A 35-year-old lady asked for help with a microphone connection:
1: My daughter is 10 years old and does not go to school for two months in the second grade, there is too much homework, and the teacher always punishes her to stand for half a day or a day.
2: My father was diagnosed with multiple cerebral infarction two months ago, blockage on both sides of the neck, slow blood flow, poor left side of the body, inability to lift legs, epilepsy, cerebral atrophy and sometimes confusion, arteriosclerosis, insufficient blood supply to the cerebral ischemic foci, high blood pressure and blood lipids, pulmonary nodules, liver cysts, and thyroid nodules.
3: Mother-in-law's hands are shaking and her head is shaking.
4: My sister is 42 years old and has been married to her second brother-in-law for more than two years, and she has never had children to worry her.
5: Husband's sinusitis, early cough, stomach blockage, stomach upset.
6: I am afraid, scared, anxious, worried about my father's illness, worried that I will not be able to do well after connecting the microphone.
She was born in the countryside, her father always drank, cursed, and fought, and her parents were not harmonious at all. The uncle came to her house to scold her father, and the father did it with the uncle. She has been rebellious since she was a child and can't get up, her mother wants to fold and she won't let her stack and yell and kick her mother, and if she wants her mother to do it if she doesn't give it to her, she will cut her wrists if she doesn't really want to cut it, and scare her mother. Once she skipped school, her father sent her to school, she went to secondary school, and her mother asked her to continue studying, she didn't want to miss it, her family was very poor and wanted to go to work. She didn't listen to her mother and went to work in Beijing, she was not popular, a boy chased her for a long time, she was dealt with, she felt unsuitable and broke up. She was greedy for money and disliked him ugly, he didn't have the strength to buy a house in Beijing and jumped into the river, and then he agreed to break up, she lied to him if he still contacted him after two years, he gave her a mobile phone she didn't want, and bought her a few clothes before. Once she sent the boy home, there were two people chasing them on the road and stopped the car, but nothing happened, and then her mother was sick and was hospitalized with cerebral thrombosis, she went home to see that her mother had nothing to take care of for a while and went out to work again, and another boy chased her, she also agreed that there was no relationship, but there were indecent actions in the behavior. When she went home, her mother didn't let her go, saying that it was going to be autumn, her sister was pregnant, and her father would scold. She didn't listen to her mother and left again, she just got there and her mother was hospitalized again, this time it was very serious, she took care of it in the hospital at the beginning, and then she fed tofu brain and choked, since then her mother was in a coma and fever, she couldn't eat, but she didn't eat and didn't move her mother to eat flower rolls with cold water, Dad said no, I had to find someone to help, and my aunt didn't come to take care of it, the doctor said that it might not work when I went home, she prayed to God to exchange her ten years of life for seven years of life for my mother's seven years of life, my mother was very thin and couldn't bear anything, and my father always scolded my mother. She also felt sorry for the money, and on the third night of going home, her mother was going to die, she said that my mother would be fine, and her mother would be fine after that night, and her mother was in a coma for three months, and she gave liquid food every day, and then her mother woke up and lived for seven years. During this period, her aunt came to her house and said that it would be good to drink any water, but they didn't give it to drink and didn't believe it, so she stayed in Shenyang to work, and she went home as long as she had a holiday and rest. If she doesn't come back at work, she will have to go home early if her mother is sick, every time she goes home, she cleans up for her mother, buys good vegetables and cleans up before she leaves, and she has to go home to get a bad light bulb at home and feel that she can't hold on to find an object, he wants to think about it, she doesn't want to, and then they don't get there, and then I met her object, she didn't see it for a year and a half, and at first glance she disliked her husband old, but he was too good to her like a child to take care of her.
She looked down on her father since she was a child, and felt that her father couldn't make money. After she met the object, she rented a house downstairs to take care of her, and she knew her daughter before getting married for a year and a half, and she was pregnant with the daughter before taking wedding photos, and she went to her mother-in-law's house for the first time to buy a pair of pants for her mother-in-law, and she didn't like to say that she wanted to give it away, so she cried with her husband. What kind of quilt did my mother-in-law say she liked? When to get married? She said let's talk about it later! The subject was six years older than her, she was 24 at the time, her mother-in-law went to her house to propose a deposit of 5,000, she gave the object, she didn't know if it could be done, the subject drank, her father drank, she didn't want to find someone to drink. She has a formal job, her husband doesn't have it, she looks down on him, buys a house and writes her name so that he doesn't add his name, and she pays the mortgage.
