Wei Changhui, with 14 years of party experience, is the captain of the Cyber Security Brigade of the Sandu County Public Security Bureau, and will be dispatched to the county departure school in 2023 as the vice principal of the rule of law. In the past 16 years since joining the police, Wei Changhui has been awarded many personal awards, won a personal third-class meritorious service, Guizhou Province "Outstanding Party Member Police", Sandu County "38 Red Flag Bearer", Sandu County "Safety Supervision Model", Qiannan Prefecture Public Security Organ "Outstanding Female Police" and other titles.
In March 2008, she participated in the public security work, always adhere to the people-centered concept, always face the masses with a bright smile, treat the work with full enthusiasm, during the period of serving as a household registration police officer in the police station, she has handled household registration for thousands of school-age children, so that they can enroll in school in time and enjoy various policies to benefit the people. During her work in the Cyber Security Brigade, she cooperated with the case-handling department to carry out investigation work and arrested more than 50 cyber escapees. She went to Duzhai Village to carry out poverty alleviation work, and she ate, lived and worked with the masses, and personally helped the church 5 teenagers and children whose fathers passed away and their mothers remarried.
From a people's policeman, to a "heart person" who guarantees the masses, and then to a police mother in a special care school, Wei Changhui has constantly looked for ways to serve the people wholeheartedly with the trust and requirements of the organization
For Wei Changhui, who has liked to watch the "Skynet" program since she was a child, becoming a police officer has always been her dream, but under the mistake of the college entrance examination, Wei Changhui missed the police academy of her dreams.
After graduating from university, Wei Changhui, who worked in the government for three years, couldn't help but stop more whenever he saw the police officers passing by.
After thinking about it for a long time, Wei Changhui decided to apply for the public security police.
Wei Changhui is in the township people's government, the work task is heavy, the pressure is high, decided to take the public security exam during the time, to take care of work and exams, every day after completing the work and study, basically only 5 hours of rest, but when I think of the dream, Wei Changhui gritted his teeth and survived.
In 2008, Wei Changhui entered the Sandu County Public Security Bureau as she wished, and at the beginning of joining the police, she was assigned to the Shuilong Police Station, responsible for household registration management and internal work.
The household registration police are engaged in the work that is most closely related to the lives of the people, and are the link between the people and the bridge, and the bridge to promote harmonious police-people relations.
In the past few years in the household registration post, she has always faced the masses with a bright smile and treated her work with enthusiasm, which has been well received by the masses. Wei Changhui has also accumulated a lot of grassroots work experience in serving the people wholeheartedly again and again.
From walking into the home to living in the heart
In March 2019, due to work needs, Wei Changhui went to Duzhai Village, Zhonghe Town, as the deputy leader of the village-based team.
When she first arrived in the village, Wei Changhui learned that a family she guaranteed was left with five children due to the death of her father and the remarriage of her mother, the eldest child was called Xiao Mo, and family reasons made Xiao Mo lack of care and companionship since childhood, and her self-reliance and self-care ability were poor, Wei Changhui was determined to help the family, hoping to give them some love in life and teach them to be self-reliant.
"As a mother myself, I thought of my own children, so I decided that as long as I was stationed in the village for one day, I would help them for one day." Wei Changhui said.
For this reason, Wei Changhui wears a police uniform to visit people's homes every day, she feels that this will make the masses more impressed by her and make it easier for her to remember. can also make Xiao Mo not afraid of her.
Sure enough, Wei Changhui's "careful thinking" made the villagers firmly remember her, and also made Xiao Mo's family change from "afraid" of her to "looking forward to" her.
After getting acquainted, Wei Changhui began to take Xiao Mo to learn life skills, from the beginning of the need to stare at tidying up, to the back does not need to be supervised, the home is also clean and tidy, Xiao Mo has experienced a psychological change.
"At the beginning, when she came, she was very verbose, let us do this and that, and kept asking us to do it, and after she came for a long time, she felt that she was actually very good, and it was also for our good." Xiao Mo said.
In order to be able to integrate into Xiao Mo's life and let her feel the warmth of home and the happiness of companionship, Wei Changhui often took her two children to the village to eat, play and work with Xiao Mo's brothers and sisters.
Regarding Wei Changhui's arrival, Xiao Mo went from fear to impatience to expectation, from "the police are coming" to "why hasn't Auntie come yet".
"In my heart, this aunt is beautiful, kind and lovely, and we are very happy every time she comes." Xiao Mo said.
Wei Changhui's "story" with Xiao Mo's family is just a microcosm of her poverty alleviation road, a year and a half of experience in the village, Duzhai Village has become her second home, she has also become a relative of the people in Duzhai Village, and has also become a person who lives in the "heart" of the masses.
Be a good mother to lost children
"Let every child have their own spring" is the philosophy of Sandu County Qicheng School.
In March 2023, preparations for the construction of the Sandu County Qicheng School began, and after comprehensive consideration, the Party Committee of the Sandu County Public Security Bureau selected him to serve as the vice principal of the rule of law at the Qicheng School.
"When you arrive at the departure school, you have to manage this group of children, be their mother, and hope that they can become healthy adults regardless of whether they can become talents or not!" Before leaving, the party committee of the bureau made a request to her.
After arriving at the school, Wei Changhui, as the vice principal of the rule of law, worked with the teachers of the school to strive towards the goal of "letting every child have their own spring", groped forward, and jointly devoted themselves to the preparation for the construction of the Qicheng School in Sandu County.
In May, the school welcomed its first students.
"In the face of 50 children with different personalities, I was confused at first, and I didn't know how to get into them faster and help them, but when I remembered the entrustment of the bureau party committee to me - to treat them as my own children, I suddenly became enlightened. I thought at the time, the soldiers will block, the water will cover the earth, and sincerity will definitely be exchanged for sincerity. Wei Changhui thought so and did so.
