an official family, not only hears about official affairs, but also has the hidden tolerance of everyone's wife, just like her steadfastness and atmosphere: "With the old man here, what will happen to the big things?" Lord, we will not become your worries, you just have to rest assured and do what you have to do. ”
After all, whether Sun Xun is in a high position or idle in daily life, he and Liu Sanjie are still reduced to "best friends" and have no emotional entanglements. The promise that "when the autumn wind rises next year, I will sail away with you" still drifts with the wind and quietly passes away. And, whether he is the first assistant in the official position or the husband and wife, he and Shen Qingyao have always shared honor and disgrace in this life, and they are closely related.
If you start over, how will Sun Xun choose in the beginning? I'm afraid the same decision will be made. After all, Sun Xun took advantage of the situation, the official was the first assistant, Shen Qingyao was rich and glorious, and the husband and wife were harmonious. To put it bluntly, he and Shen Qingyao are the same people in the same road.
It turned out that everything was the best arrangement.