Dad asked her mother-in-law for a bride price of 100,000 yuan, but her mother-in-law was sick urgently, so she wanted to be yellow, because his family couldn't come up with the money, her husband asked her to tell her father to take 40,000 or 50,000 yuan. The husband went back to take care of his mother-in-law, and she said that if you don't come back, we will be yellow. She was very painful and wanted to divide and was reluctant to divide her husband was so good, a man from her hometown came to her, they drank and opened a room, she felt uncomfortable and aggrieved but did not have a relationship. Later, when my husband came back, she told him about it, but he didn't say it, she slapped herself in the mouth and said that no one can bully me. During the period, she ran out when she got angry, and the object thought she was looking for someone, she and her husband went out to buy clothes, and she didn't delete the chat record with the boy and deliberately let her husband know, she wanted to use her husband's bride price money to buy clothes and earrings for her sister, but her husband didn't let her, so she used her salary to buy a dress for her sister, and her husband worked in her house. When she was dealing with someone, she asked him, would you like to go home and take care of my parents? The husband said yes. The mother-in-law first gave 50,000 dowry, and her father was afraid that she would be aggrieved and said no, and then he gave 90,000 yuan and said that she was about to get married, and she gave her the gift money for the marriage, and she thought that the mother-in-law could give it to me? If she doesn't give it, she won't give it if she wants to! The marriage husband arranged the best, the wedding car was the best, and the clothes the husband wore did not fit at all.
The night before the wedding, she started to make trouble, her family came, and his family didn't come to the hotel, so she made trouble, and her father didn't let her make trouble. She had a very serious stomach problem when she was a child, she was seventeen or eighteen years old with a bad cervical spine, cervical spondylosis was very serious, after marriage, the house was rented before it came down, her husband did not go to work to take care of her, she worked until five or six months of vacation, and they went back to the countryside, her husband drove a taxi to take care of him, and the sauce beef was rotten, and her husband was reluctant to eat it and kept it for her to eat. Her husband treats her well, she keeps everything to eat, her husband has athlete's foot, and she doesn't need to wash his socks. She opened a small store, and once her husband wanted to go out, she wouldn't let him go, and if he had to go, she would chase him and she would fall, and at that time she wouldn't let him do anything, and he would go out and chop someone else's car. She lent money to deal with it, and she was in a hurry. For more than eight months, her mother-in-law took her to her hometown and took her out for a trip before picking her up. Whatever she eats, her mother-in-law leaves it for her to eat, and she can protect her when she eats, and her mother-in-law makes three meals a day for her when she goes home. My sister and brother-in-law divorced, and my brother-in-law went to her house to make trouble and said that there was someone outside my sister, and she also yelled at her brother-in-law. Before giving birth, she went home once, and before she came, her father gave her 5,000 yuan and said that she would have a child, and they both spent it until her mother-in-law's house had no money to give birth. The brother-in-law gave her the money to give birth, but no one from my family came to the hospital. Mom has a sick dad at home with a lot of cattle to take care of, she just shouted heartbreakingly inside, and her mother-in-law said that she was distressed and couldn't do it directly, so she wouldn't let her suffer so much. People say that she is prone to heavy bleeding with this blood type. After she gave birth to her daughter, her mother-in-law took care of her and held the child. Then the husband slept and snored at night, and the mother-in-law came to hold the child. She felt like they were all taking care of the children and no one was caring about her. When she went to the bathroom, she felt like she was about to faint, and when she came back, she got angry and said that you all care about the children and no one cares about me, and in the hospital, her husband fed her millet porridge in one mouth, and she was a little unhappy when she got home and gave birth to a daughter. The husband may have seen it, once she just didn't breastfeed the girl, so the husband slapped her and persuaded her to say that you give birth to a daughter for me, I am so happy to give birth to a big daughter! You're amazing, I can't thank you so much. It seems that the slap on her was because of the bride price.
The house was about to come down, and the money was at her father's house, and he wanted to take out the money to pay for the house, and she was very greedy for money at that time. She didn't want him to take out the money, so she wanted to leave it to her father. Before she asked her mother-in-law for money to buy a house, her mother-in-law said that she didn't wait for her mother to have money now, and in the future, your little brother will have a chance, and she will help you when she has money, and then she will think about what to give? If you can't give it, the husband will go home and take out the bride price money from his father, and they will hand over the house. When she was pregnant, once her husband didn't let him drink, he drank too much. He came over with a knife and said, "I'm going to throw the baby out of your belly." The mother-in-law vomited angrily after she finished her husband. The next morning, when she was sober, she poured her husband's entire half pot of wine, but her mother-in-law didn't let her pour it. She didn't stay with her mother-in-law for six months, and after six months, her mother-in-law raised her white and fat, and after six months, she went home and took the child to see her mother. My sister was divorced, and my sister went out to work and no one took care of her mother, so she saw her mother wearing a padded jacket. Her zippers were all open, and she used a rope as a belt to tie it. She was distressed, so she stayed home for six months to take care of her mother, and her husband was in Shenyang every night, no matter how windy or rainy it was, unless there were special circumstances, he would not come back. Once her husband was angry and she was at home, and he wanted to see her. After finishing the matter, the criminal police ended up, and the criminal police got into his car, and he thought it was a bad guy, so he beat people up and let people in. Later, he came out and had no money to decorate the house, and after his father took 40,000 yuan, his father had a cerebral infarction and cerebral hemorrhage, and his father had a cerebral hemorrhage three times in a row.