If you want to get into their hearts, you must first understand them. Wei Changhui decided to start by talking to the children.
quarrels and fights with classmates, talking; silently squatting on the edge of the playground and not wanting to blend in with other classmates, talking; disobedience to classroom discipline, talking; Violation of school rules, talking; Mood swings, conversation ......
Gradually, she gained the trust of the children, from the beginning when she went to talk to the students, and then the students were willing to take the initiative to talk to her, what happy, sad, and annoying things were willing to take the initiative to share with her, and slowly, she began to walk into them.
Every time we talk, Wei Changhui can always find the point where they need help in the words that sound like complaints, but are actually coquettish, and then try her best to help them.
For a while, she noticed that Xiao Pan's clothes were always yellow and smelly. She specially called the child and went to the dormitory to find out the reason.
Wei Changhui asked carefully, Xiao Pan's clothes were washed by his mother when he was at home, and after he arrived at school, he was still too lazy to wash the clothes he changed every day, and would only stuff them into the wardrobe, and pick out the cleaner ones to wear every day.
Wei Changhui found laundry detergent, took out all the dirty clothes, and divided them into two basins, one for her and one for the child, and taught the children how to wash them little by little. For more than half an hour from cleaning to drying, Wei Changhui taught and comforted Xiao Pan's ashamed emotions. Since then, Xiao Pan has never worn yellow and smelly clothes.
"At the end of the day, they are all children, and a little more patience, a little more tolerance, and a little more heartfelt words and deeds for these children will definitely work much more effectively than imperative and didactic methods." Wei Changhui said.
That's it, if you don't know how to do laundry, Wei Changhui will teach you by hand; If the dishes are not clean, Wei Changhui will show them; If the clothes and socks were torn, Wei Changhui helped them mend them; The shoes are glued, and Wei Changhui sticks them to them; If they want to pick up textbooks and study again, Wei Changhui finds books for them and prints test questions......
Opening the drawer of Wei Changhui's desk, it is like a treasure chest, which contains all-purpose glue for mending shoes, sewing kits, small candies to soothe and motivate the children, hair bands for girls, letters written by children to parents, etc., all of which are bonds of mutual trust between her and her classmates.
September 10 this year is Wei Changhui's first Teacher's Day as a police teacher, and at the celebration on that day, student Xiao Yang wrote a letter to her: "Dear Principal Wei Changhui: I am very happy to come to Qicheng School because I know you! The care you give me like a parent has made me feel the true warmth of the world! You taught me how to be a person and how to do things. Over the past four months, it was you who have been constantly correcting my bad habits, you have been my guide on my confused path of life, and you have shown me the way forward on my dark path......"
Suddenly receiving such a letter, Wei Changhui's heart was extremely emotional: "Suddenly, I felt that my efforts were worth it; I also feel ashamed to face the true feelings of the children, and I should do a little better and better to live up to the trust that the children have placed in me. ”
Build a bridge between your child and your family
According to statistics, about 30% of the children in the school are divorced, 14% are single-parent families, and about 80% are left-behind children.
Wei Changhui found in the conversation with the children that most of the children felt that their parents did not understand them, beat and scolded their education, and they were unwilling to tell their families anything, and even felt that they had nothing to say to their families.
For this reason, Wei Changhui changed the direction and communicated with the children's families to understand the situation, parents generally felt that the children did not understand themselves, and the parents worked hard to earn money outside in order to create good living conditions for the children, but the children were always disobedient, so there are extreme parents who often say cruel words to their children, "Forget about you" and "Forget it if you die"......
This two-way incomprehension leads to deviations in children's psychological and moral behavior. After discovering the problems, Wei Changhui immediately decided to solve them one by one.
Wei Changhui's family communicated with the children and parents respectively to understand the problems between them, find out the causes of the problems, and then analyze and solve them together. It is the reason for the parents, and the parents reflect on it......
In the process of communication, Wei Changhui put both parents and children on the same level, so that the disadvantaged children are more acceptable, and also let the parents lean down to listen to the children's voices.
In this way, children begin to understand the hard work of their parents, understand their parents' discipline, and are willing to confide their hearts to their parents, and parents have also changed their extreme education methods in communication. Slowly, many problems were resolved.
"With the understanding and communication from parents, children will return to the family, the school, and the society faster and better." Talking about why he went to such great lengths to do this, Wei Changhui said.
The mother of Xiao Wang, who returned from studying at school for three months, sent a message to Wei Changhui to thank him: "Teacher, your management method is very useful, thank you very much, I never read books before, but now I read books every day, and he is not interested in his mobile phone, and he will control his temper."
Xiao Wei, who also graduated and returned to his original school to study, stood out among the freshmen through the good habits he developed, was elected class president with excellent performance, learned to be grateful, saved his living expenses and bought candy to visit teachers and classmates at school.
Because his parents have been working abroad for a long time, Xiao Wang, who stayed at home, regained his dream after studying at Qicheng School, found the direction of his efforts, and actively participated in the football match of the Qiannan Prefecture Primary and Secondary School Student Games, and played well in the game, and the team won the first place.
There are many such examples, through the psychological and behavioral modification of the departure school, and by building a bridge between them and their parents, many children who are about to be abandoned and abandoned have returned to the normal track.
"They are students, not prisoners" is a sentence told Wei Changhui by a senior who has been engaged in special education for eight years, and Wei Changhui has always remembered it.
"I want to do my best to light the way for them to grow." When it comes to the direction of future work, Wei Changhui's eyes are bright: "They are not only students, but also children, as long as they work hard and be a good guide on their lost road, I believe that they will grow up healthy and strong!" ”
(Source: Sandu Public Security)