The daughter jokingly told her father to be kicked behind her back, lawyer: It is illegal to beat a child like this

Lawyer Zhou Zhaocheng

2024-06-18 18:01Published in Henan Beijing Yifa Law Firm lawyer

The first time I watched it, I couldn't understand how my own daughter could be so ruthless?

The second time I watched it, I understood, it was because it was my own daughter, I thought I had no responsibility for fighting, so I could do it!

The child called his father behind his back, which was obviously an act of releasing intimacy, and he also wanted to arouse the same feelings as his father, but in exchange for a flying kick.

I don't dare to think how much psychological shadow this kick will leave on the child - it may be that the true emotions in my heart will be closed from now on, and I am reluctant to interact with others; It is also possible to become inferior and sensitive from then on, and can no longer release the true life force.

Many parents don't understand when their children have psychological problems, and always ask, "How can there be problems when they usually eat and drink well?" ”

The answer lies in every criticism and scolding.

Like this video, the child is really naughty and makes mistakes, and it is not impossible for parents to use the "right of punishment" to educate them, but what did this child do wrong?

To put it bluntly, it was this father who wanted to find a weak person to vent his negative emotions in his heart, and the child just happened to bump into him at this time. After all, for this kind of person, the only thing that can be harmed without cost in life is children.

This is the typical "kicking cat effect" in psychology, people's dissatisfaction and bad mood will be passed down layer by layer along the chain of social relations composed of hierarchy and strength, and the last link with nowhere to vent will become the ultimate victim. Mental illness is also transmitted from generation to generation in this way.

Legally speaking, this kind of violence is purely for the purpose of venting, which has gone beyond the category of "education" and "punishment", and is a typical "domestic violence".

The Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China clearly stipulates that:

Guardians of minors shall conduct family education in a civilized manner, perform guardianship and education duties in accordance with law, and must not commit domestic violence.

Otherwise, if it constitutes a violation of the administration of public security, it shall be punished in accordance with law; where a crime is constituted, criminal responsibility is pursued in accordance with law.

Generally speaking, if the circumstances are relatively minor, the police will issue a "Domestic Violence Warning" and serve it on the parties and the neighborhood committee, who will supervise the return visit, and if the offense is repeated, it will be dealt with severely.

If the circumstances are serious, it will be dealt with in accordance with Article 43 of the "Public Security Administration Punishment Law" for "assaulting others, or intentionally injuring others", and beating a minor under the age of 14 is an aggravating circumstance, and the maximum penalty is 15 days of detention and a fine.

Of course, there is also Article 45, "Abuse of family members", and if the victim requests to be dealt with, he or she can be detained for up to 5 days or given a warning.

In more serious cases, they may be sentenced to prison for "intentional injury" or "abuse."

Of course, the greatest retribution for such a person is not the law, but the fate created by his own character.

A person who can fly and kick his daughter must also have huge flaws in dealing with people and dealing with people.

You should have also seen this kind of emotionally unstable people, they are always difficult to gain the favor of nobles and opportunities - the more they fail, the more they will continue to fail, and then they will violently transmit the anxiety of failure to their families, and the children will grow up to be separated from him, and in the end they can only reap a failed and bleak life - the so-called karmic cycle of Buddhism is roughly like this.

Speaking of this incident, I saw that there were already many netizens in the comment area in the local women's federation and the police, so I also hope that the relevant departments can pay attention to intervene and give this father who can only "intimidate" a little bit of legal "intimidation" - after all, this is the way he can best understand the dialogue.

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