After the second cerebral hemorrhage, her father's hand hurt and she took her father to prescribe the medicine, and soon after taking this medicine, she had bleeding again, and her father was sick and sold all her cattle, and her father gave 40,000 yuan for decoration. Later, he still had to get money to buy a car, so she didn't do it and said she wouldn't buy it, she was afraid that if he didn't support her father in the future, she would think that he had a bad relationship with her father. He had to buy her and didn't agree, before his mother died, and when Dad's money was taken out, she put it in her pocket. Dad kept scolding, her firewood pile was on fire, she called the subject, and the subject and her mother-in-law drove in the middle of the night. When her mother died, they were already in debt of 170,000 yuan and could not pay it back, she told her husband that she wanted to give her mother 10,000 yuan to handle the funeral, and her husband readily agreed, in fact, her family has money, but she just wants to do her filial piety. She also wanted to leave more money for her father, but Gu Niang's mind had not been in her mother-in-law's house, and her father was sick after finishing her mother's funeral, so she said that she would pick up Shenyang for her father. Before Mom was sick, they were at home, and she also said to take them. Because her father struggled to take care of her mother, she was afraid that something would happen. My husband didn't agree, and my mother died, so she took my dad to Shenyang, and on the day I picked it up, my aunt went to see my dad and said no, I'll take care of you.
When I was young, my father could take care of my brothers and sisters, and my father was very filial. After Dad took it, her husband objected, and she insisted on letting Dad sleep on the sofa. Mother-in-law said that your father sat on the sofa and didn't move, and her mother-in-law swept the floor and her father didn't lift his legs, so her mother-in-law was very angry. She cried every day at work, and the leader of the unit asked her why she was crying? She said that my dad had a discordant relationship with her mother-in-law at home, and she felt that the object didn't look down on her dad. The leader said don't cry, you can earn more money to rent a house for your father. Dad probably lived here for more than a month, and there was always something wrong with his head or something, so she took Dad to the hospital or something, and her husband didn't care. She paid the rent to her father, hid it secretly, and kept it for her father. When her daughter was three years old, she was pregnant again, and her husband said that if she wanted a boy, she didn't want a girl, and she thought that if she wanted this child, she would not be able to take care of her parents, so she had an abortion, and she wanted to fight it as soon as possible.
She saved 100,000 yuan for Dad, and she gave her money to Dad. After coming here, Dad had a lot of epilepsy, once frightened his mother-in-law, Dad was willing to eat stir-fried vegetables and thought that his mother-in-law did less, and his mother-in-law got up late, Dad ate before eight o'clock, and had to eat before three o'clock in the evening, she was nervous to get up late and let her mother-in-law suffer from pain, and her husband and Dad fought in the middle of the night, she called her mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law said that he was a son, and she wanted to drive her mother-in-law away. The husband said that the mother was here to take care of the child, and if something did not go her way, she would beat the child and yell and scream. This time my mother-in-law went to Dalian, she has been studying traditional culture for two years, and she wants to learn that it must be my mistake, or her father is sick again and again and still in debt. Her husband asked her to take care of the children, and she drove her mother-in-law away.
She fell asleep listening to lectures at home, and she was afraid that something would happen to her father every day. Not long ago, my father was hospitalized with a cerebral infarction, she accompanied my father, she didn't eat or drink for eight days, she was not filial to her mother-in-law, and her father didn't eat or drink for her, and she ate the rest of her daughter. After her father was discharged from the hospital, she took her daughter to Dalian, she thought her mother-in-law was in charge, her husband also thought her mother-in-law was in charge, she didn't want her annoying mother-in-law, she didn't say it, her husband said, her mother-in-law went out to cry, she came back to coax her mother-in-law. The mother-in-law said that she would complain about her son and not her daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law said that her son was sad as if he was not born. The younger brother opened a school over there, and her husband wanted to go, so she let him go and stay for more than a year, during which she was not at peace with her little brother, and this time her husband opened a store and the younger brother gave them money. Before her daughter went to school, she also complained that she didn't do anything, and she didn't eat when she cooked, she cursed her father and in-laws, she used to take care of her mother's family, and she put it down after learning, the relationship was not good, and the relationship was eased after her husband went to the younger brother. She apologized to her husband and hid her private money for her father to spend, and her husband said that he had known this little secret for a long time. Her mother-in-law always has a face with her father, she feels very uncomfortable, and she also knows that she can't be happy if she wants to let her mother-in-law suffer so much.
