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Text | Sister Yi (Zhou Guiyi) Ye Ziyao
"The Story of the Rose" is over.
I like Huang Yimei's ending, I don't need to turn back for anyone, I don't need to get back together with anyone, and I don't need to wait for a person's commitment.
Living as a free-walking flower is her best "consummation".
After the year of not being confused, smile at all the encounters in life, and no longer hope for happiness, you are happy.
Healthy and free, go wherever you want.
This is the beautiful Rose Life!
Compared with the original work, in addition to beauty and desire, the drama version of Huang Yimei has more qualities that contemporary women like.
Optimistic and studious, he does not set limits on life, and he does not delay taking a bunch of certificates for three years with a baby.
Tough and resolute, he can participate in cocktail parties and work in restaurants.
Tina likes roses and will not dare to go first, Zhuang Guodong fell in love with her beauty at a glance, but also the courage to go to the banquet alone.
Be single-minded about feelings, not dragging mud and water; He has the talent of a lover, but he doesn't look back when he turns around.
Zhuang Guodong begged to reunite, and Fang Xiewen begged to remarry, but they were all rejected.
"My love is single-threaded, I can only love one person at a time, and once I fall in love with someone else, it proves that our line is over."
High emotional concentration and emotional value, not only love, but also family affection and friendship.
She could say to Fu Jiaming, who was lying in the hospital bed: "I can accept being separated by death, but I don't accept being separated by timidity." ”
You can also fly back to Beijing directly and give the sad Su Su a strong hug.
The rose is a collection of all the imaginations of men for the perfect dream lover, even if they can only see her beauty and not her soul.
And more importantly for me, her "high-level humanity" beyond her beauty is the desire that grows in the hearts of ordinary women.
Not only Huang Yimei, but the women related to her in the play are like flowers with different postures, living into our fantasies about men once upon a time.
Su Gengsheng, sober and independent, mature and steady, is Rose's sister-in-law in the play, and is a friend.
For Rose, it's really a flowing boyfriend, an iron-beaten Su Gengsheng.
From the first time they met, borrowing a silk scarf, they walked into each other's lives.
Rose affectionately called Su Gengsheng "Su Su", not just because of her help, but because she saw the soft part of her heart under her hard shell.
Two women with very different personalities can be each other's shoulders because of understanding, respect and understanding.
Su Gengsheng cares about Huang Yimei, but he understands proportion, really considers from the other party's point of view, and will never "cross the line".
and Huang Zhenhua went to Shanghai to visit the postpartum roses, Huang Zhenhua thought that the house was small and dilapidated, and excitedly wanted to rent a big house for his sister.
Su Gengsheng reminded that it was not appropriate, this was a matter for the husband and wife, and if she wanted to help, she would give the money to Rose, and she would pay it.
Huang Zhenhua thinks that Zhuang Guodong and Rose are more compatible, and he wants to match and reunite, and Su Gengsheng knocks on the side and respects Rose's own choice. "Why don't you become a woman in the next life and marry Zhuang Guodong yourself?!"
In the face of the men of the roses, Su Gengsheng not only stood on the position of the roses, considered her, but also had a strong sense of proportion.
Zhuang Guodong returned to China to work together, and Su Gengsheng said ugly things in the past, work is work, and he will not involve private matters about roses.
Fang Xiewen's inferiority complex, Su Gengsheng saw through it at a glance, and took the initiative to remind him on the phone, don't be controlled by it.
When we were angry with Fang Xiewen off the screen again and again, Su Gengsheng had a calm output, and at every difficult node of the rose.
Rose said that her married life was like a fish that was raised, and Su Gengsheng reminded Fang Xiewen that his sense of control was very successful, but he should not use it on his family.
After the divorce, Fang Xiewen wanted to snatch custody of his daughter, and Su Gengsheng broke it down and reminded him not to transfer his desire to control Huang Yimei to his daughter. Rethink what exactly is the best love for your daughter?
Su Gengsheng's soft parts and precise empathy are rarely used on roses that make them envious.
She was decisive in the workplace, and in the face of the struggling rose in her marriage, she was not angry, but helped provide part-time work according to her wishes.
This is compassion and euphemism.
Born in a bloodthirsty family and experiencing childhood nightmares, Su Gengsheng did not live as another Fang Xiewen, it was a kind of desperate self-growth, as she said, it turned inferiority complex into a driving force for progress, without being controlled and eaten by it.
