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Early one morning in June 2018, Li Zixiong was excited to hold his newborn baby, even though he was 59 years old at the time, and he was also the father of his wife Fatimah Yaqi's second child, who had just given birth.
Although Yaqi is very tired, she has a happy smile on her face, and everything looks so good as she lies in the hospital bed.
Li Zixiong carefully sat next to his wife, looked at her sweaty forehead affectionately, and said in a gentle tone: "Honey, you have worked hard. Then he gently imprinted a kiss on her forehead, his eyes full of pampering and gratitude.
After years of hard work and waiting, they finally ushered in this beloved new life. Li Zixiong had mixed feelings in his heart, and the bits and pieces of the past passed through his mind like a marquee.
At this moment, all his frustration and bitterness, his emotions after divorcing his ex-wife, the obstacles to meeting and falling in love with Fatimah Yaqi, and her anxiety and hesitation when she was difficult to conceive, were all relieved.
At this moment, he felt extremely satisfied and joyful.
Whenever the baby cries from time to time, Li Zixiong will gently hold it to his chest, and then watch it with gentle eyes to soothe it to sleep. Whenever this happens, his eyes become extremely soft, as if he is loving this baby that the whole family has been waiting for for many years.
Li Zixiong firmly told himself: "This time I must fulfill the responsibility of a competent father." Recalling that he neglected to take care of his eldest son in the past, which made him miss too much of his growing up, Li Zixiong's heart was full of regret and self-blame.
But now that he has a chance to make amends, he decided to go all out and manage this father-son relationship from scratch.
The nurse walked in in time and thoughtfully asked Li Zixiong to take the child for a walk in the corridor outside the ward to avoid disturbing Fatimah Yaqi's rest. Li Zixiong nodded in agreement, and carefully walked out with the child in his arms.
Although the years have given his head two heavens of ice and fire, at this moment, the excitement of his new life in his arms still makes him like a teenager.
Li Zixiong looked down at the sleeping child, in a happy mood. He was a 59-year-old man who never imagined that he would still be able to enjoy family life. Walking down the quiet corridor, the corners of his mouth couldn't help but rise.
Sometimes fate is really magical, as if the old man who is about to pass the twilight of his life can also rediscover the joy and dreams of his childhood.
"You'll have Daddy by your side from now on, little one." Li Zixiong looked at the child with tender eyes and muttered to himself. He had spent countless nights tossing and turning, wondering if they would have missed so much time with their eldest son if they had spent more time with them.
God gave him another chance, and he will definitely try to grasp it and not let the regret happen again.
Li Zixiong once again recalled the experience of meeting and falling in love with Fatimah Yaqi, and he couldn't help but feel a burst of emotion in his heart. That had to go back to 2009, when he was shooting a film in the mainland, and Fatimah Yaqi was one of his co-actors.
Although Fatimah Yaqi and Li Zixiong are 23 years apart, on the set, they are like-minded like long-time friends. Yaqi is young, beautiful, lively and cute, in stark contrast to Li Zixiong's calm and old.
It is this contrast that allows the two to always talk speculatively after work, as if they are close friends who talk about everything.
At first, Fatimah Yaqi only regarded this friendship as a relationship between friends, and did not develop deeply. Because she was deeply hurt by her predecessor Zhang Tielin, she lost confidence in love and thought that she was destined to be lonely for a lifetime.
But as time passed, Li Zixiong's sincerity and dedication gradually touched her heartstrings. He personally guided Fatimah in his work, did everything himself, and was also very considerate in life, caring about her every bit of it.
At first, Fatimah only saw this as an ordinary friendship, but when she realized that Li Zixiong's actions were not malicious, her heart began to waver.
One night, Li Zixiong finally mustered up the courage to get down on one knee and confess affectionately to Fatimah Yaqi. He said that although he knew that there was an age gap between them, he really loved her and hoped that she would give him a chance.
Fatimah Yaqi didn't expect that Li Zixiong, a restrained and calm old actor, would also show himself so enthusiastically. At that moment, Fatimah Yaqi was deeply touched, as if he saw too many sincere emotions in Li Zixiong's eyes.
"I'm willing to give you a chance." When Fatimah Yaqi said this, Li Zixiong's hands couldn't help but tremble slightly, and he nodded vigorously, his eyes full of longing and expectation.
However, it is not an easy task to get a future mother-in-law. Fatimah Yaqi's mother, who had witnessed the pain of her daughter's previous relationship, was adamantly opposed to the marriage.
Li Zixiong put a lot of effort into reassuring his mother-in-law. He expressed his love affectionately and sincerely, promising to marry Fatimah Yaqi immediately, and even expressed his willingness to settle down and live in the mainland for her.
After a period of hard work, Li Zixiong's sincerity finally moved his mother and agreed to their marriage. In 2010, they held a grand wedding in Beijing, and the atmosphere was lively and full of joy.
The mother burst into tears and wept of joy because she saw that her daughter had finally found her own happiness.
From acquaintance to acquaintance, love, and finally entering the marriage hall, the relationship between Li Zixiong and Fatimah Yaqi has gone through a complete process. They interpreted the meaning of true love with practical actions, and also laid a sweeter tone for their future married life.
After marriage, life was uneventful, and the only regret was that Fatimah Yaqi had never been able to get pregnant. Faced with this problem, Li Zixiong did not complain, but was more considerate and supportive of her.
In fact, the reason why Fatimah Yaqi is cautious and attaches importance to her feelings is because of her heartbreaking experience with her ex Zhang Tielin.