After listening to her sharing, Teacher Yu Shan made a brief summary:
1. Why do you want to solve this thing with microphones?
She said: I will go to Dalian in a few days, and I am afraid that I will not do something right, and the other party will not do well.
2. Can you not know these little things after you have studied them for three years? Why don't you do it if you know? How big have you done in two months, and who will you clean up if you don't clean up? You bully your mother-in-law and husband, and the wicked are afraid of the sky. What do I tell you every day?
She said: filial piety to parents-in-law, respect for husbands, love for children.
3. Why don't you do it? Do you want to rebel? What did your husband do to you? What did your in-laws do to you? You put your father in your house, is your mother-in-law obliged to support your father? Raising children is to prevent old age, who told you that your in-laws raise your in-laws and grow old? You deserve to be unable to tie your knot. Everything has heavenly principles, is there a mother-in-law who supports her mother-in-law? You treated your mother-in-law as a slave and raised your father, do you accept it? You don't even know who you are? Is your mother-in-law obligated to support your parents? Have you ever heard a word from your husband?
She said, "No."
4. What you bear today is what you deserve to bear, three years, more or less listen to my little finger will not be like this, you deserve it. Filial piety, have you done the slightest filial piety? Have you done your best to respect your husband? What have you gotten to do? Do you know why you're scared? Looks like your dad's illness was fine two months ago, right?
She said: I also had a sickness two months ago.
5. How many years have you been married? How many years has Dad been in your house?
She said: I have been married for ten years, and my father has lived for seven years.
6. Why does he live in your house?
She said: Dad can't cook at home.
7. He can't cook is the result he should have, he doesn't cherish his wife, your husband has to make the decision of your family, how much money do you give your mother-in-law to serve your father? Why don't you hire a babysitter for your father? Is your mother-in-law obligated to support your father? You also said that my dad had to eat before eight o'clock, and he would get angry if he didn't eat, who was he? Angry? Your mother-in-law's family has been cooking for your dad for so long for eight lifetimes, do you have a word of thanks? Who gave you the confidence that your mother-in-law had to take care of your dad?
She said: Those who give birth to sons have to take care of their parents, and those who give birth to daughters should die!
8. He should be taken care of by you, why should you let your mother-in-law take care of him? Don't go home, take the money to rent a house for your father to take care of, you hire a nanny. I mean, why should you let your mother-in-law take care of it? Which of your father's diseases is not due to you? Your father's food has to be cooked by your mother-in-law, why don't you do it?
She said, "I go to work."
9. Why do you go to work?
She said, "Feed my dad."
10. Didn't your mother-in-law feed your father? Give your mother-in-law the money you earned! What did you do when you got married? Ten years ago, you knew why you got married? You bullied your in-laws to death. What is my husband doing in Dalian now?
She said: He runs a barbecue restaurant.
11. Your mother-in-law is gone, too! What are you doing in Dalian?
She said: I will go during the holidays, and my mother-in-law asked me to take the children and my father to go, and she went back to her hometown.
12. This is called yin to yang injury. Your mother-in-law knows that children can't do without their fathers, they can't do without their fathers, you can't do without their fathers, and when she leaves, you deceive people too much! It is a crime to bully honest people, how can you bully such a kind and honest mother-in-law? Your husband left the family and did business, and you sued your mother-in-law, and your husband asked his mother to come over, but the child stopped going to school, and your husband said let the child come too! You can't take care of your father, and your mother-in-law can take care of you, and you're still picky. Don't talk about filial piety and respect for your husband, you don't have any good intentions, you are the scum of traditional culture, how do your mother-in-law and husband view family culture? You didn't go to class to learn like this? What do the people around you say? What do you think? Your sister doesn't stay in the live broadcast room to see you like a bear. Which class touched you?
She said: Teacher Jia said how to do the Tao of kindness.
13. You just look at how Teacher Jia does her mother-in-law, and you see that your mother-in-law is far from enough.
She said: I am looking at how Teacher Jia behaves as a loving mother.
14. How do you compare?
She said: I beat and scolded the child, I shouldn't be able to beat and scold my husband and make her angry with liver cancer.
15. You are a point-type yin and yang injury, your dad is sick on the left and sick on the right, you push your dad to hell, what is the most important thing for us to be wives and mothers?
She said: Filial piety to her parents-in-law, respect for her husband...
16. How should I be filial to my in-laws?
She said: You can't talk back to your mother-in-law, and you can't give your mother-in-law a face.
