Over the years, people seem to have given the greatest tolerance to marriage, you can not get married, you can also combine old and young, in a word: true love is not sinful, as long as you are willing to get married, you can be understood with anyone.
But in 2013, Lin Jingen's marriage was scolded on the hot search, because at the age of 17, she was going to marry a 57-year-old white-haired old man.
To be honest, the 40-year-old age difference is not the most tangled, but how does a 17-year-old girl seamlessly accept a 57-year-old man? It's creepy to think about.
Lin Jingen became an "Internet celebrity" because of this incident, and became an abnormal personality girl under the freak love of her grandson. But at the same time, people also see the fact that the family of origin is important for a child.
It turned out that the first sin why Lin Jingen made such a rebellious and unreasonable decision was the misfortune of the original family and the irresponsibility of his parents.
Lin Jingen's parents themselves were a failed marriage, and her mother ran away from home during pregnancy because of the discordant relationship between husband and wife, and gave birth to her directly at her grandmother's house, and took her to kindergarten all the way.
Later, Lin Jingen's father Lin Xuping took her home, and since then she has become a lonely girl who is disliked by her father and can't see her mother. And this is the beginning of writing about her tragic fate, and from that moment on, her life is in a state of rush and helplessness.
Lin Xuping doesn't have much patience for his little daughter, or he can't talk about love at all. After all, they are not familiar with each other, and there is a failed marriage in between.
But Lin Xuping is different from his eldest daughter, it is the crystallization of love born when the husband and wife are in good condition, coupled with the eldest daughter's excellent and self-disciplined, after comparing the two, he will definitely tilt the balance of love towards the eldest daughter.
This made Lin Jingen very unwilling, in order to attract her father's attention, she has been doing all kinds of things since she was a child, losing her temper, skipping class, fooling around outside, the girl's rebellion made Lin Xuping unbearable, and disciplined and reprimanded her little daughter again and again, but it didn't matter at all.
Of course, the reason why this is so must be explained that Father Lin is primarily responsible for Lin Jingen's discipline to a large extent, and his impatience and lack of loving restraint will only make the child's heart more lonely.
In this way, the two people are always in a state of opposition, even if they say a word, they will not communicate well, either cynicism or scolding, which will only make the father-daughter relationship worse and worse.
In 2008, when Lin Jingen was 12 years old, Lin Xuping hired a man named Li Kuncheng for her to guide her music.
It was a musician who was 40 years older than his daughter and was a little famous in the music industry, and because of his family's collection of more than 10,000 vinyl records, he was nicknamed "Vinyl Godfather".
When a qualified father asks for a tutor for his daughter, does he have to strictly control the character of the male teacher?
Obviously, Father Lin didn't care about this, and Li Kuncheng's reputation in the circle may not be unknown to him.
After all, Li Kuncheng is a well-known merry ghost, and he has admitted it himself: I like young toothed girls, they are more innocent. Therefore, he cheated on a student of Tainan Girls' High School in his first marriage.
For this reason, Li Kuncheng's wife left him, leaving only two sons.
Since then, Li Kuncheng has almost embarked on the road of freedom, unruliness, and debauchery, if it weren't for the musician's hat on his head, people really couldn't take a second look.
Lin Xuping pushed such a man to his young daughter's side, like sending a big bad wolf into his daughter's warm cabin. Sure enough, Li Kuncheng began to use all his "gentleness" to get close to Lin Jingen.
However, Lin Jingen was still very young at that time, and Li Kuncheng could not wait for her to grow up. In 2009, there were reports that he was in a relationship with a girl who was 20 years younger than him.
Moreover, there is a saying that Li Kuncheng first shot at Lin Jingen's sister, but he didn't expect that his set would not work at all on the little girl.
In the end, there was no way, Li Kuncheng changed his direction, and turned around to move closer to Lin Jingen. Although Kobayashi was rebellious and prickly at that time, he couldn't lose his temper with the gentle and understanding "teacher".
This world has given Xiao Lin too many cold eyes and criticism, and she finally met a man who was good to her, how could she not go to him?
That's why fathers should be more attentive and gentle with their daughters, right? What you don't give, she will look for in others later in life, no matter how much it costs.
In 2013, when Lin Jingen was 17 years old, her father found out that his daughter was in love with the man who could be her grandfather.
He objected, he roared, but to no avail, Xiao Li took out all the spirit of resistance: "I just want to marry him".
The shameless Li Kuncheng took the girl's rebellion as an opportunity, regardless of the opposition of Lin's father and the scolding of netizens, and directly said: "As long as you dare to marry, I will dare to marry." ”
There is a difference of 40 years, but this relationship is like being forced to come together. There are no blessings and flowers, only the reality of the father-daughter severing relationship. But Xiao Lin doesn't care anymore, she has grown so big, she has been spent in loss, and she finally got it once, how could she let go easily?
But what can this kind of love bring to Li Jingen? She dropped out of school, didn't have a job, and stayed by the side of an aging bad old man every day, so she got the so-called "warmth"?
When this relationship has not been forgotten by people, but it turned out to be reported in a hurry, no one could have imagined that Li Kuncheng's excessive squandering life was destined to leave early.
In 2023, Li Kuncheng, who is only 66 years old, will die, and before his death, he had already lived a bad life with Xiaolin. But even so, he didn't think about what his little wife would do after his death, but left all the valuable things in the family to his son.
Got a house with a loan, Xiaolin had no job, so he had to sell it at a low price. This kind of life made her depressed and helpless, and the huge pressure gnawed at her heart day by day, and finally she couldn't bear it anymore.
Lin Jingen collapsed, smashed things and shouted in the cheap hotel, and was finally taken away by the police. In just ten years, the sensational grandson love ushered in a big reversal: the male protagonist is dead, and the female protagonist is crazy......
But is this the end? I'm afraid it's for Li Kuncheng, but not for Lin Jingen, after all, she's only a 27-year-old young man. Remembering what she once said:
"Anyway, I'm a child, and I still have a lot of time, even if I was deceived, I was happy during that time."
Indeed, this sentence is quite classic for 17-year-old Lin Jingen, but it is extremely ironic for the 27-year-old who is crazy now, haven't you been happy? Isn't there still a lot of time? Why did it come to this?
But in the face of such an ending, who can blame? Do you resent Lin Jingen? She was indeed too young to decide her own life. I can only blame her parents and the dead man who didn't know what shamelessness was, you used your selfishness to perform the ultimate evil of human nature in a teenage child.