At the age of only 17, Fatimah Yaqi was fascinated by Zhang Tielin, who was 25 years older than her, and she decided to be with him desperately. Although her family was very opposed to their relationship, she didn't take it to heart when she was young, and only hoped to be with Zhang Tielin forever.
However, this love failed to reach the end because Zhang Tielin couldn't bear the criticism and pressure brought about by the huge age gap.
In the end, he chose to turn his back on Fatimah Yaqi and let it go coldly and resolutely.
What is worrying is that although Fatimah Yaqi gave birth to a child for Zhang Tielin, Zhang Tielin still ignored their mother and son, completely abandoning this once small family.
The experience was undoubtedly a heavy blow to the young Fatimah Yaqi. There was a time when she lost faith in love, felt that she was destined to be lonely for the rest of her life, and even dared not easily trust other people's promises.
Therefore, when Li Zixiong sincerely revealed his inner world, Fatimah Yaqi fell into a struggle and struggle inside. She fears that history will repeat itself and suffer the hurt and betrayal of love again.
Fatimah Yaqi's doubts were dispelled by Li Zixiong's actions and sincere love, which was a lucky result.
In addition to this marriage with Fatimah Yaqi, Li Zixiong's love life has actually had twists and turns. His first wife's name was Fang Xiaohong.
In the good wishes of relatives and friends, in 1994, Li Zixiong married Ms. Fang Xiaohong, a very outstanding woman in the film and television industry at that time. Fang Xiaohong not only has an outstanding appearance, but also is generous and behaves appropriately on any occasion.
More importantly, she is a kind, virtuous, virtuous and generous woman, and is the most suitable partner for Li Zixiong.
In order to devote herself to the family, Fang Xiaohong was willing to give up her career, take care of the housework wholeheartedly, and become an excellent housewife.
At first, Li Zixiong had very high expectations for this traditional model of "male protagonist outside, female protagonist inside". He believes that if the husband only focuses on making money and the wife takes care of the family full-time, then both parties can do their jobs and the family will naturally be more happy and harmonious.
However, the reality is far from the imagination. As time passed, the circles of life between the two became more and more different, and the common topics also decreased. At that time, Li Zixiong's career was at its peak, and he was nervously busy every day in a flickering environment.
However, Fang Xiaohong was trapped by housework and could not truly integrate into her husband's social circle. Despite her efforts to make as much time as possible to go home with her, she still feels like an outsider.
The couple's relationship was temporarily relieved by the birth of their child in 1995, but soon they returned to their old lifestyle, with conversations revolving only around the child and other topics not being able to unfold.
Fang Xiaohong spends every day in the busyness of housework and taking care of her son, and bears the bitterness of being a wife and mother alone.
In 1996, Li Zixiong became instantly popular for starring in the TV series "Heaven and Earth Boy", and his career reached a peak. However, at this moment, the conflict between him and his wife intensified.
Every time she goes home, Fang Xiaohong is always so busy that it is difficult to even say hello, and the promised things are often not fulfilled.
They have all worked hard to save the marriage and made their own concessions. However, they still couldn't reverse the trend of unhappy marriages, and one day in 2007, they finally chose to break up.
The court ruled that custody of the son belonged to the mother, Fang Xiaohong.
Looking back on his past experience, Li Zixiong was full of emotion. He was keenly aware of the outdated and stereotypical notion that only men were allowed to work outside the home and women had to do housework at home.
In today's society, there are no boundaries between men and women, and only through mutual understanding and support can families progress in a stable and harmonious manner.
Recalling the breakdown of his marriage to Fang Xiaohong, Li Zixiong had to bitterly admit a regrettable truth: his busy career led him to fail to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband and father.
No one expected that he was originally just a small cosplayer, but he became an instant hit because of his wonderful performance in a TV series, and was known as the highly respected "No. 1 villain" in the Hong Kong film industry for more than 20 years, showing his amazing acting skills and strength.
His eyes are vicious and fierce, hard and fierce, which makes many viewers feel terrified. His strength has also been unanimously recognized by industry insiders.
In 1996, Li Zixiong starred in "Heaven and Earth Boy" as the second male lead, and his acting skills were recognized by the audience, and his career gradually rose. He became an actor favored by many directors and quickly rose to become a first-line powerhouse on the Hong Kong screen.
However, at the peak of his career, the conflict between him and his wife Fang Xiaohong gradually intensified.
After each trip, Li Zixiong returned home, and he would always see his wife Fang Xiaohong exhausted. She was so well organized that she was exhausted.
At that time, his son was only more than 1 year old, and when he couldn't stop crying, Fang Xiaohong was the only one in the family who was coaxing and taking care of him.
Li Zixiong knew that he should do more housework and spend more time with his family, but the two could not be done at the same time. He can only focus on his career for the time being, in order to earn more income to ensure the livelihood of his family.
Every time he saw the tired faces of his wife and son, he couldn't calm down.
In busy times, Li Zixiong tries to find time to spend time with his family, but this method can only alleviate the temporary problem, but does not solve the root problem. Although his wife is relieved on the surface, everyone can see the anxiety and insecurity in her heart.
The man, who was actually the father, was often instinctively ostracized by his son.
Years later, with the gradual accumulation of contradictions, an inevitable outbreak was finally formed. The gap in the marriage gradually widens to the point where it is irretrievable, and both parties finally decide to end the relationship.
Later, Li Zixiong reflected on himself many times in the middle of the night, whether he was too greedy and short-sighted? But no matter how much he regretted it, nothing could be changed. The only thing that is fortunate is that this lesson has given him a deep understanding of what is the most important thing in life.
So after getting married, he decided to make up for his past neglect and lack of family with a more positive attitude.
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