17. How should I be filial? How did Xiao Shuang do it? What did the post-80s generation do? What are you doing in Dalian? Do you know why you marry your husband? Is it to run for the house bride price?
She said: I'm too tired to stand it.
18. What are you doing?
She said: I have to take care of everything at home, and I have to break a light bulb.
19. Who doesn't change a light bulb? Using you to make light bulbs, this little work is tiring? Just want to eat enough? Isn't changing a light bulb a job that can be done while talking? It's a lazy thing, you are the life of the young lady's body.
She said: My colleague buys a bracelet and buys a necklace.
20. Can you compare something else? What are the conditions of your home? Do you have that blessing? You are compared to others, you are poorer than now, worse than now, who should not pay to your parents? Do you have that blessing to compare with others? You find another one to try, and I'll kill you... What did you do to your mother-in-law, no one supports you when you are old, and you are still compared with others, especially more flashy?
She said: It used to be like this.
21. At that time, you were too tired to find a partner, and you studied at home to listen to lectures professionally, what is the purpose of getting married now?
She said: filial piety to parents-in-law, respect for husbands, love for children and harmony with concubines.
22. What did you do when you got married after talking about the day before yesterday? Filial piety, helping husbands, and doing the way. Your husband and your mother-in-law are not waiting for school, and you have delayed the old thing. What are you doing when I lecture? I was the microphone, and the lecture was very clear. When Mr. Kaimo was lecturing in Fushun Nursing Home, there was an uncle who couldn't hear with his ears, and this is what he meant when he said it, and the class he listened to with his heart was the same as what Mr. Kaimo said, and people without ears could understand what Mr. Kaimo said. If you listen to anyone with your heart, you can understand what he says. You can't make money, your father can't raise it, your children can't take care of it, you can't take care of your children, and you can't take care of your children, so you have to take on a lot of light bulbs. Mother-in-law takes care of your father, and you still think that your mother-in-law cooks late. Have you come into the world to do evil? Be a daughter to your mother and you will kill her, be a daughter of your father and kill her, be a daughter-in-law of your mother-in-law and make her angry to death, and be a daughter-in-law of your husband and drag him to death. Be a mother to your daughter, and you let her not go to school in the second grade.
Your father's illness caused by the yang and yin injuries, the homelessness that your mother-in-law made you clean up, and the daughter who made you not go to school, is your foreign debt because of you? You shouldn't have a knot in your heart from beginning to end, listening to a day's lessons.
She said, "I want to listen to my husband."
23. What did your husband tell you?
She said: I take care of the children at home and listen to the classes.
24. Your child didn't take good classes and didn't listen well, his father didn't take care of him, his husband didn't help him, his mother-in-law ran away, and the second-grade children didn't go to school... What do you eat? You are lawless, who dares to say that you are? Why can't my mother-in-law cook for my dad? Why can't you cook before eight o'clock? Your mother-in-law was saved by your father? Is your mother-in-law scared? Your mom told your dad to beat it up, that's what your mom owes your dad. Why did you ask your mother-in-law to cook for your dad? Who gave you the face? Why do you ask your mother-in-law to cook for your dad? What class do you attend? Went to work before eight o'clock? You complain to your husband about your mother-in-law. The husband took his mother-in-law over. You save a small coffer for your mother's family. It is a crime to bully honest people, and my mother-in-law is honest to the extreme. Do you learn the Tao and don't know that what you are doing is not virtuous? Your mother-in-law cooks for your father, enough for you to serve your children, and is there no gratitude at all? Didn't you take it to heart after you learned a little? You came for your husband's kindness to you, and you learned to be so disgusting. People who don't learn are 10,000 times better than you, you know? People who don't learn know a truth. You have to say that no matter whether my father is right or wrong, my mother-in-law has no obligation to be filial to my father. Do you know that filial piety to my dad should be my business? In fact, it stands to reason that I shouldn't let my dad come to our house, my dad is very troublesome, your old man cooks three meals a day for my dad. I really don't know how to thank you old man... And you completely treat your mother-in-law as a slave, and you don't give your mother-in-law any money for a nanny, and you have to make your mother-in-law happy, it's just too ruthless, and you don't have a little gratitude. Where did the Tao come from?
She said, "Okay."
25. Are you okay? Haven't you ever moved your heart at all about your daughter-in-law who talks about filial piety every day? What did you do to your mother-in-law? What kind of ways have you walked?
She said: "My mother-in-law had kidney stone surgery, and I begged F to give my mother-in-law my life.
26. Kidney stones can't kill people, her illness is your anger. The doctor sued your mother-in-law for kidney stones and died? Who let her get kidney stones? Have you ever cooked a meal for your mother-in-law? Didn't you thank your mother-in-law? From the bottom of my heart, is my mother-in-law's cooking delicious? Mother-in-law, what's wrong with you, you don't like her, and you still squeeze her?
