Sister Jing, I've recently posted a small composition again.
As one of the fans of the popular "Ink Rain Clouds", Yi Neng wrote a 1,800-word essay to express his feelings about chasing dramas: as long as you have firm beliefs and don't look down on yourself, you can get out of the stigma.
Netizens can be called million-level publicity.
It seems to be written for Xue Fangfei in the play, it seems to be written for director Yu Zheng, it seems to be written for itself, and it seems to be written for Enli, a child who is deeply affected by the whirlpool of public opinion.
It is not difficult to find that in Yi Nengjing's small compositions, her insight and thoroughness of human nature and emotions can always be glimpsed, with the warmth and delicacy unique to women, and the words are brilliant and brilliant.
Many netizens began to make horizontal comparisons between Big S and Yi Nengjing.
It's not better than not knowing, it's more frightening.
The original family is not good, debuted at a young age to make money to support the family, and has an obsession with beauty, etc., all have similarities. And they are all divorced and married for the second time, and the biggest thing they have in common is "doing", and in terms of popularity, they are simply hot topic makers.
And this "work" makes them go to a completely different direction of life in different senses.
Big S has a good hand of cards and plays poorly; And Yi Nengjing, holding a bad hand of cards, played a "straight flush".
Big S is still on the way to sue Wang Xiaofei for the 18th time, and the child has been mixed in the whirlpool of public opinion, and now he has lost his reputation and fallen into an economic crisis.
And Yi Nengjing reconciled with her ex-husband's family, got along with her son as a mother and friend, and now likes to mention "dream mother", and Qin Hao's second marriage is stable, and there are also crystallized millet grains, and she lives happily.
Some netizens sighed, the most pitiful is still a pair of children in Big S, the parents are on the lace news every day, and they don't know if they will laugh at school, and they should not have a good time, and now there is lace news that the daughter was instigated by the big S and asked her father for a house.
Some netizens also analyzed that if it wasn't for her mother's teaching, she might also want to stand on her own, and the chaotic family couldn't stay.
On the other hand, Yi Nengjing, who recently attended the graduation ceremony of her son Enli with her ex-husband, also wrote an affectionate essay for her son:
All the roads, you have to go through by yourself. When encountering difficulties, don't run away from them, but bravely leap over.
Yi Nengjing said: "I raised myself again! ”
It can be said that she is a very qualified mother in the divorce, and her high emotional intelligence parenting concept has also been praised by netizens.
Recently, I have read a lot about her concept of children's education and have been amazed.
Mate selection requirements for son Enli: I don't mind sister and brother love, it's no problem to be ten years older, and there are no restrictions on men and women.
In a word, as long as the son likes it, it's fine, and the mother supports it.
Maybe there are not so many rules, and the happiness of the child is the primary condition, regardless of age, as long as there is an emotional connection between the two.
Regardless of gender, it is really a bit incredible for parents to have such an advanced concept!
But if you think about it, behind her support is more about letting the child have the right to be himself.
It is rare to have such respect and understanding for her children.
After all, Enli posted bold women's photos before, and was ruthlessly abused and cyberbullied by netizens.
Even Yi Nengjing was questioned, but she firmly defended her son again and again: "I give the neutral genes, and violent people are cowards!" ”
In Yi Nengjing's world, Enli can be who he is, and he is allowed to be anything he is.
In addition to his son, he also gave his child the greatest freedom in raising his daughter.
She allows the child to give up, the child has the right to stop at any time, and the process of exploration involves giving up, not ending in the end.
They don't ask children to develop according to their imagination.
From this point of view, Yi Nengjing's concept of education is full of wisdom.
She feels nothing more than that she is lucky to be her child, because she can grow up in a family atmosphere full of freedom and respect.
Because a child's self-confidence and independence come from having a mother who loves and supports him unconditionally.
Life, it's not a question of right and wrong, especially children, but she knows how to love children.
Perhaps she once lacked such love.
Yi Nengjing was born in Taiwan, China in 1968. She is the seventh child in the family and has six older sisters in front of her.
His father had a traditional patriarchal mentality, so Yi Nengjing's arrival shattered his wishes.
Sure enough, the family also dispersed along with the father's wish for his son.
Later, her mother remarried to Japan, and she lived with her, her original name Wu Jingyi was also renamed Yi Neng Jingjiang, and Yi Neng Jing was her stage name.
She changed the name herself, because it can be a multiple-choice question - which kind of life to choose!
The misfortune of her childhood made Yi Nengjing fall in love with words, and at the age of 14, she went to work in a restaurant to buy books, wash dishes, and live a depressed and breathless life.
When she was 16 years old, Yi Nengjing took a ID photo when she returned to Taiwan for the summer vacation, and since then the gears of fate have begun to turn.
Yi Nengjing, who wanted to make money, signed a contract with the company and began to debut.
Later, his career was in full swing, and he fell in love with Yu Chengqing for 14 years, and in 2000, the two announced their marriage and gave birth to a son, Enli.
After marriage, the two were not happy, the mother-in-law's disapproval, the lack of similar interests, the "cheating" turmoil, etc., pushed them to the end of their marriage.
In 2009, he ended his marriage of "loving but not wanting".
Love seems to be the proposition that Yi Nengjing has been pursuing.
In 2015, she married Qin Hao, who was 10 years younger than herself. The following year, at the age of 48, Yi Nengjing gave birth to a daughter at an advanced age.
Now Yi Nengjing feels the sense of belonging brought by her lover and family everywhere, which makes her shine with the little princess who has always lived in her heart. Qin Hao's family healed Yi Nengjing and compensated for everything in her past.
In fact, Yi Nengjing's wisdom lies not only in how she teaches her children, but in how she is good at shaking hands with the circumstances at each stage.
And the twist of Big S just lacks this kind of "harmony", so it has been unable to get out of the endless disputes of the farce of the giants.
(Careful netizens will find Xiao Yueyue's unconfidence and unhappiness from some photos or clues)
In this process, the happiness and innocence of the child's childhood will be ruined little by little.
Good parents are to grow up with their children, no one is born to be parents, they are all learning and doing, cherishing each other, and understanding each other.
Parents have one life, only one in this life.
Enley once said to his mother: Don't use your past to determine the future you are not involved in.
Yi Nengjing suddenly realized the growth of the child.
When it comes to our lives, today's educational anxiety is very stressful for children. Most of them are ordinary families and wage earners, and they can be described as "rolling and rolling, lying and not daring to lie down." ”
Children will be bored with school, depressed, and if we don't really understand the hearts of children, it can be difficult to know that what they want may not be what we desperately want to give.
The love of parents for their children is far-reaching. Yi Nengjing has become the "dream mother" in the mouth of many netizens.
Please teach Big S.