Every day, people not only have to eat, but also talk a lot
People have long mouths, not only to eat, but also to speak, to sing, to debate, and even to scold. Speaking is a basic skill. The need to survive and live, in addition to the instinct to eat, is to speak. We need to talk a lot every day. It's normal to speak, but if you don't speak, people will treat you as dumb. In fact, even mute people have a normal desire to express, and many times when they are in a hurry, they will shout "wah-wah-wah-wah", and even use exaggerated gestures and expressions to express what they want to express in their hearts.
People's expressions are generally carried out in the form of speaking, you say I listen, or I say you listen. However, most of this expression is about communicating with others.
However, people will think, perceive, experience and summarize, and fantasize and long. All of this needs to be thought about with the heart, and the process of thinking is the communication with one's own heart. If we make a sound during a conversation, we call it self-talk; If you don't make a sound, you're digesting yourself in the depths of your soul.
Many times, people talk to their own hearts
In fact, we are talking to our hearts all the time, because every step we take in our lives is to make decisions with our hearts. Before deciding, talk to your heart and discuss with yourself what to do; After the decision is made, talk to the heart, let the heart put aside all obstacles of thought, and direct any part of the body to carry out the action.
Every one of our lives has come into the world for no reason. It is nominally the crystallization of the love of his parents, but all of them are coincidences of the meeting and fusion of essence and blood. Starting from the croaking ground, the journey of life is destined to taste the ups and downs. The reason why we are so sensitive to all kinds of flavors is that we have a heart. We are constantly whispering to our hearts, so that every taste is vividly engraved in our memory. I have to say that memory is a sharp knife of time, carving the vicissitudes of our life.
When we talk to our hearts, what we see in front of us is the real life, whether it is bitter or sweet and we can experience it ourselves; What flashes in the memory is the bits and pieces of the past, whether it is sorrow or joy, which is recalled by ourselves; For the future, there are too many variables, it is difficult to predict, and it is difficult to grasp, whether it is a blessing or a curse for us to bear by ourselves.
When you talk to your heart, life shines
The tide rises and falls, the moon lacks the full moon, we always say that this is the law of nature, but we can't help but say that this is also our inner feeling. We whisper with our hearts, often when the tide rises and falls, and the moon lacks a full moon, in exchange for a sigh and sigh. Our thoughts often hover in the ideal world created in the past, which seems to be true and false, dreamy and illusory, and makes us intoxicated, "I don't know what year it is".
It's a dream, and there will come a time when you open your eyes; It's drunk, and there will be a time when the mind is clear. What do we do when we find out that everything is not ideal, that the world is a lie?
A down-of-the-earth man went to ask a monk who had attained enlightenment: "Others have it, why don't I?" ”
The monk said, "Maybe you have it, but others don't?" ”
The down-and-out man was speechless for a while, but he was still unwilling: "Why do others have it, but I can't get it." ”
The monk also said: "What you should get will naturally be obtained, and what you should not get, even if you get it, it will return to dust." ”
The downcast man was not convinced, so he went to rob and robbed some money, but in the end he also lost his life.
Gains and losses are in the middle of one's own thoughts
Cao Cao Shiyun: "When you sing about wine, life is geometric." For example, the morning dew is bitter in the past. "A person's life, like morning dew, may disappear in the blink of an eye. What can we do and how much can we gain in this short moment? It is our destiny to be a human being, but it cannot be a reason for us to be sad, discouraged, and degenerate, but should become the driving force for us to live a good life. There are many people in the world who are down, even the famous Li Bai and Su Shi have been down, let alone us? Moreover, along our way, as long as life exists, as long as there are opportunities, while constantly losing, we are also constantly gaining, I don't know if it is or not?
In the final analysis, we still can't let go of the past, like to be more true to reality, and are not tolerant enough. Sometimes, being too persistent will be of no use except for adding to the sadness. In the quiet days, we can talk to our hearts, and perhaps we can find the right way to make our lives peaceful, bright and beautiful from the gentle whispers.
Peace, light, and beauty come from whispering to the heart