She said: Because she and my dad are at odds.
27. Why don't you run on your dad? What do you think of your mother-in-law?
She said: Slaves.
28. Isn't it? You treat me as a slave and have to serve your father happily. Are you dead? Don't you know that there is a heavenly principle? If you are active and temperate, you will be disastrous, if you violate morality, your conscience will be sick, and your fear comes from doing evil. Did you hear Xinlan's part about her mother-in-law? Don't feel it at all? People treat the paralyzed mother-in-law as a baby, and you treat the mother-in-law who treats you as a cow and a horse as a slave. Can you get it right? Aren't you afraid every time you destroy your mother-in-law? Aren't you afraid at all? Are you afraid? As far as your squeeze on your mother-in-law, complaining and preaching, aren't you afraid at all? Xinlan called me my mother to give me virtue, and you damaged my old virtue. As long as I know you, I can't learn from you, and if you don't learn, I'm better than you, how bad a teacher can teach you to be such a conscienceless student, the old gentleman's family way makes thousands of families harmonious and happy, what do you want to do? I'm a little more confident, if you take a live broadcast from beginning to end, just one class, if there is no touch at all, I don't believe it. As long as you listen attentively to a class, she won't be like this. No matter what day it is, there will be a harvest, a huge harvest. I know the root cause of illness, the root of debt, the root of my child's problems, and the unity of the three worlds to settle down in the present and listen to the lectures. These people downstairs have been more than 40 days, repenting every day, beating themselves every day, and have endless regrets, I feel that today's vice wheat is me, and yesterday's side wheat is that I will have a harvest and feelings. I owe too much to my parents, too much to my in-laws, too much to my other half, too much to my children, so many times of connecting microphones, so many days of explanations, has your heart not moved? What did you find?
She said: My mother-in-law treats me like her own daughter, no matter what I do, she is me in her heart, I am wrong.
29. Mother-in-law gives you motherly love, mother-in-law is not more personal than you are personal, how righteous is your husband, your husband loves you like a daughter, you just blindly ask for it, what is the point of living like you? You haven't been moving at all after three years of study, and you're a debt collector, and your mom said don't go out to work in the autumn soon, and your dad scolds me when he's tired. Your mother is begging you for help, why do you have to go out to work when your mother begs you so much? You know that your mother is extremely fragile, and your father scolding your mother will make your mother unable to live and die, why do you want to go out?
She said: First, I want to go out to earn money, and second, I don't want to listen to my father's scolding.
30. Didn't you think your mom used you as an umbrella? You can protect your mother when you grow up, do you want your mother to die early? Your dad scolded your mom for deserving it. Your mother is sixty pounds thin, and she can't do anything, so you can do some work at home and let your father scold less. As a result, as soon as you left, your mother became very sick, and then she was in a coma for three months, she didn't want to face this family and this husband, your mother couldn't live and couldn't die, you gave your mother ten years of life, you let your mother suffer from hell for seven years, did you take care of your mother? Did you protect your mom? You get tired of changing a light bulb and marry yourself off. Even your neighbors are compassionate, and you are a femme fatale. How many years did you marry and your mother died?
She said: Three years.
31. Is your father still scolding your mother for seven years?
She said: Don't scold.
32. Who takes care of it? Who does the laundry and cook for him?
She said: I took care of it for a year, and my father took care of it.
33. You also pout and take care of your cheeks all year round, have you let your mother enjoy a day of happiness? Your mom won't let you go, your mom has a high fever, your mom is so angry, scared of fear, you're scared of fear, do you see your mother's fear? Your dad scolds your mom, how does your mom feel?
She said: Sometimes I cry, sometimes I still talk, sometimes I don't squeak.
34. What can she do, he still scolded her to death in such a physical condition, she begged her daughter to save her, her daughter couldn't last a year at home and got married quickly, are you a filial person? In such a family, if you don't want to get married, you have to find an old son-in-law, your father scolds people as soon as she works, and her mother is frail and sickly, and she is more than 60 pounds and thin. You brought your mom back to life, why don't you take care of her? Have you ever thought about how your mother will live when you get married? You covet real estate, covet bride price, have you thought about what to do if you marry this family? Have you ever thought about what your mother should do when you work?
She said: I take care of the family with my subject.
35. What do you give him in return? He buys you a house, gives you a bride price, and supports your father. What does it mean to be in good hands? What did you give back to your husband? He was giving from beginning to end. What did you do?
She said: I dislike my husband for complaining about my mother-in-law.
36. When the kindness of a little water between friends is reciprocated, you hope that your family will be good to your father, have you reciprocated them? Why don't you reciprocate?