Taking the initiative to cut off from the original family and relying on herself is the first step, and at the same time, her great luck is to meet the woman who opened herself, Tina and Huang Yimei.
Huang Yimei's directness, frankness, romance, and enthusiasm for love infected Su Gengsheng and embraced friendship and love.
Tina, as the boss and leader of Su Gengsheng's work since graduation, has shaped Su Gengsheng's personality as an independent professional, and also subtly influenced her style of doing things.
I also like Tina played by Zhu Zhu, breaking the image of the elite female boss of domestic dramas in the past, realistic and romantic.
She admires Su Gengsheng's management ability, but also reminds her not to close herself too closely, try to open up her feelings, experience some "out of control", and be a little more emotional in her rationality, which will help her engage in the art industry.
She admired Rose's courage and studiousness, and as Bole, she gave Rose an "exception" in the workplace - "The ambitious little wolf should send her to the front." ”
Huang Yimei's entrepreneurial path, and because of Tina's courage and vision, Huang Yimei is more suitable as an entrepreneurial partner than Su Gengsheng's identity at the helm.
Everything that can be put on the table here at Tina.
That's why the women in this unit who are bonded by their work can develop into close friends. Seek common ground while reserving differences, and appreciate each other.
This matter, in reality, is no less difficult than "the domineering president falls in love, sees, and respects me", which is an extremely idealistic expression, but it should be expressed.
We must first have a yearning, and then work hard.
Tina doesn't pose as a leader with "I'm from the past", but she is honest about her life because she has experienced love and death.
Tina took Huang Yimei to do a manicure with her and told her, "Others haven't restricted you yet, don't limit yourself first."
When she broke up with Zhuang Guodong, Huang Yimei learned that Tina was going to divorce, she loved Lao Gu very much, but she loved herself more, so she didn't need to use a marriage letter to bind each other.
"It's lucky to meet love, but other things are just as important."
When Huang Yimei and Fu Jiaming were in love, they were plagued by the fear of death, and Tina told her that her last time with Lao Gu was cruel and beautiful.
"When people are close to death, they are more aware of their feelings."
Because of her love for herself, Tina will voluntarily leave her nominal marriage; Because of her love for Lao Gu, Tina will leave everything to accompany him in the last stage of his life.
But always, look forward.
These women are not only independent in the secular sense, but also passionate and brave wise men, idealistic and pure projections that we ordinary people aspire to become.
In addition to these sisters, there are also Zhizhi and Bai Xiaohe in the play.
Guan Zhizhi was betrayed in her relationship for seven years, and when she saw the truth and decided to break up, she was neat and decisive, reminding the old man who became a partner, and later saw her name and surname and called herself.
After marrying a wife and having a successful career, as Party A, he is not worried about the past because of the sadness of the past, and he generously said that he is still willing to cooperate with old acquaintances if he can cooperate.
Bai Xiaohe's family is wealthy, but not delicate, as a female doctor from Tsinghua University, she focuses on the world she likes.
In the relationship with Huang Zhenhua, there is no procrastination, whether it works or not, it is clearly explained, and there are no illusions. My own thoughts are also expressed concisely and concisely, without concealment.
Soft on the outside, strong on the inside, and clear about his purpose in life -
I like children and want to be a mother, but I don't want to fall in love and get married.
This role is a breakthrough, and for the first time, she put the reality of the real world, and now a part of the wealthy free young women, a certain unconventional choice, on the table-
Go to the father and keep the son.
Of course, there is a lot of room for discussion in terms of ethics and education, but the willingness of domestic TV dramas to show is a kind of progress in itself.
Finally, I would like to summarize the original intention of writing this article.
"The Story of Rose" tells Huang Yimei's four relationships and four men, and I found that after watching it all the way, the qualities they lack, the women in the play have all taken care of them.
Successive boyfriends have contracted conceit, low self-esteem, timidity, thin empathy, self-reflection and communication skills.
And the women related to roses are good at communication, empathy, affection, boundaries, responsible, and emotionally dedicated and not procrastinating.
Moreover, they all look forward and do not look back.
In this era, women lived as women's fantasies about men.
With all the good qualities, a garden with more than roses was built, more reliable than the "safe haven" promised by men.
As people get older, they know more and more about appreciating the beauty of their kind.
There is no female competition, there is no pulling flowers, only the comfort of sympathy.
It's like the love and support my girlfriends give me in life.
The world is full of holes, and women are mending them.
Thank you to the women who are infinitely close to the ideal, but who have miraculously come to my life as "real beings".
Thankful to have you, grateful to have you.