She said: I changed it but I couldn't control it, and my mother-in-law said that I would do it with my mother-in-law. Then I apologized to my mother-in-law when I knew I was wrong, coaxed my mother-in-law, and once my mother-in-law asked me to go out to work, I didn't go out, I missed my home, I went out to work and came back very tired, I had back pain, the child came to touch me, I beat the child, my mother-in-law came over and said what was wrong, I quarreled with my mother-in-law, I went out, I couldn't let my mother-in-law worry in the middle of the night I came back again, the next morning I went to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law cried and wanted to leave.
37. What else does my mother-in-law do? Do you still want this family to be good? How can it be good?
She said, "I'm all right."
38. How can you be good?
She said, "I listen to my husband's filial piety to my mother-in-law."
39. How do you honor your mother-in-law?
She said: I don't want my mother-in-law to go, I don't want her to go back to her hometown alone, I won't do it.
40. What about conscience? Is your mother-in-law obligated to serve your father? What should you do if your mother-in-law cooks for your dad?
She said: Thank her.
41. How to be grateful? You said that taking care of my dad should be my business, my dad has no son and no choice but me to take care of it, you and your son gave me such an opportunity, and you also took care of my dad for me, a kindness can not be repaid. You are too aggressive, and you are taking advantage of the kindness of your mother-in-law and husband to you. It's natural for you to take care of your father, and your husband can also tell you to take care of your father and take care of your daughter, isn't it right? He wants you to dislike my mom and let my mom come to me, right? You are now completely in line with today's article, and the Three Realms can be liberated by cultivating together. If you don't implement the class, it's like eating a vegetarian diet and reciting Buddha almsgiving, but you don't do anything at all, filial piety to your parents-in-law, respect for your husband, and love for your children and daughters, filial piety to your parents-in-law, respect for your husband, and loving children can make your mother's family borrow light, and you can't do anything, your mother-in-law sings that you owe me in this life, can you pay it back in the next life? You know everything, there is a way in heaven that you don't go to, and there is no door to hell for you to enter. Why don't you believe it? Are you to die? When you get married, you have to be filial to your husband and help your husband do the right thing, this is called doing your best to cause and effect, why do you have such a father and mother? You have to change the light bulbs, what are you doing now? How do you do Mom and Dad? How did you destroy your girl?
She said: I accompany her, thinking about what I want to do and I don't do it, so I go to the sofa to do the cleaning or listen to the class.
42. Why do you lie on the couch and ignore your child's homework? If you can accompany your child to finish his homework, won't the child have to be punished and scolded? Can't you do big things, you can't do small things, you can't do housework? Your child is punished to stand for half a day, pick up the child today and you will tell the child that we are determined not to punish the station today, finish your homework and buy you toys, adults have a big face, villains have a small face, you let the child stand at school.
She said: Because of the money, I beat the child on the road, and when I came home, her grandmother said that her classmates at school beat her in the mouth, slapped her in the face, and said that she was looking for her mother to settle accounts, I called her classmate's mother, and said what happened to my child, she taught him that the child was bullied by others and hit people in the mouth, I said are you talking about human words? My girl won't let me call, so she deleted WeChat. The husband asked the child to take the test, but the teacher refused to let him.
43. The root of your child's bullying lies in you, the second is to find the teacher to react, and the third is to use empathy. I treat every student as if they were my own. I've changed, my daughter is also liked by the teacher, what do we do to bully the child for lack of morality? You have harmed your mother's family, your in-laws' family, and your husband... Filial piety to the in-laws to overcome all difficulties, respect the husband's children and grandchildren. Everyone will always remember that mothers can't protect their children, you are pigs, you have to distinguish between right and wrong, some teachers do a particularly good job, and some don't know what's going on? I don't argue with you or tell you, my own children are responsible for themselves, and the second-grade children are no longer in school, do you know how much the children have endured? Why don't you give it to your child? Why don't you look for a teacher? You are looking for parents, are you a person who is filial to your relatives and respects your teacher? Do you have that virtue? Some women have no virtue and no charisma. Some people are upright, some people are bullied wherever they go, you are powerful outside, and you are nothing when you go out, why are your children beaten in the mouth?
She said: I bullied my husband and mother-in-law.
44. You have done all the things that lack virtue and made me scold today. What I say to you today is detrimental to my virtue, but I have to do my best to cause and effect. You are my yin, I treat you like this, my family, my children? Without me, you are too arrogant, who would dare to say you? My role is a teacher, if I don't say a word of justice, your mother-in-law will be bullied to death, can your father be okay? Can your husband be okay? Can your mother-in-law be okay? Do you still think well? Can your family be okay? I once said to Teacher Zhu that you don't go home, as soon as you come back, you deprived your daughter-in-law of the opportunity to give her mother filial piety, he didn't go home, I said come back quickly, your daughter-in-law is the person in charge of the home and the classroom, and she can save her daughter from suffering by becoming a model for women in the future.
Teacher Kaimo trained me in the evening, and the next day Teacher Kaimo was trained by a female student, one by one. I've been teaching seed classes for more than ten years, what don't you understand? But this woman does not teach her a lesson. People like you can't do anything if they don't give you some karma, you can't do it, you can't do it, you can't do it, you can't do it. The seed I have planted will bear its own fruit. I had her in my bones when I listened to her, but could I do that? Because she's been listening to it for three years, I have to connect. It's not a big deal, but she's been listening to it for three years, can I do it without caring about this family? Let's do it well, we can't do it if the Tao is too clear, you don't mean to harm people, you can do it if I understand it.
I know what's next for me, I can control my temper, but I can't do that. F is not ignorant of cause and effect, I know what I will bear if I do this, but I still have to do it, and I don't care about the destruction of my family, I scold. I was saved, my life was saved by my parents, ancestors, teachers, and sages, we can't let the family say hello to the family, the old gentleman is to save our women from suffering, see the man, our woman is good family. Will you not be a scourge in the future? Do you have filial piety to your mother? Are you really filial to your father? Have you seen your mother-in-law as a human being? What else can you do with your husband but ask for it? Is you responsible for your daughter? The second grader endured so much that you don't care about it. Is your daughter reluctant to go to school? Do you want to go to school? Why can't I go to school? Because there are things going on at school that are particularly painful for you. You have fear of going to school, is it right? It's not that the child doesn't want to go to school, it's that the child has encountered a stuck point. Have you researched your child's stuck points? You can even call the teacher and clean it up. Second-grade children are extremely simple, is the child good? Children love school, you haven't let your child go to school for two months, you have failed too many people, are you wrong? Such a good child was delayed, did you live up to your husband's favor for you? Did you live up to your mother-in-law's mother-in-law's love for you? If you live up to your daughter's trust in you, who else have you disappointed?
She said, "Teacher."
45. Why don't you believe a word, don't do it at all, you live up to the old man's family culture, and today you do your husband's omnipotent homework, and you can't find it without eating or sleeping. Looking for my mother-in-law tomorrow, your daughter believes in me better than you, I have taught you well, I can't live up to your daughter's trust in me, and I can't let your husband and mother-in-law think about the family way, you have to hold up this family. If you slap the child again, I will slap my own face, and I am lacking in virtue if I don't teach you well. You can listen to my class for three years, I have to take care of you, you have to be grateful and respectful to your mother-in-law, you have to listen to your husband, he is so good to you! You are my own person, and if you are asked to disown me, I will agree, because he treats you better than your mother treats you. You turned over your conscience and told me about your experience, and you washed my mother-in-law's feet on my knees for a month, and you said that this is my debt to my mother. You and your husband said that my mother takes care of the family of three like this, and my mother takes care of my father, shouldn't I do this? If you don't let me wash me, I'll slap myself in the mouth for a day to make up for the damage I did to my mother-in-law.
I was also completely changed at the age of 35, you have a mother-in-law who loves us without a bottom line, a quarrelsome original family, a lovely daughter, I made me a teacher's pride, can you? Now that happiness has beckoned to me, my mother-in-law cooked for us, and we hugged my mother-in-law on our backs and said that you are working too hard, wipe your sweat for your mother-in-law, mother-in-law, you are resting, you are sitting. You let me stir-fry and you teach me, as soon as you enter the house, what did you do? Why is it so fragrant, when I eat it, I say that I love to eat the food you cook is the taste of my mother. Mom, can I want to eat your cooking when I'm 90? I make my mother-in-law happy every day. It's better to be to your mother-in-law than to your own family, and don't save a small treasury anymore and tell your husband. If you have to favor someone, you must favor your mother-in-law first, because your mother-in-law gave birth to such a good husband. You're just right for her. Got it? If it weren't for your mother-in-law, you wouldn't have been able to have such a good husband, and you wouldn't have been able to give birth to such a reasonable, well-behaved and sensible daughter, treat her well, and you can do a good job of honoring your husband so that your father can borrow your virtue. Remember?
She said: What should I do if my mother-in-law is leaving when I go to Dalian?
46. Hurry up and turn over your conscience, she won't go if you turn it over. In the future, where you go, where your mother-in-law goes, you say Mom, you give me a chance to atone for my sins.
She said, "I took my dad and had nowhere to live."
47. You take your father to Dalian Paradise, the children can go to school, and set a small example for the post-80s and post-90s to open home care. Wishing your family and all the best [pray]
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